Why can't women and men be friends?

[Testosterone boy]

Relationships with wopmen are just too fragile.

I used to talk to one girl who waxed enthusiasm for largish phalluses. So I told her that I owned a largish phallus. She quit talking to me except to bitch about nothing really.


Go figure.

 

[PHATchik]

I can't imagine it any other way...when it is right, you just know.

Exactly. And it's just soooo right.

 

[Raptorex]

you ruined all the mystery for her?

 

[Taps]

I think that in general, women and men just have far to many differences to be friendly with each other. Different interests, different values, different priorities, different agendas.

Men can put up with the differences if sex is involved and women can put up with the differences if there's an emotional bond. Without either, it's like a baboon and a chimp trying to find common ground -- they both may be monkeys, but they're still totally different animals.

 

[CFZB]

im drizunk .. so i have no prob being friends with whoever.....wazzzaaaa?

ps...no i dont have a problem !!! i have friday off so tonights the start of my weekend .wooooohooooo!

 

[hanselthecaretaker]

my girl and I have been best friends for 18 years (since we were tots)...never left each others sides, we fight like brother and sister but have never gone to bed mad at each other.

What's really weird is although we have gotten older, she looks the exact same to me...

What you have is very rare. Props to you. Usually sex fucks everything up eventually.

 

[Burning_Inside]

When i was younger I had no issues being just as good of friends with girls as i did guys, but this is because i think homrones played less of a part in things and everyone was kind of on a normal playing field. Once pubery kicks in, things are different. I just personally don't see anything about women that would allow me to become good friends.. For me to become real good friends, i just need that "brotherly" sort of feeling, someone who's on my wavelength with things. I just don't feel a girl can offer this. Honestly i find guys to be more down to earth, rational, and intelligent, and that is what i want and need in a good friend.

 

[Werd]

They most certainly can be.

Lemme ask you men this question? The last time a male/male friendship between you fizzled out did you base it on the fact that he was a guy? Or was it based on something that had to do with character and/or circumstances?

Most of my friends have been guys since I was in kindergarten. Every man that I have become involved with has been my friend first, but I have most certainly not been sexually involved with all of my friends. What does that mean? Nothing... no great mystery here. Either two people get along or they don't. period.

 

[fyxgel]

I think this happens for me too. I knew all of my boyfriends for awhile before I ever went on a date with them.

you see, this is the problem. how the hell are you supposed to really get to know someone if you dont ask them out on a date or spend time with them one on one?

the type of situation you are talking about is unreasonable, and happens say once every 10 years (where u somehow get to know each other real well beforehand)
10 years just to get an audition with someone who may not even be the right mate? pfftt, forget that. you girls are crazy to think that is a good system

 

[Werd]

you see, this is the problem. how the hell are you supposed to really get to know someone if you dont ask them out on a date or spend time with them one on one?

the type of situation you are talking about is unreasonable, and happens say once every 10 years (where u somehow get to know each other real well beforehand)
10 years just to get an audition with someone who may not even be the right mate? pfftt, forget that. you girls are crazy to think that is a good system

God forid you get to know someone irrespective of their gender, right? Maybe hang with someone because they are a good person, intelligent, funny, supportive - youknow, all that shit that has nothing to do with ta-tas.

Oh shit!... a female's value begins and ends with her sex. Silly me. I forgot that for a moment.