What do you consider a deal breaker....

[Kakdiesel]

As I said - how on earth could you begin to substantiate a claim either way?

And you have only had a few dozen, right?

At what number does someone become "damaged goods" - sorry this applies to males as well....

I dont trouble myself with such nonsense. What difference does it make who or how many a man has been with before me? I look at the number and length of LTR - can this man commit? Has he ever? Why did those commitments not work out? What has he learned from those experiences?

i think what HT is saying bikinimom is that when he buys a 2004 nissan 350, he doesnt want 135,000 miles on it.

 

[H_T_]

As I said - how on earth could you begin to substantiate a claim either way?

And you have only had a few dozen, right?

At what number does someone become "damaged goods" - sorry this applies to males as well....

I dont trouble myself with such nonsense. What difference does it make who or how many a man has been with before me? I look at the number and length of LTR - can this man commit? Has he ever? Why did those commitments not work out? What has he learned from those experiences?

my problem is when a woman tells you she's only been with 3 men in her life and then her phone is always ringing @ 3am. i guess my problem is dishonesty. and if i want a girl who has only been with 3 guys, i gotta catch between classes. like home ec & P.E.

 

[manny78]

when it comes to GF/BF?
if they dated too many guys?
if they dated outside their race?
if they have kids?
divorced?
greedy, uncouth whore???

twice, i've had GF's that i later found out had been with a few too many guys for me to be cool with. i pretty much can deal with other things, but you can't unscrew things, ya'mean?

Have kids

Divorced

uneducated

no ambitions

if she still has her ex around....

 

[H_T_]

Have kids

Divorced

uneducated

no ambitions

if she still has her ex around....

yeah, the Ex thing isn't cool. don't date if you're gonna have your ex standing in the on deck circle in case it doesn't go your way that night. i love that "my ex and i are still good friends".....lmao.

 

[foreigngirl]

yeah, the Ex thing isn't cool. don't date if you're gonna have your ex standing in the on deck circle in case it doesn't go your way that night. i love that "my ex and i are still good friends".....lmao.

friends..yeah, sex buddies

 

[Mr. dB]

I've never understood the objection to dating someone who has dated outside her race. I mean, you think it's gonna rub off on you or something?

 

[H_T_]

friends..yeah, sex buddies

i don't even like to give it that much credit. more like a nice sexual dependancy. until one of them finds someone better. i had a relationship with this dnacer and we really didn't like one another and found a kind of joy in disrespecting the other & still having almost daily sex. we had a song, too...when she went up on stage, i'd ask, "did you play our song ?" and she'd laugh, it was "User Friendly" by Marilyn Manson.

 

[Bikini Mod]

i think what HT is saying bikinimom is that when he buys a 2004 nissan 350, he doesnt want 135,000 miles on it.

Hmmmmmmmm

Then perhaps he should date 9 year olds?

That is silly.

What difference does it make? If the woman has such hyuge character flaws and self-esteem issues as to having slept with hundreds of men by the ripe old age of 17 then I should think they would be evident long before the question of "how many guys have you fucked" would ever come to pass.

 

[Bikini Mod]

my problem is when a woman tells you she's only been with 3 men in her life and then her phone is always ringing @ 3am. i guess my problem is dishonesty. and if i want a girl who has only been with 3 guys, i gotta catch between classes. like home ec & P.E.

So then it should be about honesty and not the mileage... C'est nes pas?

 

[H_T_]

Hmmmmmmmm

Then perhaps he should date 9 year olds?

That is silly.

What difference does it make? If the woman has such hyuge character flaws and self-esteem issues as to having slept with hundreds of men by the ripe old age of 17 then I should think they would be evident long before the question of "how many guys have you fucked" would ever come to pass.

bullshit. women work the craft of deception well.