suicide

[musclemom]

have you ever wanted to kill yourself? I have thought about it a lot of times because my life sucks. I am 22 years old and i am a virgin. I won´t get any girls because i have bitch-tits and i am very shy. It is very hard to get a job where i live. I don´t know what i am going to work with. I´m not good at anything. I am not going to take suicide, it would be very selfish.

22 is too damn young to give up on life!!! You have to be a good person to realize that suicide is selfish, don't waste your life ... and don't freak about the virginity thing, there is plenty of time for that! A virgin is a valuable commodity in this day of STDs!

What about military service? See the world, get free education? All branches don't get put into danger zones (especially if you pick your job carefully!!!) My son is 21 in the AirForce and stationed about 25 miles from me The Navy is a pretty safe bet, too.

You DO need a fresh perspective, you need to put yourself out there deal with people, the shyness will melt away. You have to realize that everyone has their own insecurities, too, and they won't judge you half as hard as you judge yourself.

And the bitch tits ... any girl who loves YOU for YOU won't care. Would you love a girl less if her breasts were massively lopsided? She had scars her clothes hid??? C'mon, we ARE more than the sum of our parts!

It's not easy, and I'm not trying to diminish your pain, but there is so much in this world, don't lock yourself into a box, look beyond the paradigm and take a chance ...

 

[gobalboa]

it's true, there is girls who will love u for u. Not every girl just wants a bodybuilder fuckbuddy in this world who doesnt give a flyin fuck about her. You WILL find one who will respect you the same way you respect her. You just got to search

 

[markshark]

22 is too damn young to give up on life!!! You have to be a good person to realize that suicide is selfish, don't waste your life ... and don't freak about the virginity thing, there is plenty of time for that! A virgin is a valuable commodity in this day of STDs!

What about military service? See the world, get free education? All branches don't get put into danger zones (especially if you pick your job carefully!!!) My son is 21 in the AirForce and stationed about 25 miles from me The Navy is a pretty safe bet, too.

You DO need a fresh perspective, you need to put yourself out there deal with people, the shyness will melt away. You have to realize that everyone has their own insecurities, too, and they won't judge you half as hard as you judge yourself.

And the bitch tits ... any girl who loves YOU for YOU won't care. Would you love a girl less if her breasts were massively lopsided? She had scars her clothes hid??? C'mon, we ARE more than the sum of our parts!

It's not easy, and I'm not trying to diminish your pain, but there is so much in this world, don't lock yourself into a box, look beyond the paradigm and take a chance ...

i agree...you have to get out there and be around others more often to learn that its not as important as you think it is to care about what others think, but then again society, especially for people his and my age (im 22 as well) live in a very superficial society, where everytime you turn on the tv, look at a magazine, or go out anywhere the main topic is sex....thats why so many guys on this forum do roids.....for cosmetic reasons and self-confidence. people may argue with me in self-denial on that, but look at the 60's when the ideal male was skinny and smoked pot.....you didnt see many people in their 20s rushing out for deca and dbols back then, whereas today practically every dude ive become friends with at Penn State is on that shit and virtually 95% of the females are looking for that exact body type: abs, big chest, huge arms all that shit. its hard to get passed that in your mind in our country at our age.