You're in love, she's in love and thats cool. Real cool.
But.. in my HUMBLE opinion... some girls might find stuff like this a tad 'clingy'. Other girls, of course, would love it. I hope NF is the 'love it' type.
I guess 'better' is all in the eye of the beholder.
AAP is strictly a Top. Happy told me that him and ssme switch out once in a while, but mostly SSMe is the top.
You should PM Happy a ferw questions about it.