should i stop my run, going through a break up

[PolfaJelfa]

Pierdol suke, polka czy amerykanka z ciekawosci? Pewnie Polka

 

[Paulo]

Just remember some of the asinine shit that she did to you. Helped me out quite a bit.

 

[Ulter]

czy alltraps mowi po polsku? czy mnie sie pytasz?

 

[Dial_tone]

I went thru a similiar situation recently. Working out got me thru it...otherwise I would sit on the computer all day thinking about her. I feel for you, brother, but you need a diversion....better you choose the gym than the bottle.

 

[Mr.X]

czy alltraps mowi po polsku? czy mnie sie pytasz?

ya chuchuti ponemau po polski, ludjhe po ruski

 

[johnny g]

to make a long story short, i just broke up, not my choice, with the girl i thought i was going to marry. the reason for the breakup doesnt matter cuz she doesnt think we can work it out. im fucked, i cant sleep, eat or train. its been a week, and i feel worse today then i did the first night. i miss her like mad, and keep thinking there is hope. but she doesnt think so. we had problems that she doesnt think we can overcome, and its easier to run from them then face them. i would do anything to make it work, but im affraid its not up to me at all. so ive lost 12 lbs in a week from not eating. i missed some shots and havent been taking my arals like i should, im a mess. and probably need proffesional help. im in week 6 of 16. should i stop alltogether?
im not sure when i;ll feel better and focused to eat and train. i dont think it will be anytime soon. i never loved anyone before, so i dont know how long this healing process takes. some tell me months, some years. what do yuo guys think? i dont want to take shit and not use it. i just lost all motivation to train and eat. its like bodybuilding doesnt matter anymore. all that matters is her.

Let her be for awhile, let her miss you alittle. If she doesn't think it will work then let her be. If you have given it your best then there is nothing you can do to change her mind. Girls come and go. I have had two girls that I thought I would be set with, but you know what they didn't work out. I learned alot after my first fucked up relationship. I have been through some Messed up relationships too but hey thats life. I am with a different girl now that has been the best to me. Anyhow don't stop your life. I say tomorrow is a new day. New Beginning. Get back into the gym focus on you. I know its easier said then done. But you can't keep beating on a dead dog. Be strong. Good Luck. Hope things work out for you.

 

[PolfaJelfa]

Muwilem do alltraps Ulter, domyslilem ssie ze muwi po polsku bo flage ma polska

 

[escher]

Hey Traps,

You got a PM from escher...

 

[Devastation]

i would stop the cycle and run the pct without the clomid. clomid makes me want to commit suicide half the time. nothing you need right now. i got divorced one year ago and refocusing myself on powerlifting was what helped me persevere through the emotional breakdowns. and as far as when you will be over her, only time will tell. i miss the woman i married every day. but i have someone i dearly love now and who loves and treats me with respect. i wouldn't trade that for anything. you may never be completely over her, but it does get easier with time. nobody says you have to ever get over her. but you can't let this situation ruin your life. take a week or two off and run the pct. when you feel the fire burning inside of you, you'll know you are ready to get back to your iron lifestyle

take time and reflect on the good times you two shared together, if it was meant to be, maybe she'll come around later. but remember you must give her a reason for her to want to come back. why would anyone want to be around a depressed/unmotivated loser? regain your confidence in life and in yourself. make yourself desirable to her and other people as well. this is also good for yourself as it will aid your recovery from this depression and make you regain your confidence in yourself much faster. there's much more you can do bro, and i wish you luck. nobody deserves to have their heart broke. if you need to talk, drop me a pm. i've did alot of research in this area. it's tough but you have to be tougher. stay strong brother

 

[escher]

"Devastation" deserves some serious K for that post. VERY strong advice bro.

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