You must now work around or be around very many blacks? What happens if they refuse to shake hands your way? For me, it depends on the situation. It's just a cultural difference. If I don't think about it, I usually shake hands my way, if I remember that they probably shake hands like that, I do it their way. Funny thing happened tonight. I should hands the white way with a grocery store manager tonight and then he extended his hand again to shake hands the soul brother way. LOL. No problem.