Should I send this to the ex?

[Lestat]

I've had one other real heartbreak... and I've had plenty of other little rejections that tied my stomach in knotts for a day or two.. but nothing close to this....

and Becoming, I know she's hooked up with other guys.... the thing is, that doesn't phase me.. because I have hooked up with other chicks.. and I know that its possible to hook up, make out, fuck... but get absolutely zero satisfaction from it.. in my idealistic head I imagine that is what she is going though... if I saw her making out with a dude I'd think... "whatever, he's no where near as good as me"

 

[superqt4u2nv]

Stop being idealistic and start being realistic, if she was the person you think she is she would have never dumped you in the first place.

 

[Lestat]

Stop being idealistic and start being realistic, if she was the person you think she is she would have never dumped you in the first place.

That's true, but nobody is perfect right?

 

[danielson]

let the other chick come round, you'll have fun

 

[Becoming]

and Becoming, I know she's hooked up with other guys.... the thing is, that doesn't phase me.. because I have hooked up with other chicks.. and I know that its possible to hook up, make out, fuck... but get absolutely zero satisfaction from it.. in my idealistic head I imagine that is what she is going though... if I saw her making out with a dude I'd think... "whatever, he's no where near as good as me"

this might be a bit brutal, but probably necessary to say from the way you are talking...




here is the thing tho bro - you are right.....that shit doesn't phase you because you still want to be with her... that is why you get no satisfaction from it....

and you are somehow rationalizing that it don't matter to you what she does because as you say "in my idealistic head I imagine that is what she is going though... "... implying that these guys probably dont really move her, cause you can't fathom that she has the same type of feelings for them that you do for her...

but here is the deal... the person that she has no feeling for, that doesn't move her, is YOU.... that is why you need to move on.... she left because SHE wont get any satisfaction from you. and because in the same way you would dis other chicks for her, thinking only she will give you satisfaction, she has dissed YOU for other guys, believing that she will only get the satisfaction that she wants with THEM.... not YOU.

I am sorry, that is harsh, but it is the truth. If that don't hurt like a bitch to hear, then I am really worried about you.

You need to stop playing this game with yourself, cause you are making it harder than it needs to be.

 

[Lestat]

this might be a bit brutal, but probably necessary to say from the way you are talking...




here is the thing tho bro - you are right.....that shit doesn't phase you because you still want to be with her... that is why you get no satisfaction from it....

and you are somehow rationalizing that it don't matter to you what she does because as you say "in my idealistic head I imagine that is what she is going though... "... implying that these guys probably dont really move her, cause you can't fathom that she has the same type of feelings for them that you do for her...

but here is the deal... the person that she has no feeling for, that doesn't move her, is YOU.... that is why you need to move on.... she left because SHE wont get any satisfaction from you. and because in the same way you would dis other chicks for her, thinking only she will give you satisfaction, she has dissed YOU for other guys, believing that she will only get the satisfaction that she wants with THEM.... not YOU.

I am sorry, that is harsh, but it is the truth. If that don't hurt like a bitch to hear, then I am really worried about you.

You need to stop playing this game with yourself, cause you are making it harder than it needs to be.

Dude I know that somewhere inside of me I know this is true, but I can't get myself to believe it.

 

[superqt4u2nv]

That's true, but nobody is perfect right?

Right B no one is perfect, just trying to save you from making a mistake and causing yourself more pain.

 

[Becoming]

Dude I know that somewhere inside of me I know this is true, but I can't get myself to believe it.

probably cause for you to realize this, and to really admit to yourself that it is true, is going to hurt like a bitch, and you probably know it.... (confidence, ego, etc are all part of this)

if you haven't really come to terms with it yet, then you haven't really let yourself get to the part that really feels bad....

you are going to have to let go bro and let it happen... once you do, things will get better...

there is your problem bro... I don't know how to help you fix that.

 

[bran987]

probably cause for you to realize this, and to really admit to yourself that it is true, is going to hurt like a bitch, and you probably know it.... (confidence, ego, etc are all part of this)

if you haven't really come to terms with it yet, then you haven't really let yourself get to the part that really feels bad....

you are going to have to let go bro and let it happen... once you do, things will get better...

there is your problem bro... I don't know how to help you fix that.

[THE END] fade to black.......

 

[Gigantasor]

Dude now write a letter in the reverse. Write down all the reason why you are not togeter and all the shit that went wrong. Make it as explicit and as mean as you can. Remind yourself why shit didn't work out. I guarantee that you will find a lot of reasons why you are not good togeter.

Either way I wouldn't send that letter. If you do you might as well tuck them between your legs and strap on some heals.

Sorry bro but it's one thing to pour your heart out to a bunch of people you will probably never meet across the world. It's another to put yourself back on the hot seat with a woman who, by all accounts, doesn't give a damn.