the EF family needs some serious therapy.

[Cutiebaby]

great post, makes a lot of sense to many people.Although i am sure there will be some one who will boo hoo about it and say that you are being mean to them for making it!!! LOL

As for the original post, how come I was never mentioned? I am crushed now!

 

[Scotsman]

yeah scottsman is a man in a dress,

Alright you little shit I'm only going to say this once.



























Scotsman has only one T.

Cheers,
Scotsman

 

[Burning_Inside]

HOLY .........

ZM you're seriously a virgin?

 

[jackangel]

sub, you talk too much. don't let the positive feedback from people on EF take you too far.

 

[Smurfy]

im putting the cliff notes in points 1-5 first, and if you want to read the rambling below the bulleted points, go for it

1) for those of us who consider EF a family, it is a slap in our faces to see a few people cheer when one of our own gets banned. we should care for eachother as a community. thats what makes EF fun.

2)if you cant handle horseplay, get the fuck out of the pool

3) there is no such thing as "womanhating" only people with a victims perception. in life, if someone is rude to someone of the opposite sex, you dont label them "woman/man hater", because they will laugh in your face. why is it an acceptable label here?

4) when dating, people fall in love, and then alot of relationships fail because they slowly start picking things out they dont like about eachother and trying to change it. Elite Fitness Chat and Conversation IS WHAT IS- quit trying to change it with whining, crying, and bitching. If you dont like Chat and Conversation, then go to the MANY OTHER FORUMS that will suit your interests and needs. It is selfish and bratty to try and form it around your own personal wants and emotions, by banning the members that make this place so diverse and entertaining. learn from eachother. We all have alot to offer. if you dont like what someone has to offer, or disagree with it, then disagree with it, dont demand that the administration rid C&C of it. thats just selfish to the other members.

5) who remembers that sticky about the "ignore" feature? USE IT IF YOU really hate someone's POSTS!!! again!!! you do not have to read a post if you dont want to! just because you dont like a post, doesnt mean your brain speaks for everyone else's brain. again- selfish brat mentality
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from what iv seen EFers classify themselves into 3 catagories:

first type: the type that says nothing on here matters, its all jokes, all fun and games, have a thick skin because everyones sarcastic, no matter how dark their humor gets, or how serious they seem.

and the second type: those that LOVE everyone on EF, think EF is a family (even if it is a dysfunctional one), and have an internal respect for everyone on this site.

and the 3rd: a mixture of the two. (id like to say i fall into this catagory).

but what iv NEVER seen is anyone make the post
"Hi, my feelings get hurt easy, please be nice, ill stay out of the drama, if you dont include me, i dont find dark humor funny so please keep me far away from it as possible".

with that being said, since we all classify ourselves under type 1, 2, or 3, how can we be GLAD that one of our own is banned?

sure gambino is a cynical idiot who bashes steroids and hates on lestat's avg wimmins along side swole,

sure lestat genuinely gets bothered by other people's faith in god.

yeah needto cant spell.

yeah KB makes some stupid jokes every now and then that other people might not like.

AAP, a moderator, says racist shit from time to time, but hes a fag too.

sure digger has gray pubes and likes to bring his personal feelings into his moderation,

yeah scottsman is a man in a dress,

yeah im a lil idiot virgin, etc,

thats some diversity right there, and what makes EF awsome. if someone rubs you the wrong way and takes away from the C&C enjoyment, there is an ignore feature. this pretending to be thick skinned and then crying about stupid jokes or cynicism or whatever you wanna call it is just straight up PATHETIC. we arnt toddlers, we are supposed to be "adults". part of adult humor is getting offended. if someone says something you disagree with, then formulate a logical arguement back, or just smile big and dismiss it.

for those of you with sibblings, how many times do they do someting to piss you off, or say something that makes you want to punch them real hard, and then you forget about it 5 minutes later? thats because the little things dont matter.

notice i havnt said anything about the women?

we need to have some serious guidlines about what IS and what is NOT acceptable on here. this "you are a woman hater" feminatzi movement is getting out of hand here. there is already a "woman's board" that men cant even post on!!! i dont take personal offense from any of the many RUDE comments women have made to me here. the men constantly make fun of eachother and we brush it off and love it, but for some reason the "womanhater" finger is pointed at men time and time again.

it reminds me of the "youre a racist" trend thats going on in the US.

you forgot "every woman is a whore" "all women lie" and "women are all cheaters and drama queens"

 

[digger]

Subs, tell me something. Why can't we give people a little space here in Chat and keep the graphic descriptions over in BTS?

Like a recent thread by a young guy who wants to talk about something innocent, even romantic? Why does that thread have to have someone jumping in and posting "PUT IT IN HER BUTT!" over and over, again and again, using larger and larger letters until someone finally replies? What value does THAT bring to the site?

I have this image of a sloppy drunk in my bar, leaning over someone else's table, making a scene. As the bartender, that royally pisses me off.

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[Smurfy]

sub, you talk too much. don't let the positive feedback from people on EF take you too far.

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[Lestat]

great post bro!!

 

[Big Rick Rock]

i have a solution to all of EF's problems.

a rating system.

Each post can have a "rating tag" that is correspondant to the "post icons" smiley at the bottom.

each smiley means something.

they can mean
1) controversioanl - meaning there is going to be some back and forth, if you cant accept that people have different opinons than you, u may not wanna read this

2) rated x- not safe for work for sexual reasons

3) rated nc-17- not safe for work for violence/graphic reasons

4) an be a smiley with an afro or something- this thread may contain racial content not suitable for pussies

5) a picture of a girl crying- this thread may offend women because its a "womanhating" topic

6) picture of guy crying- this thread may offend men, because there is possible "manhating" gossip going on.

etc.

and then we can even take it a step further and have "rating tags" for members. a member can rate a member based on these catagories, and whichever the member has more votes for is what their title is.

for example

if a bunch of women vote kb to be #5- "womanhater" will be on his title so if a woman is offended by him they will be like "oh hes a woman hater i dont have to cry for attention because they already have attention) and can vote him womanhater

or caveless can be voted as #4 and his title will say "racist" so this way if he says something racist, nobody has to bitch and moan for attention because everyone already knows "oh ya that dudes racist, oh well".

im willing to help edit threads with the propper content tags if im made a moderator (not that i wanna be a mod, but i know mods already have alot of work, and im willing to practice what i preach).

i wanna be part of the solution!

I proposed something like this for the vBulletin upgrade...

I lil different but same concept.

 

[Lestat]

Subs, tell me something. Why can't we give people a little space here in Chat and keep the graphic descriptions over in BTS?

Like a recent thread by a young guy who wants to talk about something innocent, even romantic? Why does that thread have to have someone jumping in and posting "PUT IT IN HER BUTT!" over and over, again and again, using larger and larger letters until someone finally replies? What value does THAT bring to the site?

I have this image of a sloppy drunk in my bar, leaning over someone else's table, making a scene. As the bartender, that royally pisses me off.

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that's the nature of the board, someone could pour the heart out over a very serioues matter and in the first few minutes the post is inundated with juvenile and snide remarks.

What's the solution? Don't post up personal shit unless you can take a bunch of immature analysis of it.

Most people learn quickly that some people on here are genuine, and many are not.