So I'm starting to subscribe to the Puddlemonkey/javaguru/ATW school of thought..

[calveless wonder]

....on wimminz.
i'm sure i left somebody out in that group

-There's always baggage
-there's always some shit you dont know about/crazy side they dont show
-you always have to play these games to keep their interest. no matter how different they seem, they're really all the same
-the minute you show any emotion they'll probably run

so who gives a shit anymore. just be single and live life.Since i've been single again, I go through phases where im either dating nobody or a bunch of girls at once...and now that im in the super dating phase again it just reminds me that these single older good bros are not just jaded. its fact. i'm done with wasting even a single emotion (that isnt beyond just enjoying the moment) on these loony broads.
I caught feelings over one girl now too long ago and i snapped out of it and realized what a crazy bitch she really was (even though she didnt appear to be) and it was a complete waste of emotions on my part.

out of all the girls i'm seeing now(or have met recently), they're all fucked up...one way or another. some of them seemed great..like great initial connection, good sex etc and then of course you realize how fucked up they are. As much as the idealistic idea of love is appealing and great, its bullshit.

i truly believe (if you're lucky), you'll find maybe 1-2 people you could truly have a life long relationship with. searching for that is pointless. if you see that opportunity you just need to make sure you hold onto it

don't get me wrong, i'm having a blast and really enjoying life and these crazy adventures i have, but the whole concept of true love or this strong interpersonal connection i want deep down is just not realistic. living in the moment and getting high off the endorphins of meeting new people is the way to go. I could easily see myself living this way for the next 10-12 years

 

[calveless wonder]

oh, and ATW totally called this last year lol

 

[hog#head#cheese]

I love meeting people online its like bar hopping without spending a dime.I do meet quite a few nut balls and fattys but i have turned a few of those into friends without benefits but whatever

 

[calveless wonder]

I love meeting people online its like bar hopping without spending a dime.I do meet quite a few nut balls and fattys but i have turned a few of those into friends without benefits but whatever

yeah dude, the internet is the shit. when i was on match.com i seriously wouldnt even have to do shit. i'd get one or two girls a week hollering at me...and about 40% were actually really cute. couple of emails, my slick phone skills...bottle of wine at my crib and game over.
i love the internet because its alot easier for people to see you're not a scumbag... through text (initially) and they can get to know the real you better. girls in real life think im an arrogant/shallow douche until i disarm them, which is fine...but still annoying to have to jump through those hoops.

between the internet, my kickball league and the 1-2 whores on average i meet when i go out i have unlimited pussy right now.

 

[hog#head#cheese]

The thought of a grown man playing kickball makes me laugh(I bet your shirts say team twist on the back)

 

[silverstar1025]

yeah dude, the internet is the shit. when i was on match.com i seriously wouldnt even have to do shit. i'd get one or two girls a week hollering at me...and about 40% were actually really cute. couple of emails, my slick phone skills...bottle of wine at my crib and game over.
i love the internet because its alot easier for people to see you're not a scumbag... through text (initially) and they can get to know the real you better. girls in real life think im an arrogant/shallow douche until i disarm them, which is fine...but still annoying to have to jump through those hoops.

between the internet, my kickball league and the 1-2 whores on average i meet when i go out i have unlimited pussy right now.

Stud!!

 

[FriendlyCanadian]

so like what is your gameplan after those 10-12 years when you're all like old haggard and jaded bro?

sugardaddy.com????

 

[Bikini Mod]

Don't take this as an insult, because it isn't. You think maybe there is something in you that is attracting the crazies? Are you one of these guys that wants to "rescue" them perhaps? (Just taking a mad stab in the dark.)

Or is it that you are meeting a bunch of women who "just aren't for you"?

Love has NOTHING to do with finding a lasting longterm healthy relationship.

Back in the day I met A TON of nice men who just weren't for me. Yea, I encountered a handfull of guys who were off, for sure, but the majority; we just didn't click. It took A LOT for a man to gain and hold my interest so that would stand to reason. No?

 

[Bikini Mod]

so like what is your gameplan after those 10-12 years when you're all like old haggard and jaded bro?

sugardaddy.com????

MOST MEN don't have the means or the life experience regardless of how haggard and jaded they are so I don't think that sites like that are a reasonable alternative.

 

[FriendlyCanadian]

MOST MEN don't have the means or the life experience regardless of how haggard and jaded they are so I don't think that sites like that are a reasonable alternative.

heheh

just trying to help a good bro out!

seriously he has a solid plan for 10-12 years but what after that!