I met a girl that I would give it up for, but she's the only girl I've ever felt that way about. My life changed the moment I layed eyes on her, it was like something out of a movie. She had some pause about it, but once I educated her she was ok with it. The only problem is that they can always bring that shit up and use it against you. If you lose your temper or anything, she might run her mouth to friends too. If you aren't willing to die for this girl, don't change for her.