Roonytunes
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mermaid said:Soooooo, can I ask how the weekend went? And I'm not talking about the food, LOL. (I'm allowed to be cheeky this once, I've just come back!!!)
Just because I'm happy to have you back, I will divulge some details

At first glance, the guy seemed great: attractive, sweet, nice, outgoing, chivalrous and he's an eye surgeon so he has a very stable career and the nice lifestyle that comes along with it. We had a great time on Sat night with dinner and drinks. The conversation flowed and we had good chemistry
However, on Sunday, I started seeing a few issues. He told me he's high maintanence in the way that he needs a lot of attention in a relationship and has to feel loved. Also, he hates doing anything by himself and needs others to enjoy life. I'm not sure if this is compatible with the way I am. I am very independant and self-sufficient. I take care of myself and my needs. I expect others to do the same for themselves. I also love my own space and down time. I was trying to watch tv in the afternoon and I couldn't get 5 mins without him asking me what I was thinking, why I wasn't being entertaining, why I was so quiet etc. All I wanted to do was get on that plane and come back to my own life where I could be and do whatever I wanted without interruption. So it didn't really end on the best note.
I'm happy to have had the experience, but I also am content with my single life as is. So I'm not sure if there's going to be a next time. Oh, and it didn't help his case that he didn't totally understand my clean eating/fitness regime lifestyle either. No, I didn't want a waffle and bloody mary for brunch on Sunday since I already had my cheat meal on Sat night.
