She lied about her looks, on Eharmony.....scary

[nimbus]

do the heisman on that ho

 

[Gymgurl]

Okay my question is....WHY THE HELL do these women post pics of 20 yrs ago or someone who is not them....KNOWING that they are going to meet up with a man??? This has always amazed me...I guess they think you are going to fall for their personality and not care what they look like?

 

[beefcake28]

Beauty lies in the eyes of the beer-holder.

I suppose that the reason the other board members are REALLY going at it with this woman is because she didn't shave off a year or two or maybe a dress size or two but she made such gross misstatements that she opened herself up to ridicule of the nth degree.

Sorta like one time when a dood flew me to Boston for the weekend. OMG when I got off of the plane, had we not had our cellulars we NEVER would have found each other. I still remember literally standing in front of him and I saw this man's mouth moving making the words that were coming into my ear from my phone but my eyes were in total disbelief. The man standing before me was at least 10 years older, 50 pounds heavier and near a full head of hair ago!

He messed it up for himself from the getco because even though I did enjoy his company (translation: I liked him as a person. He did stimulate my mind.) I just could not get over how blatantly he lied and how great a lie. I kept wondering what else he was lying about.

Needless to say he changed my ticket and had a car take me to the airport THE NEXT MORNING to catch the first flight back. Good Lord, every moment after the initial meeting was like pulling teeth. I was THAT disappointed.

Fixed.

 

[beefcake28]

I am all about respecting my most precious commodity: TIME.

I could never understand why a woman would lie about something as silly as her appearance in real time. That is why if I had any modeling pics I would also have no makeup, crappy webcam pics - always taken w/in the last 6 months. I don't like my time wasted. If I am not a man's cup of tea, my feelings are not hurt over it. LOL There were 10 others in line behind that one yelping, "Pick me... pick me." (Not saying that they were all quality either. Heck, I had to kiss an awfull lot of frogs before I found my lawngnome.)

As for men. They can't help it. ALL MEN LIE. Once women accept this, the happier they will be.

 

[mrplunkey]

Okay my question is....WHY THE HELL do these women post pics of 20 yrs ago or someone who is not them....KNOWING that they are going to meet up with a man??? This has always amazed me...I guess they think you are going to fall for their personality and not care what they look like?

I believe its the "shallow hal" effect. They assume that once you get to know them, something magical will happen and appearance won't matter.

That movie is the ultimate chick-flick in some ways...

 

[beefcake28]

As for men. They can't help it. ALL MEN LIE.

Try explaining that to a man. A lie of ommission is still a lie. But hey, if she never catches him, then what is the harm?

well if they are not liars, they are omitters ;-)

BULLSHIT. To categorize EVERY man like that is asinine. Yes, for the majority, you are accurate... but please... You'd both be jumping all over me if I tried presenting a categorization that had implications applying to ALL women. Get your shit in check. You simply cannot make a blanket statement like that, and expect anyone to take it seriously.

Talk about the majority of men, or a certain population, but DO NOT say ALL men... Speaking of which, back your shit up. I'm not talking about what you happen to think, I'm talking about cold, hard facts or results. You made a bold, blatent statement... Backing it up shouldn't be too difficult, should it?? Show me even just ONE published study that represents what you claim... Please.

 

[Gymgurl]

I believe its the "shallow hal" effect. They assume that once you get to know them, something magical will happen and appearance won't matter.

That movie is the ultimate chick-flick in some ways...

I just amazes me the stories that I have heard.....KNOWING full well you intend to meet someone

 

[ksharp01]

I don't understand the lieing about age/weight/looks...etc. if your actually trying to hook up with someone...it makes no sense at all.

 

[Gymgurl]

Thats what I am saying...and they do...my neighbor told me about some experiences he had.....

 

[ksharp01]

I mean really........people need to be honest about this shit. I would be so ashamed to even try to meet someone under those false pretenses.