So I'm starting to subscribe to the Puddlemonkey/javaguru/ATW school of thought..

[Bikini Mod]

heheh

just trying to help a good bro out!

seriously he has a solid plan for 10-12 years but what after that!

Oh I know you were just funnin'.... and to a great extent you are correct.

More people would find happiness more quickly if they realized a few things:

1. If they are exceptional then it would stand to reason that it won't be all that easy to find a comparable mate.

2. Love ain't got NUTHIN to do with finding a healthy longterm relationship.

3. They need to take a good long honest look at themselves FIRST if they aren't happy with "the types" of people they are attracting and I am not necessarily talking about a mate. This extends to ALL the people one welcomes into their lives.

 

[gonelifting]

Let's hear some of the "Crazies" stories. They don't have to be overboard, just want to know what "crazies" are like.


Maybe try meeting them other than clubs or bars. lol


or strip clubs. ha jk

 

[ceo]

....on wimminz.
i'm sure i left somebody out in that group

-There's always baggage
-there's always some shit you dont know about/crazy side they dont show
-you always have to play these games to keep their interest. no matter how different they seem, they're really all the same
-the minute you show any emotion they'll probably run

so who gives a shit anymore. just be single and live life.Since i've been single again, I go through phases where im either dating nobody or a bunch of girls at once...and now that im in the super dating phase again it just reminds me that these single older good bros are not just jaded. its fact. i'm done with wasting even a single emotion (that isnt beyond just enjoying the moment) on these loony broads.
I caught feelings over one girl now too long ago and i snapped out of it and realized what a crazy bitch she really was (even though she didnt appear to be) and it was a complete waste of emotions on my part.

out of all the girls i'm seeing now(or have met recently), they're all fucked up...one way or another. some of them seemed great..like great initial connection, good sex etc and then of course you realize how fucked up they are. As much as the idealistic idea of love is appealing and great, its bullshit.

i truly believe (if you're lucky), you'll find maybe 1-2 people you could truly have a life long relationship with. searching for that is pointless. if you see that opportunity you just need to make sure you hold onto it

don't get me wrong, i'm having a blast and really enjoying life and these crazy adventures i have, but the whole concept of true love or this strong interpersonal connection i want deep down is just not realistic. living in the moment and getting high off the endorphins of meeting new people is the way to go. I could easily see myself living this way for the next 10-12 years

about god damn time you recognize!!!

 

[calveless wonder]

heheh

just trying to help a good bro out!

seriously he has a solid plan for 10-12 years but what after that!

i'll knock some girl up to carry my legacy, hopefully find one that's compatible (enough). by then i'll be completely financially set and my dating pool will be even larger..on top of that my family ages well(HGH wont hurt) so i should still look good as long as i work out

who knows if it'll go down like that though. i could meet a girl way before than that i really like

 

[fistfullofsteel]

women hater

 

[calveless wonder]

women hater

hah

the difference between you and me is that i'm not angry about women being the way they are. i just accept it

you've gotten shut down by too many jersey sluts to be happy about it

 

[fistfullofsteel]

hah

the difference between you and me is that i'm not angry about women being the way they are. i just accept it

you've gotten shut down by too many jersey sluts to be happy about it

not really. i've turned down alot more than i've got turned down. i just don't like how nutty jersey women are. they are very mentally unstable. but you are basically saying they are all mentally unstable.

 

[calveless wonder]

not really. i've turned down alot more than i've got turned down. i just don't like how nutty jersey women are. they are very mentally unstable.

thats true

btw fuck the marlins. should have swept those douchebags

 

[fistfullofsteel]

thats true

btw fuck the marlins. should have swept those douchebags

pelfrey = owned by marlins. mets are probably making the playoffs and the yankees probably won't .

 

[Stefka]

... and the same can be said for all men, as well.