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i think divorce is up....
 
Wootoom said:
she said she hates me and im the biggest mistake she ever made
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w00ts
she's obviously struggling with a lot right now so please dont take what she is saying to heart. if what you told me is true, she isnt operating with a completely sane mind
 
Mr. dB said:
Post-partum dep?
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that was my first thought when he said they were having issues. post partum depression is very common and can really wreak havok on relationships
 
Lestat said:
that was my first thought when he said they were having issues. post partum depression is very common and can really wreak havok on relationships
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Multi vitamins can help. In china they eat the placenta - make it into a soup. No shit. It cured PPD.
 
Army Vet said:
Multi vitamins can help. In china they eat the placenta - make it into a soup. No shit. It cured PPD.
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i've heard of that :worried:
 
what happenned? i may not be helping with my comment but when you get divorced pussy comes out of the woodwork.
 
I don't know you or Daisy, Woots, but if her temperment changed dramatically around the end of the pregnancy and has only gotten worse since the baby was born, I'm only going to echo what the others are saying about PPD or even raising a flag of postpartum psychosis. If you think she's not stable, don't think you are without options, talk to her OB/GYN or your family doctor let them know what's going on and that she's acting irrationally.
 
Two small children in a very short time can wreak havoc on any relationship. Don't just give up, get some help for yourselves.

I'm truly sorry to hear that things are so difficult, but know also that no matter how bleak things seem now, tomorrow will be better.
 
Wootoom said:
i think divorce is up....
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Sorry to hear you are going through this.
Seriously consider the PPD. I had a baby six weeks ago and have SERIOUSLY said some REALLY mean, wrong, unjustified things to my hubby over the last couple of weeks. I feel ok today and lucky for me he is understanding.
Seriously, she could just be going through a rough time unless there are other things involved that u aren't talking about online(Who could blame u??!?!?).
I don't know either of you but I wish u the best.
 
musclemom said:
I don't know you or Daisy, Woots, but if her temperment changed dramatically around the end of the pregnancy and has only gotten worse since the baby was born, I'm only going to echo what the others are saying about PPD or even raising a flag of postpartum psychosis. If you think she's not stable, don't think you are without options, talk to her OB/GYN or your family doctor let them know what's going on and that she's acting irrationally.
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MM, I think going to her dr to talk will only make her angry. If my guy went to talk to my dr's, I would be fuming.
She is not in her right mind now and needs space. No one can make her get help or want to be helped. She needs to want to do it.

Woot, like I said, anything that is said right now is not out of clear perception. When depression hits, one hates the world. She doesn't hate you, she can't see any light right now.

Woot, my suggestion; get some therapy alone and see if she comes with you. But do it for you. Educate yourself on depression and see what you can do to get YOU in good shape.
 
chill bro

Give her sometime.

Almost all my married friends wives have told them that. Hopefully, it will pass.
 
BIKINIMOM said:
Two small children in a very short time can wreak havoc on any relationship. Don't just give up, get some help for yourselves.

I'm truly sorry to hear that things are so difficult, but know also that no matter how bleak things seem now, tomorrow will be better.
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Yep don't throw in the towel so soon. I am not sure how old your oldest is, but I know you just had a baby. Like the other ladies said women's hormones are wacked after having babies. We can be bitchy, not give up the sex, etc. all that stuff is really hard on a relationship. You guys just have to WANT to be together. Remember why you fell in love in the first place. Kids and stress aside would you still be together? Maybe that is the question you need to ask yourselves. If the answer is YES then it can be worked out with time and help.
 
silverstar1025 said:
Yep don't throw in the towel so soon. I am not sure how old your oldest is, but I know you just had a baby. Like the other ladies said women's hormones are wacked after having babies. We can be bitchy, not give up the sex, etc. all that stuff is really hard on a relationship. You guys just have to WANT to be together. Remember why you fell in love in the first place. Kids and stress aside would you still be together? Maybe that is the question you need to ask yourselves. If the answer is YES then it can be worked out with time and help.
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Your husband is a lucky man.
 
silverstar1025 said:
Hey it was just for a few months he got the fun me back and it was worth the wait! :p
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Congrats

Hopefully, the same will happen to woot.
 
all the whey said:
Congrats

Hopefully, the same will happen to woot.
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Yeah hopefully so. I hate to see any marriages end especially when small kids are involved :(
 
silverstar1025 said:
Yeah hopefully so. I hate to see any marriages end especially when small kids are involved :(
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I hate to see guys get tricked into getting married in the first place. :(

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So I don't wanna get personal if you don't want to but I have to ask. Is there anything we're missing from the puzzle that you may not want known? If so, that's ok but I can't make any real suggestions if I don't know whether or not it really is PPD or something else?

If it is PPD that has yet to be diagnosed, an intervention must take place. It may make her angry but she will thank you in the end. Like others have said, her state of reality is not like everyone else's. Everything is telling her that there is no light at the end of the tunnel. Nothing can repair the situation to her. All hope is pretty much lost.

This is where intervention is so paramount. With the proper counseling and even medication, she will begin to see that light at the end of the tunnel and hopefully things will start to get back to a more normal state.

Good luck man!
 
Wootoom said:
she doesnt want to get help which tells me that she doesnt care about me.
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Many people with ppd or other mental issues think they have no issues. Maybe she thinks she doesn't need help? Doesn't mean she doesn't care about you. Britney Spears is a prime example the bitch is crazy, but thinks she doesn't need any help and she is normal.
 
Dont stay together just for the sake of staying together. You need to be happy. Sure it sucks with kids but its not fair to you. That being said, people stay together all the time for the wrong reasons. like just not wanting them to be with someone else and out of comfort. Advice is easy to give. Walking in your shoes or hers is totally different.

Ive known people to buy a house and move in and within a week the guy wants a divorce or another guy who refinanced and then she wanted a divorce.

Myself, ive been seperated for a year before but i knew she would take me back as it was my choice to leave.

Anyway, good luck and avoid alcohol. That worsens things.
 
Wootoom said:
she doesnt want to get help which tells me that she doesnt care about me.
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It's got nothing to do with caring about you if you think the situation might be something other than just marital problems.

Talk to her doctors and get some guidance. You're allowed to discuss concerns about your wife with her medical caregivers, and she doesn't need to know about it, there is a medical confidentiality issue.

This is just common sense here, IMO, NO woman on this planet wants to divorce a guy when she's got two little kids under 3 years old!!! Not unless the guy in question is treating her like total shit, and I have to assume that isn't the case, so something doesn't make sense. She'd at least put up with you until the kids were into preschool or something.
 
Ive seen a few girls want out after a couple kids. I know of one intance were I think he got her pregnant the 2nd time to to keep her. ANyway, he caught her cheating shortly after. He was always an insecure overbearing asshole to begin with tho.
 
Smurfy said:
w00ts
she's obviously struggling with a lot right now so please dont take what she is saying to heart. if what you told me is true, she isnt operating with a completely sane mind
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Oh dam is she postpartum? That is some real serious stuff Woot hope you can work through things.
 
I'm starting to think she just may be a bitch, I want to give her the benefit of the doubt, but come on, Toom's is supposed to be the last person she'd wanna hurt.
 
Lestat said:
I'm starting to think she just may be a bitch, I want to give her the benefit of the doubt, but come on, Toom's is supposed to be the last person she'd wanna hurt.
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Whatever dude I think that has more to do with the words you had with her cause of her religion. PPD is a very serious thing she does need help I hope he can find away to get her some.
 
superqt4u2nv said:
Whatever dude I think that has more to do with the words you had with her cause of her religion. PPD is a very serious thing she does need help I hope he can find away to get her some.
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I am sick of you dames blaming your crazy behavior on your hormones.


Who's with me@!!!!!!
 
superqt4u2nv said:
Whatever dude I think that has more to do with the words you had with her cause of her religion. PPD is a very serious thing she does need help I hope he can find away to get her some.
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Has nothing to do with anything from the past, the last time I spoke with her via PM we were on great terms.

I recognize that PPM is serious, but there is still limits to what a decent human being does right?
 
all the whey said:
I am sick of you dames blaming your crazy behavior on your hormones.


Who's with me@!!!!!!
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Until you pop a quarter from your urethra you have no say in hormones and how they affect someone post pregnancy.
 
Lestat said:
Has nothing to do with anything from the past, the last time I spoke with her via PM we were on great terms.

I recognize that PPM is serious, but there is still limits to what a decent human being does right?
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Honestly not saying it is right but it can be like temporary insanity she needs help.
 
mountain muscle said:
PPD?

What is that?
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It is just a medical abbreviation for BITCH.
 
superqt4u2nv said:
Until you pop a quarter from your urethra you have no say in hormones and how they affect someone post pregnancy.
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Settle down.


Are you on your period? :rolleyes:
 
galaxy said:
So is this the hot Daisy who had the 50million page thread going with pics or a different one?
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different one, not the former/current moderator
 
Lestat said:
different one, not the former/current moderator
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I know what we can do.


Lets bomb her!@

That'll show her!
 
All women go crazy around age 35, it only lasts about 6 months - give her time and space.

takes mom and dad to make a baby and mom and dad to raise a baby.
 
Divorce? I as well as everyone else here should hope you're kidding. Speaking of kidding, you and Daisy have two kids. They should come before your differences; their mental, physical, emotional well being is hinged upon the parents. I would hope you two can find a way to make it work. Remember, I'm sure you were both very happy with each other at one point. Find it again for your kids' sakes if nothing else.


*edit* Post partum sounds like a culprit. Damn I never understood it either. The kid is there, it's born and the mother's holding it in her arms and yet she's sad because it's not in her belly sticking it to her diet, weight, looks, health, etc. :whatever:
 
heavy_duty said:
All women go crazy around age 35, it only lasts about 6 months - give her time and space.

takes mom and dad to make a baby and mom and dad to raise a baby.
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All women go crazy around age 13, it only lasts about 60 yrs.
 
all the whey said:
All women go crazy around age 13, it only lasts about 60 yrs.
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But, it's not there fault!@


It's their hormones. :rolleyes:
 
mine packed up and moved 4 provinces away - that was after 9 years of marriage - she came back, I found a therapist, worked it all out then got her pregnant to balance them hormones out :)

One thing you dont want to fuck with is a woman who is over 35 and never had a baby...they'll fuck your head up!
 
mountain muscle said:
Have you yet QT?
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Nope and I have no plans on it I am crazy enough as is without popping out a kid. Whatever you do don't tell Doris I haven't told here yet I am no so keen on the having of babies.
 
Lestat said:
I'm starting to think she just may be a bitch, I want to give her the benefit of the doubt, but come on, Toom's is supposed to be the last person she'd wanna hurt.
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Lestat said:
I recognize that PPM is serious, but there is still limits to what a decent human being does right?
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Wow! This doesn't sound like the great liberal-thinking Lestat we know!!!!!

Where is the bleeding heart of love??????????

Who are you and what have you done with Lestat???????

You bastard!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 
ceo said:
Wow! This doesn't sound like the great liberal-thinking Lestat we know!!!!!

Where is the bleeding heart of love??????????

Who are you and what have you done with Lestat???????

You bastard!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Wootoom is a good bro man.
 
maybe he should go to the "*** Come in, if you want to be cheered-up or complimented ***" thread lol
here ill bump it for him lol
 
galaxy said:
Ive seen a few girls want out after a couple kids. I know of one intance were I think he got her pregnant the 2nd time to to keep her. ANyway, he caught her cheating shortly after. He was always an insecure overbearing asshole to begin with tho.
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I have to and it pisses me off.

it's usually the woman pushing for marriage,kids,big house all that stuff.

then after a few years they realize that life didn't turn out to be exactly like one of the 50,000 romantic comedies they watched incessantly while growing up and she wants to take off.
 
needtogetaas said:
Sounds like Post-partum dep taking to me.
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Is that what your next book is about?
 
Lestat said:
Wootoom is a good bro man.
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Fuck yeah he is.

You don't hear woot acting all crazy and blaming it on hormones.


Walk it off bitches!!!!!!!!!! I don't want to hear anymore about your hormones.
 
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I have an ex (a real crazy bitch) who had a kid with some other dude and ended up with bad Post Partem...so bad that she actually had desires/fantasies of throwing her new baby in the dryer in an attempt to shrink/eliminiate him. On another occasion she actually left the baby in a shopping cart in the middle of a grocery store parking lot hoping someone would steal the kid. The bottom line is is Post Partem can really fuck a woman up if she is not properly treated. If your wife truly is suffering from this, theres more to worry about than just you...I'd be worried about the safety of your kids. Good luck man.
 
Army Vet said:
Multi vitamins can help. In china they eat the placenta - make it into a soup. No shit. It cured PPD.
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ANY BODY GOT AN EXTRA PLACENTA!?
hell, there's never anyone offering a damn good used placenta when you need one, if we didn't need it we'd be steppin all over them.....
 
Mr. Black said:
I have an ex (a real crazy bitch) who had a kid with some other dude and ended up with bad Post Partem...so bad that she actually had desires/fantasies of throwing her new baby in the dryer in an attempt to shrink/eliminiate him. On another occasion she actually left the baby in a shopping cart in the middle of a grocery store parking lot hoping someone would steal the kid. The bottom line is is Post Partem can really fuck a woman up if she is not properly treated. If your wife truly is suffering from this, theres more to worry about than just you...I'd be worried about the safety of your kids. Good luck man.
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The part thats really fucked up. Is that Trying to convince a women she has a mental problem is about the hardest thing known to man kind. If you even think for a second she has a mental problem or a hormone problem :rolleyes: How fucking dare you even think that you are not the problem and she is lmao. How dare you even make a hint at the fact that she might have something wrong with her perfect self. Its not her its you man you!!!!

If A women dos not come to terms that she might be unstable on her own. Your going to be the target no matter what. So you have few options. You ether say see you latter I'll be back when you pull your head out of your ass, or you sit there kiss some ass and wait till she pulls her head out of her ass on her own. Any thing else just makes it worse and you more of an asshole.

Thats just the way I have experienced things. :worried: good luck with it.
 
needtogetaas said:
The part thats really fucked up. Is that Trying to convince a women she has a mental problem is about the hardest thing known to man kind. If you even think for a second she has a mental problem or a hormone problem :rolleyes: How fucking dare you even think that you are not the problem and she is lmao. How dare you even make a hint at the fact that she might have something wrong with her perfect self. Its not her its you man you!!!!

If A women dos not come to terms that she might be unstable on her own. Your going to be the target no matter what. So you have few options. You ether say see you latter I'll be back when you pull your head out of your ass, or you sit there kiss some ass and wait till she pulls her head out of her ass on her own. Any thing else just makes it worse and you more of an asshole.

Thats just the way I have experienced things. :worried: good luck with it.
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lol I been there.

But, not the pregnency issues. (fingers crossed)
 
I truely feel for you. All the words in the world may not take your pain away, but it's all I have. If there's anything that I can do, you have a friend in Texas.
 
needtogetaas said:
All the books in the world could never explain what is going on in a womens head. There all nuts!!!!
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It's the estrogen poisoning, it rots their brains.
 
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