no one can judge somebody they have have never seen based on any exercise other than bench. this is because people spout insane numbers on squats because they dont do them correctly, and assume their deadlifts are similar, even though they have never done the first one. but everyone knows that a 200 bench is above average, 300 is damn good, and 400+ is beastly. and they know that lying about it wont work because the movement is simple: touch your chest and press back up. anyone who cheats on bench will get called out on it quickly. especially if they have 14 inch arms.
people cheat on squats and assume that you are not supposed to go past paralell because the idiot high school football coaches dont recommend it. no one sees their bird legs, so has no clue. everyone sees massive chests and arms. Also, noobs assume that since legs are stonger than arms, that they should be stronger on squats than on bench, but this just isn't true. to someone who has never touched a weight, yes, but someone who focus on bench will hands down be able to bench more than squat.
the bench press used to be(dont know anymore) recommended to baseball players to to increase bat power. and i personally know that an increase on 100 pounds of bench press can equate to about 30-40 foot longer home run for me. so bench has its purpose. squat and deadlift better for day-to-day strength hands down, but a strong upper body should in no way be a secondary goal. power athletes should strive for all around strength.