Split up with the lady, now a hot blond wants me to spend the night.... advice?

[Iceman121]

Funny that cromagnum sad that.It is so true. Every girl I ever treated like shit follow me like a little dog. Ones I treated really good, walked over me...........sad way for women to be, but it is all true. With the few exceptions of course.
I do think as girls get older, it turns aorund some. Most young girls seem to like to be treated like shit, but older ones like it nice..................hell who knows.......women: can't live with em, can't live with em......heh

 

[Big Brother Val]

Thanks guys. And yeah... it's sad that if you don't really care about a gal... they seem to follow you like a lost puppy. I hate that.

I hate to see assholes with incredible ladies... just doesn't make sense.

Good hell... it'd be hard to treat her like shit. Even just to act like I don't care, because I really, really do. Hell... if I could pull it off, I'd better be nominated for a fuckin' Oscar.

And to think... I bought a $2,600 ring, and was going to propose to her in Vegas (our favorite place to go).

 

[nitlyan]

Rub it out..and wake up, you're dreaming.

 

[Big Brother Val]

I wish I was, Nitlyan. That'd make life a whole shitload easier.

The new gal who wants me to "train" her, isn't nearly as fantastic as my gal. If I knew there would be NO derogatory comments about my lady, I'd post a pic for you all to see.

So even if I go to the new gal... I'm stepping down in the food chain as far as physicality goes. But right now it isn't about that. I just sorta wanna be noticed.

 

[FreakMonster]

Just post her pic for 15 min.

If you post a pic of her gal then I'll post one of mine!! DEAL?

 

[Freak Show]

She's leading you on with that whole marriage thing. She sucks. Tell her I said that.

Any advice?

My advice? Bring a rubber and fuck that girl stupid!

 

[Burnboy]

post a picture of both women!

 

[nitlyan]

just make it known to the spoiled one that you are "training" a new client.

 

[RealDeal]

Val - I have to agree with the other guys. I know how it feels to really care about a girl, and then they up and decide they like the general attention of nobodys. Funny thing is, once you pull your head out and realize they don't deserve you and move on, then they kick themselves. At least that's what I experienced. But once I was gone, I had no desire to accept her back...too many other chicks out there who didn't try to jerk me around. Accept no bullshit my friend.

The fact that you helped her get the body she now has (and it sounds great, btw) and she isn't grateful for that, well, that tells me she neither appreciates you nor seems to give a rat's ass about your feelings or the 2 years you've both dedicated to the relationship.

If she's treating you like a dog and giving all her attention to other guys she doesn't even know...that's a big tip off. Do you think you deserve to be treated in such a way? No. And obviously she wants to keep you around for her own benefit, telling you she'll marry you tomorrow, yet treating you like ass. Don't stand for it! You're sleeping on the couch!

You have another woman who WANTS you. Maybe she's not as hot as "your girl", but from the sound of it, neither was your girl when you met her. You helped get her into shape, right? So, train this new chica and let her give you that workout she's talkin' about.

Like Cromagnum said, either your old girl will come running back because you're not giving her all this attention she's used to from you (even when she gives you none) and she'll know you're perfectly capable of being with someone else; or she'll keep acting the same way. In case of the latter, you'll know she's totally undeserving of you and you'll have someone new to play with.

Whatever you do, even if you don't hook up w/this new chick, DO NOT LET YOUR GIRL WALK OVER YOU ANY LONGER! For your own sake bro...

 

[Big Brother Val]

Thanks again for the replies.

I hate being walked on... and I hate how I feel. I guess I hang on hoping tomorrow she'll realize what she has... and change her ways.

Freakmonster.... I MAY take you up on that. I'm just so tired of other guys looking at her, that I'm not sure if I could handle it. 15 minutes isn't bad... but what would stop someone from copying the picture in that time? (told you I'm one jealous bastard)

I don't have a picture of the new gal... or I would easily post that. I wouldn't mind that at all... but I haven't even seen this gal in more than a year. She quit working here that long ago... and I've only talked to her on computer since then. A friend of mine knows her, and says she still looks great. I'll ask her to send me a photo tomorrow. If she does, I'll be sure to post it.

RealDeal, thanks for taking the time to write all of that. The strange thing is... for the most part, you're all saying what I already know. It's hard to hear, because I know it's the truth. Sometimes you just need that affirmation.

Thanks again.