what it a "Must Have" trait for your sig other/spouse....

[IrightI]

I was just thinking about my wife. Besides being hawt even at 45, she's VERY smart. It got me to thinking, what if she wasn't and would I still have been interested. The answer, No.

So my dealmaker/breaker is: they have to be smart.

discuss....

 

[calveless wonder]

there are a lot of must haves. aside from things like intelligence, beauty, etc....

most of all....

They have to really care about you. if they don't, the rest is meaningless

 

[nefertiti]

I can't narrow it down to just one.

 

[IrightI]

K, then Nef, just for you, lets go ahead and accept more than one, just for you though....

 

[trex74]

Fortitude
Life can be difficult sometimes, and I want to be on the same team as someone who takes it on the chin and keeps going.

 

[musclemom]

I had several traits that I considered dealbreakers (in no particular order: no sense of humor, macho verging on chauvanist, stupid, emotionally retarded, materialistic, superficial, lacking compassion, etc.) but #1 on my list was HONESTY.

 

[digimon7068]

you mean, besides a vagina, yes??

 

[IrightI]

I had several traits that I considered dealbreakers (in no particular order: no sense of humor, macho verging on chauvanist, stupid, emotionally retarded, materialistic, superficial, lacking compassion, etc.) but #1 on my list was HONESTY.

OK, Yes, honesty. good

 

[IrightI]

there are a lot of must haves. aside from things like intelligence, beauty, etc....

most of all....

They have to really care about you. if they don't, the rest is meaningless

that's kind of what MM says, honesty, to be honest in their feelings about you.

 

[IrightI]

Fortitude
Life can be difficult sometimes, and I want to be on the same team as someone who takes it on the chin and keeps going.

fortitude, like a strong character/ resolve, that's a good one...