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Who here got married young?

whats young?
 
Around here people get married in there late 20's early 30's, then divorced in there late 30's early 40's. Seems like the trend. Then fuck around for a few years and some get remarried a few years later after saying they will never marry again.
 
seaking420 said:
Around here people get married in there late 20's early 30's, then divorced in there late 30's early 40's. Seems like the trend. Then fuck around for a few years and some get remarried a few years later after saying they will never marry again.
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And, just to clarify, by "around here" you mean the United States of America.
 
Longhorn85 said:
Married at 28, but my plan was to wait until 35. Didn't know I'd meet Mrs Right before then.
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Republicans arent allowed to get divorced, hope you made the right choice.
 
There are a number of places in the United States known as tri-state areas where three states or holdings meet at one point (a tripoint), or in proximity to each other. The two most well-known are for the New York and Chicago metropolitan areas.

The Tri-State Region around New York City is where New York, New Jersey, and Connecticut meet. There is no tripoint, however, as Connecticut does not touch New Jersey. Chicago's tri-state region includes Illinois, Indiana, and Wisconsin and is commonly referred to as Chicagoland. This tri-state region also does not have a tripoint since Indiana does not touch Wisconsin.

Other large metropolitan areas with a tri-state area include Cincinnati, Memphis, Philadelphia, and Washington, D.C.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Tri-state_area
 
My last married friend (married before 30) just told her husband of 7 years (couple of 11 yrs) that she wants a divorce after 6 months of couple therapy.






























Admittedly, there is a small, wicked part of me that gets off on having the last laugh... every last one will be divorced, some their 2nd divorce
 
Every one of my friends that got married under 30 is now divorced, well cept for my parents who married in their early 20's and 50 yrs later are still together.
I do not have one friend married or happily married
 
if you get married before 28-29, your possibility of divorce is like 90%

i was pretty close to the popping the question young.......i thank god everyday i didn't.
 
ortiz34 said:
27 young?
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that was me. . .i think 27 was the perfect age. . .already got most of the bs out of my system and had developed a little more mature outlook on life. . .by then i was adequately prepared to "work" with someone on a daily basis. . .it'll 15 years this june. . .the best of my life. . .continues to get better too. . .
 
calveless wonder said:
if you get married before 28-29, your possibility of divorce is like 90%

i was pretty close to the popping the question young.......i thank god everyday i didn't.
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I have heard this before....too bad I was younger then that
 
digimon7068 said:
that was me. . .i think 27 was the perfect age. . .already got most of the bs out of my system and had developed a little more mature outlook on life. . .by then i was adequately prepared to "work" with someone on a daily basis. . .it'll 15 years this june. . .the best of my life. . .continues to get better too. . .
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this renews my faith a little.......congrat. Love hearing happy endings :-)
 
digimon7068 said:
that was me. . .i think 27 was the perfect age. . .already got most of the bs out of my system and had developed a little more mature outlook on life. . .by then i was adequately prepared to "work" with someone on a daily basis. . .it'll 15 years this june. . .the best of my life. . .continues to get better too. . .
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Cool man, glad to hear. Your attitude and outlook gives others hope. Congrats for your up and coming Anniversary.
 
blueta2 said:
I do not have one friend married or happily married
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I think that has to be at least partly attributed to the type of people you choose as your friends.

By contrast, I have been happily married for 17 years and most of our friends are happily married.
 
Longhorn85 said:
I think that has to be at least partly attributed to the type of people you choose as your friends.

By contrast, I have been happily married for 17 years and most of our friends are happily married.
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Oh seriously dude FUCK OFF! You are the most annoying jerk!
How do u know what type of friends I have? I am 100% sure that I have much classier friends than you.........now seriously take a leap!
 
I think it matters when you are starting out. I got married at 29 and we moved to a different state the year before. There were no more negative influences, which is what my friends were and tried to pull us apart to no avail.
 
blueta2 said:
Oh seriously dude FUCK OFF! You are the most annoying jerk!
How do u know what type of friends I have? I am 100% sure that I have much classier friends than you.........now seriously take a leap!
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while i don't think that "choice of friends" has a flippin' thing to do with marriage success (i have some friends that my wife absolutely HATES. . .she wouldn't walk across the street to spit on them). . .strangely. . .nearly all of my friends are long-term happily married peeps. . .i've thought about this from time-to-time but haven't really developed any theories. . .
 
blueta2 said:
Oh seriously dude FUCK OFF! You are the most annoying jerk!
How do u know what type of friends I have? I am 100% sure that I have much classier friends than you.........now seriously take a leap!
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Relax Francis and quit taking things so personally. You find me annoying because I can see through bullshit, which you happen to sling quite a bit of.
 
I should also add that there were a few ex long term psycho GFs in that group of friends that drove my wife crazy. So it wasn't just my drinking buds.
 
blueta2 said:
Oh seriously dude FUCK OFF! You are the most annoying jerk!
How do u know what type of friends I have? I am 100% sure that I have much classier friends than you.........now seriously take a leap!
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Take a Midol, drink some red wine and relax sugar bottom. I for one don't think longhorns idea is far off. Your friends typically are a good representation of you. By that I mean they'll typically have similar goals, beliefs, etc.
 
velvett said:
My last married friend (married before 30) just told her husband of 7 years (couple of 11 yrs) that she wants a divorce after 6 months of couple therapy.






























Admittedly, there is a small, wicked part of me that gets off on having the last laugh... every last one will be divorced, some their 2nd divorce
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actually this "trend" of women pulling that shit has gotten quite old.

I see that shit over and fucking over.

almost 100% of the time it's the woman pushing for a ring,then marriage, then babies, the whole "family unit" at a young age.

Then..after a few years the woman realizes that marriage and relationships aren't OMFG..can u believe it?? they're NOT LIKE EVERY "Romantic Comedy" that they watched incessantly growing up!!!!!!!

Wow..low and behold now she wants to be single again, divorce the man,take half (more like 90% from what I've seen)his stuff, take his children away from him and turn into total whores for a few years until they find a new man to fuck over.
 
TC2 said:
actually this "trend" of women pulling that shit has gotten quite old.

I see that shit over and fucking over.

almost 100% of the time it's the woman pushing for a ring,then marriage, then babies, the whole "family unit" at a young age.

Then..after a few years the woman realizes that marriage and relationships aren't OMFG..can u believe it?? they're NOT LIKE EVERY "Romantic Comedy" that they watched incessantly growing up!!!!!!!

Wow..low and behold now she wants to be single again, divorce the man,take half (more like 90% from what I've seen)his stuff, take his children away from him and turn into total whores for a few years until they find a new man to fuck over.
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Bitter much?
 
Stefka said:
Bitter much?
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Not even remotely.

I have a awesome GF. but I've see this bullshit with american white woman over and over.

I have a large network of friends and this has been the outcome in about 99% of their marriages.
 
TC2 said:
Not even remotely.

I have a awesome GF. but I've see this bullshit with american white woman over and over.

I have a large network of friends and this has been the outcome in about 99% of their marriages.
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Most of my girl friends didn't get anything. They just wanted out. (No kids in those marriages though.)
 
TC2 said:
Not even remotely.

I have a awesome GF. but I've see this bullshit with american white woman over and over.

I have a large network of friends and this has been the outcome in about 99% of their marriages.
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If you say it's a one-sided thing where women are manipulating the men into it, and it happens time and time again - why do men continue to allow it to happen?
 
Smurfy said:
If you say it's a one-sided thing where women are manipulating the men into it, and it happens time and time again - why do men continue to allow it to happen?
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Because men are fuckin stupid and have no balls now a days. and alot of men are finally waking up to their bullshit though.
 
TC2 said:
Because men are fuckin stupid and have no balls now a days. and alot of men are finally waking up to their bullshit though.
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.....
 
TC2 said:
actually this "trend" of women pulling that shit has gotten quite old.

I see that shit over and fucking over.

almost 100% of the time it's the woman pushing for a ring,then marriage, then babies, the whole "family unit" at a young age.

Then..after a few years the woman realizes that marriage and relationships aren't OMFG..can u believe it?? they're NOT LIKE EVERY "Romantic Comedy" that they watched incessantly growing up!!!!!!!

Wow..low and behold now she wants to be single again, divorce the man,take half (more like 90% from what I've seen)his stuff, take his children away from him and turn into total whores for a few years until they find a new man to fuck over.
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In my present & past circles of friends, of all the divorced couples, I'd say 3 women were like this. Significant, but not reperesentative, IMO.
I'l be married 24 yrs in July. Mostly happily, LOL. I think my wife would say the same. :lmao:
 
HiDnGoD said:
In my present & past circles of friends, of all the divorced couples, I'd say 3 women were like this. Significant, but not reperesentative, IMO.
I'l be married 24 yrs in July. Mostly happily, LOL. I think my wife would say the same. :lmao:
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How old are you though??

There is a marked difference in the age brackets.
The women I talk about are my age(31 next month) and down. I've said this before, I don't see this ridiculous behavior for the most part on older women.
 
i was 22.

i always wanted to be married and have a family. a normal one, not like what i had growing up. I wanted dinner on the table and a permanent address. I wanted to come home and know someone else was going to be home with me.

I wanted someone to take me to the doctor if i was sick, someone who would eat cookies i baked for him, someone to laugh at how really friggin' funny i am.
 
Longhorn85 said:
Chicago's tri-state region includes Illinois, Indiana, and Wisconsin and is commonly referred to as Chicagoland. This tri-state region also does not have a tripoint since Indiana does not touch Wisconsin.
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No one around here ever uses the term "chicagoland", lol.

The tri-state area is often referred to such because of the major stretch of interstate travelling through the three states.



:cow:
 
TC2 said:
Because men are fuckin stupid and have no balls now a days. and alot of men are finally waking up to their bullshit though.
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my next wife is going to be from foreign soil
the sexy accent's a bonus
 
digimon7068 said:
that was me. . .i think 27 was the perfect age. . .already got most of the bs out of my system and had developed a little more mature outlook on life. . .by then i was adequately prepared to "work" with someone on a daily basis. . .it'll 15 years this june. . .the best of my life. . .continues to get better too. . .
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it sucks that shes probably cheating on you.

if your not miserable then she is, and is dicking around
 
stilleto said:
i was 22.

i always wanted to be married and have a family. a normal one, not like what i had growing up. I wanted dinner on the table and a permanent address. I wanted to come home and know someone else was going to be home with me.

I wanted someone to take me to the doctor if i was sick, someone who would eat cookies i baked for him, someone to laugh at how really friggin' funny i am.
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so what happened?
 
Going on 7 years of marriage and 10 of being with the prick..Obviously we fight, and I hate him a lot.however I am glad of my choice to marry him, sure I may be happier with out the shitball but I could also be a lot more worse off! It depends on the people and whether or not they can weather the storm.
 
Angel said:
Going on 7 years of marriage and 10 of being with the prick..Obviously we fight, and I hate him a lot.however I am glad of my choice to marry him, sure I may be happier with out the shitball but I could also be a lot more worse off! It depends on the people and whether or not they can weather the storm.
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LOL!
you're awesome.
 
Angel said:
Going on 7 years of marriage and 10 of being with the prick..Obviously we fight, and I hate him a lot.however I am glad of my choice to marry him, sure I may be happier with out the shitball but I could also be a lot more worse off! It depends on the people and whether or not they can weather the storm.
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Marital bliss
 
Stefka said:
And why did you do it?
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I was in love LOL... but honestly, in retrospect I did it to get out of my parents' house... wanted to have my own household and run my own life. Silly me, didn't realize that I could have done that WITHOUT marrying THE WORLD'S BIGGEST ASSHOLE.

Ah well, at least I learned.

My first husband was a lesson. My last husband is a gift.
 
TC2 said:
How old are you though??

There is a marked difference in the age brackets.
The women I talk about are my age(31 next month) and down. I've said this before, I don't see this ridiculous behavior for the most part on older women.
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I'm 44. The 3 B****es I mentioned where all the around my age. Hmmmmm, actually, they were mid 30's when they did their damage. I don't think greed, or stupidity is restricted to the young. There is a danger, when couples get to my age, of menopause, andropause, all the "what - ifs" and "what could have beens" that drive people apart.
What it takes, at any age, is determination to not be the one to fail your marriage. If she gives up, and you don't, you could work it out. If you give up & she doesn't, you could work it out. It's when you both give up that the marriage is over. Sometimes that's for the best, too.
 
BIKINIMOM said:
I was in love LOL... but honestly, in retrospect I did it to get out of my parents' house... wanted to have my own household and run my own life. Silly me, didn't realize that I could have done that WITHOUT marrying THE WORLD'S BIGGEST ASSHOLE.

Ah well, at least I learned.

My first husband was a lesson. My last husband is a gift.
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Funny story:
I met my wife in high school and had dated some of her friends. When I went off to basic training, one of her "friends" wrote me letters promising me awesome sex & all kinds of benefits if I left my g.f. & married her. She NEEDED me to get her out of her parents house. Honestly, even though she was hotter than my gf, and it would have been a blast, I could see, even then, so many reasons why it wouldn't work. I told wifey about it years later. Funny, she didn't think it was funny. :whatever:
 
HiDnGoD said:
I don't think greed, or stupidity is restricted to the young. There is a danger, when couples get to my age, of menopause, andropause, all the "what - ifs" and "what could have beens" that drive people apart.
What it takes, at any age, is determination to not be the one to fail your marriage. If she gives up, and you don't, you could work it out. If you give up & she doesn't, you could work it out. It's when you both give up that the marriage is over. Sometimes that's for the best, too.
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very well said
 
I also think there is a large amount of luck involved. I truly believe that when I got married, I really didn't know what love was. What I feel now is quantum leaps away from that, then. I was fortunate enough to fall in love after we married, and we leaned on each other to help us through tough times. As we grew we also evolved in a similar direction. I can look back & see so many points where the wrong decision could have lead to disaster.
I think people get married today expecting the perfect marriage, or as someone already said, the TV marriage. They don't realize the work & commitment it takes as well as the evolving from life experiences.
 
HiDnGoD said:
I also think there is a large amount of luck involved. I truly believe that when I got married, I really didn't know what love was. What I feel now is quantum leaps away from that, then. I was fortunate enough to fall in love after we married, and we leaned on each other to help us through tough times. As we grew we also evolved in a similar direction. I can look back & see so many points where the wrong decision could have lead to disaster.

I think people get married today expecting the perfect marriage, or as someone already said, the TV marriage. They don't realize the work & commitment it takes as well as the evolving from life experiences.
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WERD
 
"marriages dont last for shit in america because when you first meet eachother and everything is exciting and you love eachother all the endorphins are released in the first couple of months, but then when that starts to ware off and you get used to them things arnt exciting anymore so they only get worse and its about maintaining staying together instead of having that awsome feeling again, but in cultures with arranged marriage they get marrried not really liking eachother so they grow to love eachother and it gets better and better over time which is why we should all start out in arranged marriages with people we dont like" - my friend
 
Hell I'm almost 33 and don't have anything even close, I might get married in my 40's! (Or maybe I'll just use all my money to pull 20 year old chicks)
 
crew9 said:
Take a Midol, drink some red wine and relax sugar bottom. I for one don't think longhorns idea is far off. Your friends typically are a good representation of you. By that I mean they'll typically have similar goals, beliefs, etc.
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You don't think his ideas are far off? Do you know me to even say this?
This Longjerk comments on many of my posts just to start shit so easy does it sugar bottom
 
Longhorn85 said:
Thanks Crew. That's what I meant. Doesn't mean necessarily better or worse, but birds of a feather tend to flock together.
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so what are you saying exacly. Because most of my friend are divorced or unhappy they are not good people?
I'm confused!?
 
samoth said:
No one around here ever uses the term "chicagoland", lol.

The tri-state area is often referred to such because of the major stretch of interstate travelling through the three states.



:cow:
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The Tristate (I-294)

I have used the term Chicagoland.
 
I don't see myself getting married until around 28 or 29. I want to be done or almost done with my Doctorate. Who knows, though. Things tend to change.
 
TC2 said:
actually this "trend" of women pulling that shit has gotten quite old.

I see that shit over and fucking over.

almost 100% of the time it's the woman pushing for a ring,then marriage, then babies, the whole "family unit" at a young age.

Then..after a few years the woman realizes that marriage and relationships aren't OMFG..can u believe it?? they're NOT LIKE EVERY "Romantic Comedy" that they watched incessantly growing up!!!!!!!

Wow..low and behold now she wants to be single again, divorce the man,take half (more like 90% from what I've seen)his stuff, take his children away from him and turn into total whores for a few years until they find a new man to fuck over.
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lolololol

blueta2 said:
Oh seriously dude FUCK OFF! You are the most annoying jerk!
How do u know what type of friends I have? I am 100% sure that I have much classier friends than you.........now seriously take a leap!
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No offence, but didn't you say you were a stripper?
 
wow, just read through, a lot of bitter people in this thread...

Imo, marriage is a good decision if the female you marry is marriage material, and deciphering this is all important.

The vast majority of women out there aren't marriage material and should never get married.
 
Oceano said:
wow, just read through, a lot of bitter people in this thread...

Imo, marriage is a good decision if the female you marry is marriage material, and deciphering this is all important.

The vast majority of women out there aren't marriage material and should never get married.
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fuck u limy
 
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