Tell us the FIRST time you were Cheated on and WHY? and how it made you feel

[WhistleBritches]

One thing I learned is if you are nice to them and forgive them you win. They feel guilty and you will always have the upper hand.

WISE words

 

[Stefka]

Shortly after taking my virginity, my boyfriend told me he had been cheating on me for months with his ex but that he had stopped.
Excellent timing on his part.
I ended up staying with him for 5 years, but I don't think I ever forgave him for that.
He shouldn't have told me.

 

[Tatyana]

*sighs*

Oh Jade,

what are we to do with you?


When someone cheats, it really does say more about them.

I think people take it too personally, when really people who cheat are completely insecure and/or unwilling to deal with issues directly 90% of the time.

 

[gonelifting]

None AFTER the first real girlfriend I've had. She not only cheated, she ABUSED me. I was so trusting, so naive and she played me like a fiddle in a Saint Patricks day parade. (lol) Really ruined me for every other girl I'd ever be with after that. I'm actually glad that it turned out like that because it made me the person I am today. "No prisoners", "No mercy" whatever you want to call it. "No Bullshit" maybe? Whatever. I don't tolerate anything. Nothing. Unacceptable.

After her, I was always the one to break off anything I had with a girl. Always. Never stuck with anyone excpet when my wife came along. She "saved" me without either of us knowing.

 

[silverstar1025]

HOW is that even POSSIBLE!!?!?

You certainly did not deserve any of that
I am SORRY

they LOST out big time

Yep! In my experience alone it was that they thought with their dicks and nothing more. I am always a good woman to my man yet I was still cheated on. I don't think I am nasty either, but it sure messes with your self esteem when you wonder what you did to deserve it. In all cases I could have got revenge and cheated back, but I couldn't do it. I know how much it hurt and I would not wish that hurt on anyone.

My ex denied denied denied for years. He finally came out and admit that he did after I was long gone. I guess he thought the truth would bring me back, but it didn't. He didn't know what he had until I was gone.

 

[silverstar1025]

None AFTER the first real girlfriend I've had. She not only cheated, she ABUSED me. I was so trusting, so naive and she played me like a fiddle in a Saint Patricks day parade. (lol) Really ruined me for every other girl I'd ever be with after that. I'm actually glad that it turned out like that because it made me the person I am today. "No prisoners", "No mercy" whatever you want to call it. "No Bullshit" maybe? Whatever. I don't tolerate anything. Nothing. Unacceptable.

After her, I was always the one to break off anything I had with a girl. Always. Never stuck with anyone excpet when my wife came along. She "saved" me without either of us knowing.

Yep they really do ruin you for others huh? Very well said. I have had some trust issues with men in my life. If I am ever screwed over again I will never get serious again I don't think. I would just focus on myself and my kids. I think also once you get older you don't put up with as much shit. You are stupid when you are young. At least I was for putting up with shit and believing the "it will never happen again" bs.

 

[drsketch]

I have never been cheated on...

I lay the pipe correctly and take care of womens emotional and other needs. Plus when you have a cock like mine and know how to caress a womens body with your tongue and hands she would only be getting a shittier service going elsewhere.

 

[silverstar1025]

I have never been cheated on...

I lay the pipe correctly and take care of womens emotional and other needs. Plus when you have a cock like mine and know how to caress a womens body with your tongue and hands she would only be getting a shittier service going elsewhere.

lol! Confidence I like that!

 

[needtogetarmy]

Yep! In my experience alone it was that they thought with their dicks and nothing more. I am always a good woman to my man yet I was still cheated on. I don't think I am nasty either, but it sure messes with your self esteem when you wonder what you did to deserve it. In all cases I could have got revenge and cheated back, but I couldn't do it. I know how much it hurt and I would not wish that hurt on anyone.

My ex denied denied denied for years. He finally came out and admit that he did after I was long gone. I guess he thought the truth would bring me back, but it didn't. He didn't know what he had until I was gone.

I could never cheat on a cheater either. All it proves is you are stooping down to their level.

 

[drsketch]

What will make me "cheat"?
Years into the relationship your partner all of a sudden changes yet you stay with them for other reasons like children.

Would I ever tell them?
No, this can only hurt the person so why tell them.