She lied about her looks, on Eharmony.....scary

[stilleto]

You have to sell yourself somehow.

If you told everyone the dirty truth on the first date I think we'd all be lonley. lol.

What this woman did is unreal however, a little past selling yourself.

She was probably telling herself the same lies ; she probably hates herself full of problems lol. WOW.

i agree.
i'm sure she knew she lied about her age and weight, but i'm guessing she was lying to herself about how much of a difference the truth actually is.

some lies are subjective anyway. "are you attractive?" - the truth is subjective. even statements like "I used to model" - lots of people have, and not all of them are pretty or thin, or tall. if a woman ends up in one of those hair magazines or books that you find in a salon- she can say she's modeled. i bet most of them do say it. half of them aren't even pretty.

 

[Bikini Mod]

i agree.
i'm sure she knew she lied about her age and weight, but i'm guessing she was lying to herself about how much of a difference the truth actually is.

some lies are subjective anyway. "are you attractive?" - the truth is subjective. even statements like "I used to model" - lots of people have, and not all of them are pretty or thin, or tall. if a woman ends up in one of those hair magazines or books that you find in a salon- she can say she's modeled. i bet most of them do say it. half of them aren't even pretty.

Bingo...

When peeps say they modeled to me I ask, "May I see your book?" If they did REALLY model then they will know exactly what I am asking. If they were doing "runway shows in the mall for Barbizon" - they give me the deer in headlights stare.

The same with photographers. I ask, "May I see your book?" It is so funny to see the wannabees making all sorts of excuses.

 

[mrplunkey]

You have to sell yourself somehow.

If you told everyone the dirty truth on the first date I think we'd all be lonley. lol.

What this woman did is unreal however, a little past selling yourself.

She was probably telling herself the same lies ; she probably hates herself full of problems lol. WOW.

The biggest lies you ever fall for are the ones you tell yourself.

 

[javaguru]

"NEW YORK, Feb 6 (Reuters Life!) - When looking for love online, eight out of 10 people lie about their appearance but only by making themselves an inch or so taller or trimming a few pounds, according to a survey of Internet daters.

A study led by Jeffrey Hancock, assistant professor of communication at Cornell University in Ithaca, New York, found 81 percent of 80 people from four dating Web sites lied about their looks but only marginally so as not to get caught out."


http://today.reuters.com/news/artic...06281100_RTRUKOC_0_US-LIFE-DATING.xml&src=rss

 

[Bikini Mod]

i agree.
i'm sure she knew she lied about her age and weight, but i'm guessing she was lying to herself about how much of a difference the truth actually is.

some lies are subjective anyway. "are you attractive?" - the truth is subjective. even statements like "I used to model" - lots of people have, and not all of them are pretty or thin, or tall. if a woman ends up in one of those hair magazines or books that you find in a salon- she can say she's modeled. i bet most of them do say it. half of them aren't even pretty.

There is no such thing as truth. Perception IS reality.

 

[javaguru]

The five lies;
http://www.askmen.com/dating/heidi_100/125_dating_girl.html

 

[Grumpy Old Man]

There is no such thing as truth. Perception IS reality.

I used to be a bikini model and most people think I am famous

 

[Bikini Mod]

The five lies;
http://www.askmen.com/dating/heidi_100/125_dating_girl.html

Good one!

Big Lie #1: "I'm not mad at you."

I can understand this one. However, I have learned that to withhold feelings of anger/disappointment will only hurt me in the end. So if I am pissed at my man - believe you me - I make sure he knows it! LOL If he is not made aware that whatever it is that he is doing is angering or bothering me in some other fashion, then how on earth can I expect him to stop doing it?

Big Lie #2: "I don't mind if you go to strip clubs with the boys."

See we are peculiar in that my husband doesn't feel the need to go to the strip club without me. If either of us doesn't feel like going, we just don't go. We were just there a few nights back. Had a drink, chatted a bit to some of the girls that we know, conducted a bit of business and then went home where I promptly took advantage of the old bastard!

Big Lie #3: "I'm just not ready for a boyfriend right now."

This isn't one that I have ever used. If I didn't want to see a guy again, I just didn't. What is is this "I am just not ready for a boyfriend business?" I truly do not understand. If a guy was just Mr RightNow, I made it abundantly clear to him.

Big Lie #4: "I don't mind picking up the tab tonight. You always pay anyway."

LOL I never had this problem. Guys knew upfront, if they wanted to go on a date with me, he had better be ready to foot the bill. As a single mother ALL of my money went to my children, then me and then... well my children and me. Besides, what kind of a man would even bring something like that up? Definitely not one that I would be interested in.

Big Lie #5: "You're the best in bed."

This one brings to mind one of THE FUNNIEST stories. A dood that I was seeing back in the day once said, out of the blue, "All the women that I have slept with since I broke up with my ex-wife have said that I am THE BEST LOVER that they had EVER had."

Without skipping a beat I promptly replied, "So how about those Yankees?"

He wasn't SO dumb as to prevent me from changing the topic.

(Neither one of us was EVER into sports).

 

[Spanky11]

Bikinimom, you are completely worthless, and now going on "ignore"...

 

[Bikini Mod]

Bikinimom, you are completely worthless, and now going on "ignore"...

The hell you say?

I thought that by all this time that I was ignoring you - without feeling the need to publicly state it, you would have taken a hint.

Dayum, some peeps just NEED fer a body to be straight up harsh.