Who here has had a gf have an abortion?

[cindylou]

thanks for looking that up juiced!!

We will all be judged for what we have done. I will get what's coming to me in the end.

I'm extremely bitter about the whole deal. I feel if I did not have such easy access to have the abortion, I never would have. I also know that if I had known that I could not have an abortion I would have been alot more responsible if the consequences were greater. I was child for god sakes, I had no business even having sex at the time but I was just too young to understand if you do this, then THIS might happen. I dont know.

If every drunk driver was charged with attempted manslaughter just for getting behind the wheel, you'd see less drunk driving for sure!!

Again, I dont know. I dont know when life starts so I'm not sure how I feel, all I know is I feel really guilty. Almost like I've commited murder. So girls out there, you want to feel like that for the rest of your life? No one talks about the guilt........ oh the pain it feels to believe that you yourself might have commited murder on an innocent child.

 

[FRC21]

I feel your pain. My EX g/f got pregnant about 2 months into our relationship. She wanted to keep the baby at first (I wanted it too). Later from influance from her mother and friends she wanted an abortion. She had it on valentines day 8 or so months back. Later she wanted to contiue the relationship but I could never forgive her. She still calls wanting to get back together. I wish everyday it didn't happen but in the long run its probably best, because she is a hardcore party girl.

I feel for your situation. I will never have a normal valentines agian.

 

[Wulfgar]

I literally think out of all the girls I know 1 or maybe 2 have NOT had an abortion @ some pt in thier lives

When I was 15 I knocked my GF up. Had the abortion. Then again @ 17, another abortion. Same girl @ 18, had the kid but I never see him or her, she dissapeared.
When I was 21 I had an affair with a married woman, she got pregnant....abortion.

Since then Ive been more careful..guess you get kicked in the face enough you stay down eventually.
I have faith and I know all the abortions were the right thing to do @ the time. I was not ready in any way shape or form @ those pts to be a father.

 

[katdav]

I literally think out of all the girls I know 1 or maybe 2 have NOT had an abortion @ some pt in thier lives

When I was 15 I knocked my GF up. Had the abortion. Then again @ 17, another abortion. Same girl @ 18, had the kid but I never see him or her, she dissapeared.
When I was 21 I had an affair with a married woman, she got pregnant....abortion.

Since then Ive been more careful..guess you get kicked in the face enough you stay down eventually.
I have faith and I know all the abortions were the right thing to do @ the time. I was not ready in any way shape or form @ those pts to be a father.

Have you heard about birth control...they have that nowadays.

 

[Gambino]

I literally think out of all the girls I know 1 or maybe 2 have NOT had an abortion @ some pt in thier lives

When I was 15 I knocked my GF up. Had the abortion. Then again @ 17, another abortion. Same girl @ 18, had the kid but I never see him or her, she dissapeared.
When I was 21 I had an affair with a married woman, she got pregnant....abortion.

Since then Ive been more careful..guess you get kicked in the face enough you stay down eventually.
I have faith and I know all the abortions were the right thing to do @ the time. I was not ready in any way shape or form @ those pts to be a father.

don't you wonder about the kid your gf had?
that would keep me up at night

 

[Delinquent]

I think what's really sad about this is most people having abortions in Western Civilization do so over financial reasons (they say they can't afford to raise a child).

Yet, compared to the vast majority of the rest of the world, we are all living like kings & queens. We don't worry about food, shelter, or even security... certainly not like the people in less privileged societies.

But, somehow the poorest people of the world manage to raise very large families on very little resources. One almost wonders how they do it. No Xbox 360, no PS3, no ipod, no 500 channel dish attached to a 52" flat screen TV...

Yep, even without the luxury of murdering the unborn.

Yea and look at these people having so many children. They live in 3rd world conditions where they should know that having more kids means more struggle yet they continue. Abortion is a means of culling such a lack of control. If you aren't ready to have a kid, why go through with it? Sure, one can say to use protection or not to have sex at all which is simply ludicrous and also semantics.
It also culls the number of children that would have been neglected or sent to an orphangage. That's one big problem with anti abortion people, they can't see the benefits of such an action. All they see if the "murder" of a human when in fact it's no different than eating an chicken egg. Humans are animals yet these people try to categorize us as higher beings when that's simply not the case. Eating a chicken egg is killing a potential chicken just like aborting a FETUS (not baby) is killing a potential kid. If one can say there is a difference, they are thinking with their heart instead of their head. But, logic isn't something that comes into play when you're talking about the anti abortion freaks

 

[Wulfgar]

Have you heard about birth control...they have that nowadays.

ya I know. I have been aware of it for the past 5 years

 

[Wulfgar]

don't you wonder about the kid your gf had?
that would keep me up at night

its like a 2nd or 3rd cousin to me to be honest
I know he is out there, but since I never knew or met him I rarely think about him.
shes married and the father adopted him. so basically i just look @ myself as a sperm doner

 

[patsfan1379]

All they see if the "murder" of a human when in fact it's no different than eating an chicken egg. Humans are animals yet these people try to categorize us as higher beings when that's simply not the case. Eating a chicken egg is killing a potential chicken just like aborting a FETUS (not baby) is killing a potential kid. If one can say there is a difference, they are thinking with their heart instead of their head. But, logic isn't something that comes into play when you're talking about the anti abortion freaks

The chicken eggs you and I eat are unfertilized there schmucko.

 

[Delinquent]

The chicken eggs you and I eat are unfertilized there schmucko.

and? It's still a potential chicken as I have broken open an egg that was a partially formed chic

Even without that lame analogy that I used, humans are no more important on an ecological or biological level than any other animal. If one looks at abortion from a more logical standpoint, there are only pro's with the exception being the potential risk to the mother during the procedure. The cons that anti abortion peeps claim are not cons at all if one actually thinks about why they are their cons.

Regardless, I'll think one way and they will think the other. No changing anyone's mind