What are your opening lines/moves when aproaching women at clubs

[GoldenDelicious]

dude, it could totally work, when you go trhough all that shit, something good is bound to happen.

yes, youll lose out on 40 bucks, the DJ will lose his job, and some sucker will intercept your drink along the bar. your backup dancers wont show, and youll look like youre having an epileptic, standing up. then the girl will tell the story about the retro guy with rabies trying to pick her up in the bar, and how bloody weird he was...which is a shame, because she thought he was cute before he started acting like a total freak

if youre serious about picking people up in bars/clubs, start being one of those people who say hello to lots and lots of people, and try to remember something about them for the next time you see them. this will serve to: 1) make your night more fun 2) make you look smoother and more comfortable 3) build up your confidence in babbling crap to strangers 4) will let you talk to people conveniently close to the person youre trying to talk to. dont neglect talking to bartenders, waitresses, and bouncers as well. be polite, ask if their night is going well, and theyll see you as a person rather than one of the drunk bozos that piss them off...which is everybody else.

using lines and elaborate setups, while amusing at times, is awfully make-or-break...if you screw it up, its over, while saying hello opens the door for future conversations (worst case scenario) or will get you where you want to be straight away. its not a complicated sort of idea.

 

[Forge]

My opening lines / moves are very complicated:






I walk up and say hello.






Things usually take off from there.

 

[Baldeagle59]

I have 2- cute bum where you from and can I have a pic of you and they say why and I say back because I want to show santa what i want for xmas.

 

[RottenWillow]

"if you were only half as hot as me you'd never have to buy yourself another drink for the rest of your life"



never fail to make new friends with that one.

 

[giantdouche]

I'd never try to pick up women in a club. Actually, I'd never go to a club in the first place.

 

[jerseyart]

What you say is far less important that when you decide to say it. If you see a chick dont stand around waiting and deciding what your going to say, or whether you shoudl approach.

Approach the first few seconds after your making eye contact. Its the difference between being dominant and a pussy

 

[Mr. Black]

When I was travelling around Europe I found the best line that worked everytime was simply "Where you from?" chicks love foreign men

 

[Dial_tone]

I'm terrible at trying to pick up girls. It feels too artificial and rarely works out...those things just have to happen naturally for me.

 

[Forge]

What you say is far less important that when you decide to say it. If you see a chick dont stand around waiting and deciding what your going to say, or whether you shoudl approach.

Approach the first few seconds after your making eye contact. Its the difference between being dominant and a pussy

Yep. It is called the 3-second rule because it is a rule. Though in my experience, you don't need to think anything through or come up with a line or joke, simply saying "hi" or "how are you" immediately after initial eye contact is usually enough to get the conversation going. If you wait then you kill the moment and even casual talk can seem awkward.

First impressions are always better with words than with visuals alone.

 

[jerseyart]

Yep. It is called the 3-second rule because it is a rule. Though in my experience, you don't need to think anything through or come up with a line or joke, simply saying "hi" or "how are you" immediately after initial eye contact is usually enough to get the conversation going. If you wait then you kill the moment and even casual talk can seem awkward.

First impressions are always better with words than with visuals alone.

LMAO

They actually made a rule for this? Who did?

It's amazing how in so many disparate lives we can all come to the same conclusions based on simple personal experience/trial and error.