who to look like?

[NY Muscle]

Hey, sweetie you're scaring me you feeling ok bmom, you are usual not this blunt. We all know the deal with her, but some newbies might be lurking and get a bit put off.

What a good point. just like the post that new@ made about talking down to muscle girls that BMOM herself threw in my face...well wasnt it new@ or someone else who also made a post that we need to stop scaring these newbies away from posting?

I have gotten 4 pms in the last 2 hours from people who need soem diet advuce but are PETRIFIED to ask here on the board, becuase of shit liek this....they told me this.

 

[NY Muscle]

You FUCKING MORON - you couldn't look like that IF YOUR LIFE DEPENDED ON IT. Do you know why? Because you are too LAZY and STUPID.

Ok Missy may not take this like a challenge BUT I DO...missy i dont give a shit how long it will take....you will look like some of these girls or better......minus the ugly face

you are my new prospect for the next few years.

oh hell yeah..

 

[Temple]

Lobo, could you refresh my memory, again, as to why we can't delete her even though we've already confirmed her as a duplicate ID?

Really, ya don't say, a DUPLICATE id....hmmmmmm
you mean everyone has been busting their ass helping someone who doesn't really exist......

 

[NY Muscle]

Really, ya don't say, a DUPLICATE id....hmmmmmm
you mean everyone has been busting their ass helping someone who doesn't really exist......

She exists alright..lives not too far from me and im gonna get her ass in the gym and see exactly what shes doing right or wrong.

Ms Fitness Olympia 2010, here we come!!

 

[BronzedGoddess]

She exists alright..lives not too far from me and im gonna get her ass in the gym and see exactly what shes doing right or wrong.

Ms Fitness Olympia 2010, here we come!!

That's cool of you NY Muscle, I admire you for that. A man that likes a challenge......gotta love that!

 

[NY Muscle]

That's cool of you NY Muscle, I admire you for that. A man that likes a challenge......gotta love that!

I used to train this one girl at this gym about 5+ years ago, she was CLUELESS, wanted help and asked me...i said "look i wont even waste my time training you and giving you a diet plan if you wont listen to EVERY SINGLE WORD I say and not even blink when I say it, do it and do not question it" I told her if shes not ready for 110% commitment and trust in my knowledge then to not waste my time and to go pay one of the 145lb anorexic male *trainers* to train her who have clients that look no different than they did 2-3 yrs ago.

I refuse to train a person and if they dont follow what i tell them and look like shit, thats a reflection on me and my training ability and knowledge, and i turn down people all the time, maybe not the best business decision, but I just refuse to take on people like that. I refer people all the time to my friends who are also trainers and will waste their time with these people.

Anyway back to her.she gave me her word shed do as i said and not even change it one bit........she lost 30lbs then starting getting real hard an lean, full 6 pack, this girl was like a new person, she'd jump at every opportunity to show me her abs, this is the same girl who'd wear baggy sweat pants and sweat shirt to cover up just one year before. Now she herself is a trainer and does shows....she looks great!

I just hope missy listens to me, she has too many people telling her shit...her Mom actually told her walking on the treadmill is a waste... I mean how many young girls take what their mothers say as gospel? a lot!

 

[kat1]

WOW, this tread too a turn now didn't it

Ok, here is some observations from someone who loves muscle and loves looking and being a woman... When I was younger (the late 80's) I loved watching female bodybuilding when it was on television. However, that was the time when it did get out of controll - and don't think many out there would dispute that. I would have never said at that time that I wanted to look like a majority of the Female BB that were competing then, of course, that it A Lot different now.

That being said, There is a huge "fettish" market on the Internet and else were for those that like the masive female bodybuilders. We are just begining seeing the mainstream media start to seek out the Athletes for their athleticism (i hope a spelled that right) instead of th freak show status that was so heavy promoted in the past. There will always be those who are really into the Nicole Bass look at her largest, but that look is being replaced a more realistic athlete - I hope that makes sense. Hopefully more photographers will seek ALL sizes and shapes for BB and Fitness competitors in stead of Massive and Harsh looking women who are not the norm - Yaz B. - Profession Bodybuilder, very semetrical, pretty face - just look at here out of season pics to get a good perspective of how competion diet changes the look and how temporary it is.

And, dare I say that lets not forget that these women are NOT Revlon models, they are ATHLETES!!!! And, god love'em, not all of people are blessed with the natural beauty and the natural genetics to be the best BB in the country. But, those are the REAL freaks of nature LOL. Some are, and I wish I was one of them.

But lets not forget why we do this. We are athletes, we love and respect our bodies, and we do if for ourselves. Not everyone understands it, respects, or wants to marry it. But who cares, Life is a one shot deal and you better live it the way YOU want to.

Have a great day.
Kat

BTW: NY Muscle was a bit harsh, but hell, sometimes I just think he is funny, and he has a lot of great advice and info that has helped me so much, and Bikini Mom is still my HOTTIE MOMMA

 

[NY Muscle]

kat1 thanks and was that you who left me karma? i appreciate the good karma people but pelase sign it so i know who to thank..i got like 3 good karma from 3 diff people from this thread and have no idea who gave it to me lol, and id like to give karma back to ya.

 

[CAROLINACHICK]

NY Muscle: We need more guys like you down here in NC. (someone who really wants ta help a chick meet her goals and not just look'en for a piece of ass.)
Ever consider moving a little south?

Oh well........I tried.

 

[Bikini Mod]

OK, OK Bronzed Goddess and NYM (about the people being afraid to ask questions because of some of the harshness thing) I do acquiese... point taken.

I did forget for a split second in time that while we have regular posters there are thousands who lurk here and they may NOT know MissyD and those that are like her and why Spats and I (to name just a few) would get so out and out RUDE AND PISSY with her...

I haven't been myself lately, 'tis true. I've been having some health issues (no biggie - not gonna die here LOL) that have not only been preventing me from competing and making the MOST out of my time spent in the gym, but have made me feel generally lousy MOST of the time. So perhaps I am a bit jealous of an individual that has ALL the knowledge at her fingertips and REFUSES to listen.

I KNOW THAT I DON'T EAT ENOUGH! But, it isn't because I don't want to, my health prevents it these days...

In the process of finding a doc that will fix me up right quick and I will be back to bitching and moaning about HAVING to diet again REAL SOON!.... I PROMISE!

Not making excuses, only offering an explanation.