When is the last time you had your heart rippded out?

[superqt4u2nv]

F that QT, take time to feel hurt. To really get over something and let go of the anger you need to "mourn" and be pissed off. Be pissed off and don't feel like a wuss cause you're angry!
Working out and talking about it is a good way to worked past it.
You got a heart girl, it was hurt, let it heal
Use this anger to shine on stage...I bet you win!

Thanks hun

I did learn something from this. I used to never tell a man he hurt me I thought it was weak to let them know they got to me but yesterday I let him have it with full force. It made me feel really good suprisingly so hopefully I wont have this pent up in me now a year down the road like I did/do with some former flames.

 

[Gymgurl]

Superqt...it s best to just tell it like it is....They need to know what they did..Im sorry your going through this....try journaling if you have thoughts that won't go away or just to get rid of some anger....Hang in there...((HUGS))) Wulfgar is a happy man again lol.....

 

[rykertest]

I've felt heartbroken before, even on a huge level (its bigger as you get older and there are things like marriage and children in the mix), but to me, having your 'heart ripped out' indicates that whatever pain you're feeling came out of the blue, and i'm just not usually that blind, or i was just not surprised by the turn of events.

I'm also the type of person that doesn't wallow in it for long- I'm quick to say "ok, now what should i do?" and then do it, and i think that focus helps make that heartbreak go away.

I can only imagine the pain you felt in your hollow tin chest.

 

[Smurfy]

I don't have much faith in humans so I expect to be disappointed.

It's like a self-fulfilling prophecy for you!

 

[alien amp pharm]

Never. I'm a playah

 

[superqt4u2nv]

ALWAYS I'M SWV

Fixed

 

[HiDnGoD]

About 30 yrs ago. Nothing serious, just fell hard for this girl & she didn't reciprocate. Used me for a few things, then dumped me. My wife could do it, but she won't.
Sorry to hear of your heartache. :ehug:

 

[velvett]

I was on the "all men suck train" for a while after the end of my 11 yr and 2 yr relationships. In between these two relationships, I met a bevy of total losers and did not like men for a long time.
Then I met my current boyfriend over a year ago and realized not all men are jerks. When I changed, my choice in men changed
Don't stress QT, there are some good amazing men out there.

Yes, me too.

 

[Bikini Mod]

For many years now every single day my heart has been openly wounded and bleeding profusely.

QT - not ALL MEN are dogs and assholes.

My husband is a gift from God.

 

[Grumpy Old Man]

For many years now every single day my heart has been openly wounded and bleeding profusely.

QT - not ALL MEN are dogs and assholes.

My husband is a gift from God.

Ahhhhhh... Thanks BABY!/
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