What size do girls like?

[2dagym]

Most women aren't trained to give men second looks (at least that you'll see). We are trained to let the man be the agressor so we may like what we see, but aren't about to let you know. We want you to be first to show interest, whether it be in a second look, or an actually approach.

As a woman, I like a muscular, strong, confident man with alot of wit and humor. See, to woman, it's more than just the look. But for the the purpose of your question, I'm a fan of wide shoulders and back, very masculine look. Not the smaller male fitness model look you see alot in magazines. Anything under 200 lbs. is not my interest.

 

[Snkypete]

I hang out with much bigger guys then me. Im 165 and all my buddies will tell you. I pull the pussy and get the complaments. Crazy thing is i wish I was there sizes (200/220)exp

 

[nuevo laredo]

About 8.5 inches.

 

[wlmcrae]

Well, I'll weigh in - what do you want? Just getting laid regularly - it's easier to buy it on the street. Getting a long-term GF? Depends on the lady, but it has been said that "Guys turn on with the eyes, gals turn on with the ears." (Why do you think the French have such a reputation? It's because they're not afraid to be romantic verbally. Oh-la-la!)

Is physique worth something? Yeah, but only with a great personality and a 'let's see if there's something more between us than a hot lay' attitude. I've been hit on by the 'hottest dude around' - what an idiot!

Of course, if you're looking for the mother lode - a faithful, honest, hot, great attitude, fun little broad to MARRY and have kids and grow old together with - personality all the way, baby. After all, get a tough job, get hurt or get sick and all that muscle could do the ol' fat stuff trick - better be something there OTHER than body or she's gonna walk! (and of course, if SHE'S all that, she's looking for the same out of YOU! You got what it takes on the inside?)

We like physical looks, but in a 'wow, nice piece of artwork' way, rather than a 'holy cow, I wanna sleep with that' way. Most of us can admire ladies as well as men - because it is an aesthetic thing. And of course, there are the two schools of women - the one that likes the 'androgynous' dude and the one that likes the 'rough, craggy, manly' dude. Just like taste in art or music, women have taste in preferred 'type'.

There is, finally, (sorry for the book . .) a safety issue. I'm 135lbs soaking wet, with no self-defense training. It is a huge amount safer for me to consider a 160lb guy than a 210lb guy - I might have a chance if he decides he wants more than I've given out. So, moral of the story for big guys? Be the kind of person that 'feels safe' to be around. Doesn't mean you've got to be a pussy, but kind, yes, strong to defend, not strong to destroy.

PS. This is kind of academic for me, since I'm 12 years happily married to my childhood sweetheart, who is also my workout partner and the greatest guy alive! Yes, bod was somewhat important (like, I decided to marry him the first time I saw him with his shirt off . .) but we were ski bums together and dirtbike buddies before the sparks ever flew.

Good replies from the ladies! (You know who you are!)

 

[nuevo laredo]

About 8.5 inches.

Oops! Just noticed someone beat me to it.

 

[Triple J]

dullboy wants to know if you smoke crack...

a 35 year old man can range girls from 20 - 40 w/ no problems.

it's hard to pull that off at any other age.

jjj likes dullboys style

yes that is true

my point if you have money looks don't matter much, and if you have looks and no money - lie about the money

 

[soxfan]

I am just over 6 ft 2, at 235 lbs and I am very lean; I have a 32 inch waist and I get more ass than a toilet seat. But, when I was walking around at 270-275, I hardly ever even had a little honey flirt with me! I do think that for the most part, the ladies don't like guys to be freakishly big.

cheers.

 

[justinjones1963]

Most girls do not care what type of body a guy has...they just want a guy to listen to their shit, pay attention to them and to attentive to their feelings...

if you know how to get into a girls head you can get into her pants...it is that easy.

 

[steelmass]

I disagree, in my experience which is only college, all of the hottest girls end up with the best looking guys. If I see an amazing girl with an ugly guy, odds are I can take her.

 

[victoria978]

Most girls do not care what type of body a guy has...they just want a guy to listen to their shit, pay attention to them and to attentive to their feelings...

if you know how to get into a girls head you can get into her pants...it is that easy.

AND THE PRIZE FOR THE HOUSE DUMMY-HEAD GOES TO..................I am a jedi mind trick master. I know bullshit when I hear it. Most women who are worth keeping around do also. If you find a girl popping gum and twirling her hair, though, you're golden. And further more, most girls do care what type of body a guy has. That's like the first requirement stated on any dating website. Preferences vary but it is first and foremost.