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Split up with the lady, now a hot blond wants me to spend the night.... advice?
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68GT350
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Phew...Val,
I just read this entire thread. From personal experience I suggest this. Ask her to look you in the eyes and ask if she has ever cheated on you. When my GF did that, it was when we were going through hard times and she too, was distant and wouldn't communicate.
This is the first thing that came to mind so I would like to hear her answer. Good luck man. I've been down this road before and it tends to be long, and bumpy.
I just read this entire thread. From personal experience I suggest this. Ask her to look you in the eyes and ask if she has ever cheated on you. When my GF did that, it was when we were going through hard times and she too, was distant and wouldn't communicate.
This is the first thing that came to mind so I would like to hear her answer. Good luck man. I've been down this road before and it tends to be long, and bumpy.
Big Brother Val
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Thanks, all.
Havent seen you post in a while, Badazz. Where the hell have you been?
I know most people who haven't read this thread will probably not read the whole thing... I mean good hell... I never expected this many responses. Makes me feel pretty good.
I made a lot of decisions since the thread got started... and I did realize that if she cheats on me, and goes for someone else, that's her loss. I will never plead with her to tell me something about me. I will never let her shut down, and show she doesn't care. She does... I walk. I've made that very clear... and she hasn't done it in a while. So things seem to be turning in my favor... but our foundation is still very week. We have to build that before I get comfortable. I won't feel safe building our empire on a foundation of jello. We need to solidify things. Once we have a rock solid foundation... then I'll be more apt to let me guard down.
Again, thank you all.
Havent seen you post in a while, Badazz. Where the hell have you been?
I know most people who haven't read this thread will probably not read the whole thing... I mean good hell... I never expected this many responses. Makes me feel pretty good.
I made a lot of decisions since the thread got started... and I did realize that if she cheats on me, and goes for someone else, that's her loss. I will never plead with her to tell me something about me. I will never let her shut down, and show she doesn't care. She does... I walk. I've made that very clear... and she hasn't done it in a while. So things seem to be turning in my favor... but our foundation is still very week. We have to build that before I get comfortable. I won't feel safe building our empire on a foundation of jello. We need to solidify things. Once we have a rock solid foundation... then I'll be more apt to let me guard down.
Again, thank you all.
badazzwhitedude
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Big Brother Val said:
I'm a mod at triedia so I have been spending most of my time there dude. I love that site. But this place is awesome too.
Big Brother Val
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Badazz... just went to Triedia... very nice. But... you said you liked my screen name there... it's the same as here...
Is there someone being a BBV impersonator over there?
Is there someone being a BBV impersonator over there?
Big Brother Val
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GT... to tell you the truth... yes. However... it was during a fight. She never talks. So what did she say? "I can't believe you'd even ask that."
Good avoidance if you ask me.
But... in any case... I do need to sit her down and ask. Flirt with guys? I know it for a fact. Cheat on me with one... I truly don't believe so... but I do see what you're saying, and you have a very valid point.
Good avoidance if you ask me.
But... in any case... I do need to sit her down and ask. Flirt with guys? I know it for a fact. Cheat on me with one... I truly don't believe so... but I do see what you're saying, and you have a very valid point.
badazzwhitedude
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Big Brother Val said:
I thought your handle there was something like "sukmydcknimrod", lol. Someone posted under that name and said "big bro' val in the house." So I pm'ed that handle, thinking it was you. I don't know.
Anyway, if you ever need any kind of help over there, just ask. You know what I mean.
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