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This is what my ex told me... decipher please

deco

deco

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Me- I'm over you but i can try and be your friend
her- maybe i dont want to get over you
Please don't tell me if you're screwing someone else. ever. I won't tell you either.
Me- I don't care if you tell me. Go at it.
her- well you will probobly screw someone before I will
me- do you want me to wait for you to screw someone first?
her- basically

Then to top it all off, she throws in "well if it was to just happen and I met someone, I still want to have a chance with you because we make a good couple"

Shes trying to hang out with me daily but im ready to move on. I wish her well and all but I could give a rats ass what her relationship plans are

Anyway.. whats wrong with women nowadays?

This would be the first female friend I would even consider but after that, Don't wanna have nothin to do with it
 
well im the cheater here supposedly. don't get it twisted fellas. To some extent... without having a specific intent to do so... and despite lack of proof... she is correct.
The reason shes trying to break up with me is because i hurt her too much... emotionally. Because she loves me so much and the fact that I keep hurting her isn't working out.
So i said it's best if we break up. Then she wants to stay friends. then she grabs my cawk and its the same bullshit all over again. I guess it's just best to cut her off cold turkey
 
Aren't you young? Do you like the drama? Or can you be like SD and post up your picture adventure with her? Karma points if you've got the same stupid jacket.
 
the fact you couldn't comprehend what she meant makes me figure 2 things

1. you are not capable to hold a relationship, because you are about as smart as a retarded canine
2. there is no girl, you are a virgin and posted this in hopes of people thinking you talk to girl
 
the_clockwork said:
the fact you couldn't comprehend what she meant makes me figure 2 things

1. you are not capable to hold a relationship, because you are about as smart as a retarded canine
2. there is no girl, you are a virgin and posted this in hopes of people thinking you talk to girl
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That sensitivity class has been a godsend for you.

:)
 
if you had a good relationship I would not throw it away

everyone needs friends bro

if I broke up with a women I cared for, the relationship would be the same as before minus the tool touching
 
ChemWiz said:
yep and if she is a cool chick, you will hate yourself once she moves on.

Trust me.
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It could be the case. There is a lot going on, like me being stupid and if you've seen some of my threads you would know why. She is in law school and shes stressed the hell out so as a payback I figured I could be the friend she could count on cause she was that person for me for several years. She's on the jelous side and since the time I met her every time I go out she thinks I'm screwing someone or getting in trouble (no other possibility in her eyes). But her stress is stressing me the fuck out and I figured, well if we separate(which we already are cuz she goes to school in a diff state) it could help her relax and concentrate on school. But then she can't concentrate cuz I'm not there.
I wanted to be a good person here but I don't know if it's working. We traveled together a lot and did exciting things but unless we are together, it doesn't make sense to do that anymore. I figured I would try to destress her while shes in school and be a "friend" but if I get shit for it and she still tries to fight me about shit, fuck that.
And for a while (like 1-2 weeks) I wasn't okay about breaking up completly but I'm over it. Not a very emotional person. Apparently that drives her crazy too.
 
deco said:
It could be the case. There is a lot going on, like me being stupid and if you've seen some of my threads you would know why. She is in law school and shes stressed the hell out so as a payback I figured I could be the friend she could count on cause she was that person for me for several years. She's on the jelous side and since the time I met her every time I go out she thinks I'm screwing someone or getting in trouble (no other possibility in her eyes). But her stress is stressing me the fuck out and I figured, well if we separate(which we already are cuz she goes to school in a diff state) it could help her relax and concentrate on school. But then she can't concentrate cuz I'm not there.
I wanted to be a good person here but I don't know if it's working. We traveled together a lot and did exciting things but unless we are together, it doesn't make sense to do that anymore. I figured I would try to destress her while shes in school and be a "friend" but if I get shit for it and she still tries to fight me about shit, fuck that.
And for a while (like 1-2 weeks) I wasn't okay about breaking up completly but I'm over it. Not a very emotional person. Apparently that drives her crazy too.
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That's nice that you want to be there for her, but it sounds like you guys have tried to be together, but it isn't working out. .
She sounds too insecure and needy. And she sounds infatuated with you, which is really unhealthy for a friendship situation.
Despite your history, I'd just let it go....
 
trex74 said:
That's nice that you want to be there for her, but it sounds like you guys have tried to be together, but it isn't working out. .
She sounds too insecure and needy. And she sounds infatuated with you, which is really unhealthy for a friendship situation.
Despite your history, I'd just let it go....
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that's kinda how i see it
 
Basically, in her mind you have the upper hand in the breakup. You cheated (in her mind) and now you're ready to move on. She wants you pinning away, unable to function because she's no longer in your life.

It is pure ego that is motivating her now; if you give her the chance she will fuck you over like you've never imagined.

Listen to the voice of experience.
 
She's so clingy and needy you have very little respect for her (which probably contributed to why you cheated on her to begin with). How can you be friends with someone you don't respect? And the whole lovers into friends doesn't work nearly 90% of the time (IRL) anyway.

Tell the girl you have enough friends and she needs to respect herself enough to want to have a better class of man in her life, i.e., not you. Might just shock her into thinking about getting her head screwed on straight :lmao:
 
She wants to sleep with someone else (convinced she will be over you if she does this) and not have you date or see anyone in the meantime, so pretty much she wants someone better but wants you to hang around in the mean time... you are only hurting her by staying close and she's beeing needy which will make you snap and hurt her more, keep in touch online and that's it, no more drama, calls, texts, visits, etc.
 
musclemom said:
She's so clingy and needy you have very little respect for her (which probably contributed to why you cheated on her to begin with). How can you be friends with someone you don't respect? And the whole lovers into friends doesn't work nearly 90% of the time (IRL) anyway.

Tell the girl you have enough friends and she needs to respect herself enough to want to have a better class of man in her life, i.e., not you. Might just shock her into thinking about getting her head screwed on straight :lmao:
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I've told her that. There are things that I know i can't change about myself that I know she doesn't like. Like showing my emotions and being touchy touchy. I don't like it and it will not change anytime soon, and to fake it would be stupid.
However I did stop getting drunk with friends on the weekends for past several months and started concentrating on my job (neither of which she believed would happen). Maybe that's why shes trying to hang on.
Cheating happened maybe once or twice with me not being the instigator. But it did involve me being extremely intoxicated to get myself out of the situation. There was a video my friend sent to her by accident where I was kissing some girl when I was blacked out. However, I never went behind her back to date someone or pull off some shisty shit. Just stupid shit that happened shortly after college and while in college.
Anyway, I'm at a point where there isnt anything she can do to hurt my feelings here so I really don't care what she does.
 
deco said:
I've told her that. There are things that I know i can't change about myself that I know she doesn't like. Like showing my emotions and being touchy touchy. I don't like it and it will not change anytime soon, and to fake it would be stupid.
However I did stop getting drunk with friends on the weekends for past several months and started concentrating on my job (neither of which she believed would happen). Maybe that's why shes trying to hang on.
Cheating happened maybe once or twice with me not being the instigator. But it did involve me being extremely intoxicated to get myself out of the situation. There was a video my friend sent to her by accident where I was kissing some girl when I was blacked out. However, I never went behind her back to date someone or pull off some shisty shit. Just stupid shit that happened shortly after college and while in college.
Anyway, I'm at a point where there isnt anything she can do to hurt my feelings here so I really don't care what she does.
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Don't ever change who you are for somebody else.
Regardless of what happened in the past, who cheated on who, forget it, it's over.
Sounds like you need some space...
 
you need to use her as a booty call, she needs to be hurt and to hate you.. You can do it the way i used to do it.. ignore them.. they go away ...

eventually
 
in my case it used to work and then she understood that it's not good cause after she got boned she wouldnt be able to hold her ground anymore. Also the fact that shes about 2000 miles away right now kind of makes it hard.
 
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