She lied about her looks, on Eharmony.....scary

[Bikini Mod]

BULLSHIT. To categorize EVERY man like that is asinine. Yes, for the majority, you are accurate... but please... You'd both be jumping all over me if I tried presenting a categorization that had implications applying to ALL women. Get your shit in check. You simply cannot make a blanket statement like that, and expect anyone to take it seriously.

Talk about the majority of men, or a certain population, but DO NOT say ALL men... Speaking of which, back your shit up. I'm not talking about what you happen to think, I'm talking about cold, hard facts or results. You made a bold, blatent statement... Backing it up shouldn't be too difficult, should it?? Show me even just ONE published study that represents what you claim... Please.

In Hungarian you don't tell a lie, but you give it.

I don't need a published study. I need only quote a folk saying from my country: "A man is truly poor when he can not even afford to give a lie."

Surely an entire ethnicity can't be that misguided.... can they?

Men value beauty and women value success. All else stems from this.

I am not taking cheap shots at men nor am I saying that women are superior. I am just letting women know that all men lie. So the sooner they accept this, the happier they will be. If a man wants to pursue a woman and she decides to accept his proposal then she need only sit back and say, "Bring it." If he can follow through on his endeavors - great. If not, then she need only say, "Next!"

I would love to hear how ANY man never exaggerated a bit, or shaded the truth, or left out some important detail that he thought might impede his ability to gain favor in the eyes of a woman that he was pursuing at the time. Once ANY man realizes that the particular object of his attention is someonekindofwonderful and he had better not continue this type of behavior so as not to screw up what might be a wonderful relationship - he changes how he continues presenting himself and/or his reality. If she never catches him then there is no harm/no foul. If he gets nailed she will forgive him and if he truly values the relationship, he won't do it again. Period.

Either way, this is the behavior of men. It is their nature. No reason to get upset about it. Just the way it is.

Are there women that lie? ABSOFUCKINGLUTELY.

I am not talking about character flaws here. Those are not gender specific. I am merely talking about human behavior.

 

[Bikini Mod]

Okay my question is....WHY THE HELL do these women post pics of 20 yrs ago or someone who is not them....KNOWING that they are going to meet up with a man??? This has always amazed me...I guess they think you are going to fall for their personality and not care what they look like?

I think a more telling question would be why do women get upset if ANY man does not find them physically appealing?

The fact is that whether men care to admit it or not they tend to be very superficial when it comes to a woman's external appearance. And yes, this goes both ways to some extent, but moreso on the parts of men as they are VERY visual creatures.

Once a woman realizes that she is only wasting HER TIME by pandering to a man that is either too blind or too stupid to see what is beautiful about her, she can quickly move on and doesn't spin her wheels on such frivolous wastes of energy.

 

[Bikini Mod]

As if women were somehow more honest, by nature...

LOL

Did you see the pics that were posted?

This woman was obviously a horrible liar. But as I stated previously her deception was incredibly easy to surmize. Imagine if it was the other way around? Arabian told her that he was an extremely successfull eye surgeon and turned out to be a shoe salesman. How would she truly know? She obviously couldn't be too bright to try to perpetrate the BLATANT lie she did. So how would she "catch him" really, until she was fairly well into the relationship and started to have feelings for him, so much so, that when she did finally find out, she would forgive him.

Do you see the difference here?

This woman was obviously not the sharpest tool in the shed. So whether she WAS a runway model or not really becomes less important. Doesn't it?

 

[beefcake28]

In Hungarian you don't tell a lie, but you give it.

I don't need a published study. I need only quote a folk saying from my country: "A man is truly poor when he can not even afford to give a lie."

Surely an entire ethnicity can't be that misguided.... can they?

Men value beauty and women value success. All else stems from this.

I am not taking cheap shots at men nor am I saying that women are superior. I am just letting women know that all men lie. So the sooner they accept this, the happier they will be. If a man wants to pursue a woman and she decides to accept his proposal then she need only sit back and say, "Bring it." If he can follow through on his endeavors - great. If not, then she need only say, "Next!"

I would love to hear how ANY man never exaggerated a bit, or shaded the truth, or left out some important detail that he thought might impede his ability to gain favor in the eyes of a woman that he was pursuing at the time. Once ANY man realizes that the particular object of his attention is someonekindofwonderful and he had better not continue this type of behavior so as not to screw up what might be a wonderful relationship - he changes how he continues presenting himself and/or his reality. If she never catches him then there is no harm/no foul. If he gets nailed she will forgive him and if he truly values the relationship, he won't do it again. Period.

Either way, this is the behavior of men. It is their nature. No reason to get upset about it. Just the way it is.

Are there women that lie? ABSOFUCKINGLUTELY.

I am not talking about character flaws here. Those are not gender specific. I am merely talking about human behavior.

If an ENTIRE ethnicity truly believes this, it shouldn't be that difficult to derive where it stems from, now... should it? That's what I wanna see... Something backing this up beyond YOUR opinion. A book, a study, hell... even a magazine or newspaper article... Can't be that tough, can it? Back it up, that's all I'm asking. I'm sorry, but... as much as I tend to agree, or disagree with you, I just simply need more proof to believe something to be true. And, yes, that includes statements representing an ENTIRE ethnicity.

Fine... You wanna say "ALL men lie"?? That's great. I'll counter with "ALL women lie". I'll even make this easy on you... you can either: #1. Prove to me (through empirical data) that ALL men do, in fact, lie... or #2. Disprove to me that "ALL women lie" (again, using empirical data).


Your choice. Go... Again, all I'm asking is for something beyond YOUR opinion. If you are correct, it shouldn't be that difficult, right??

 

[Bikini Mod]

If an ENTIRE ethnicity truly believes this, it shouldn't be that difficult to derive where it stems from, now... should it? That's what I wanna see... Something backing this up beyond YOUR opinion. A book, a study, hell... even a magazine or newspaper article... Can't be that tough, can it? Back it up, that's all I'm asking. I'm sorry, but... as much as I tend to agree, or disagree with you, I just simply need more proof to believe something to be true. And, yes, that includes statements representing an ENTIRE ethnicity.

Fine... You wanna say "ALL men lie"?? That's great. I'll counter with "ALL women lie". I'll even make this easy on you... you can either: #1. Prove to me (through empirical data) that ALL men do, in fact, lie... or #2. Disprove to me that "ALL women lie" (again, using empirical data).


Your choice. Go... Again, all I'm asking is for something beyond YOUR opinion. If you are correct, it shouldn't be that difficult, right??

LOL OF COURSE WOMEN FEEL THE NEED TO LIE!!! Most specifically though, about their appearance.

Fake hair, fake nails, make-up, implants and on and on and on and on. You think they alter their appearance this way to cater to other women?

The woman in this thread that Arabian exposed is just a really STOO-PID liar.

 

[beefcake28]

LOL OF COURSE WOMEN FEEL THE NEED TO LIE!!! Most specifically though, about their appearance.

Fake hair, fake nails, make-up, implants and on and on and on and on. You think they alter their appearance this way to cater to other women?

The woman in this thread that Arabian exposed is just a really STOO-PID liar.

What part of "empirical data" don't you understand??

I'm not talking about "lies" comprimising of make-up, fake nails, implants, etc... Just like you weren't talking about such "cosmetic" issues in your statement that "ALL men lie". Sure, a guy can pretend to "inflate" his wallet, but when it comes down to it, you find out the truth... Just like when you wimmins wear them damn push-up bras... yeah, your chest might look bigger in public, but when that bra is layin' on the floor next to the bed, we can tell the difference between a a B-cup and a C-cup.

Just like you, I observe the same social dynamics day after day, and I understand better than most why it happens the way it does... That said, I'm asking for something more than just your, or anyone elses', casual observations... Please, you are gonna have to do better than that...

 

[matty420]

I got them...

Hawtness.

is that a humungus black dildo in that box on the table? i guarentee that was a gift from the girl across the table. no white woman could handle that

oh, and nice fucking mu-mu in the second pic. i'd fuck her

 

[manny78]

Where's the original pic ? ANyway, wow fuckin' wow, that must suck...

 

[Bikini Mod]

What part of "empirical data" don't you understand??

I'm not talking about "lies" comprimising of make-up, fake nails, implants, etc... Just like you weren't talking about such "cosmetic" issues in your statement that "ALL men lie". Sure, a guy can pretend to "inflate" his wallet, but when it comes down to it, you find out the truth... Just like when you wimmins wear them damn push-up bras... yeah, your chest might look bigger in public, but when that bra is layin' on the floor next to the bed, we can tell the difference between a a B-cup and a C-cup.

Just like you, I observe the same social dynamics day after day, and I understand better than most why it happens the way it does... That said, I'm asking for something more than just your, or anyone elses', casual observations... Please, you are gonna have to do better than that...

LOL that is exactly what I said. A lie, is a lie, is a lie whether it is an inflated wallet or fake tits.

Men value beauty and women value security. All else stems from this.

Just because you feel the need for empirical data to "prove my point" that does not automatically mean that I feel the need to furnish it. We are not talking about something as earth-shattering as a cure for cancer. We are talking about a topic that may be as inconsequential (depending upon your personal frame of reference) as the existance of God. Can you provide me with empirical data that such a power even exists?

Guess what? I don't need you to. Call me crazy (I am certain I am LOL) but I still believe that such a force DOES exist.

Works for me!

 

[cindylou]

This was an opinion ; not fact.