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I'm fairly good friends with this girl and the other week she stayed over but didn't seem that interested in getting super intimate.
Knowing that she is really into me I was kind of picking on her about it and joking "what are you not attracted to me, etc."
Then the following day (or maybe day after) she sends me a text and says the reason why is that she is a CARRIER OF THE HERPES VIRUS. Hasn't slept with THAT many people but says it was from one drunk night several years ago and found out shortly after.
So this kind of REALLY bothers me... but if I told her that she'd probably cry. HOWEVER, it does, indeed, turn me off big time.
I pretend like it doesn't bother me but in my mind I'm like NO FUCKING WAY would I touch you and you gross me out. I could never say that though and she's still a good friend.
What would you do? Is this a big deal?
Knowing that she is really into me I was kind of picking on her about it and joking "what are you not attracted to me, etc."
Then the following day (or maybe day after) she sends me a text and says the reason why is that she is a CARRIER OF THE HERPES VIRUS. Hasn't slept with THAT many people but says it was from one drunk night several years ago and found out shortly after.
So this kind of REALLY bothers me... but if I told her that she'd probably cry. HOWEVER, it does, indeed, turn me off big time.
I pretend like it doesn't bother me but in my mind I'm like NO FUCKING WAY would I touch you and you gross me out. I could never say that though and she's still a good friend.
What would you do? Is this a big deal?

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