relationships suck

[Diesel3d]

But some of you guys who recommend taking out your frustrations by using or abusing other women -- grow up! Other girls aren't responsible for what your ex did to you. Don't lay that shit on them.

well I don't recall anyone saying they wanted to use women and abuse them, but there are plenty of girls out there who want to be used for pleasure and nothing more. I have a couple girlfriends that are strictly fun relationships. We don't even care about each other. It's clear we use each other and we can see other people and are open about it. I don't care about her, she don't care about me. Fine.

There is no reason these days to be tied down to a girl or wife. The only point of getting married IMO is to have kids and I don't want any. That's is. This world is too fucked up for love and all that stuff. That's all fantasy. If you can find it, that’s great.... 1 in a 1000, but be careful because these fucking girls are never satisfied. And that’s the key thing. Satisfied…

After reading this thread over and thinking my own thoughts in my mind I have now devoted my life to be single, and self centered. I will never get married or take any girl seriously. All I want is sex from them, and for myself I will improve my body, my career / success, wealth, travel, fuck and enjoy life.

If I ever want kids when I am in my mid 40's ill take it from there and find a girl that will be useful as a good mother.

that’s me…

 

[freshr1]

Word up Diesel! That's how I'm living my life. You just made my buddy list

 

[Sexual Mustard]

I feel ya, TheBear....I just broke up with my g/f a little over 2 months ago (er, she broke up with me rather). I too thought that this was "the one"..... and it's still tough and I'm still depressed, although I hide it from friends/family.

Because of the outcome of that relationship I will never have the same respect for girls ever again....

 

[Ercole]

Damn, Mandinka, was that a coed house or a cathouse your were staying in?

I still think if you go into relationships presuming girls are THE ENEMY OUT TO DESTROY YOU, it will be a self-fulfilling prophecy.

You give girls the benefit of the doubt, at least you're giving them the option to live up to it. If you assume every girl is a lying whore like the one who broke your heart (sniff sniff), that's who you'll end up with: lying whores.

2 more cents ...

 

[Mandinka]

Bodega

Sorry i didn't get bcak to you Bodega , had some trouble lately...
Anyway , it was a University residence right in Dublin, there were people from almost every country in Europe as well as Canada and the U.S.A. .
I don't think all women are whores , not at all , but when I was younger I used to watch too much t.v. I think and thought , "Oh Yeah , I'm gonna treat women (cos they're so faithful) like gold and they'll do the same back to me" , Man was i duped.
The girl in question was SO popular with her female friends by the way , it was a lot like "Sex in the City" , so everytime I hear women go on about "Men get away with being sluts , women have to lie about it" - I think bullshit.

 

[Maxx Out]

FUCK Her!!! She wasn't the one, brother!!! Don't get down, train like a mother-fucker and forget her. U'll find "the one" but for now have some fun!

 

[M56M]

Now i really add to this thread....

This past week got into a fight(over a misundrstanding) with my girl, we seemed to have had things fixed...or at least i thought.

Well to make a long story shot, the fight was last Tuesday and we saw each other Wed. Things were fine. Well Thurs we didn't talk much, she didn't want to see me on Fri(i understood she was probably still a little upset) Well its Monday and she has not returned any of my phone calls and it doesn't seem like she is going to. What a way to say Good Bye after over 3 months together....didn't think anyone could be that cold. Well it hurts but my quote says it all...

M56M

 

[Darksong2k1]

Finally a thread I can relate to.

I had been seeing this girl for a little while, not too long... and in that short amount of time, we became really close. She is a good Christian girl, and I'm in the church scene myself. There was a mutual respect there in that relationship for each of our own beliefs. I even got really pulled into the family scene. Her mom called my house, on a couple of occassions, to say "Hi honey, how are you?", and tell me about how Megan just kept going on and on about how great I am, smart I am, whatever...

Well, needless to say, it all came tumbling down. We went to see a movie on a Saturday, and she really wasn't herself. Out of nowhere. So she curls up against me, and I ask what's up. She says it's just the whole notion of leaving for college in Oklahoma, and losing F2F contact with her parents for the first time scares the hell out of her. That atop the fact that she doesn't want to leave me. Yeah, right! Trying to be the good person I am, I of course comforted her and assured her it'd be alright. Sure the hell would. She would in fact kiss me goodnight, then the very next day tell me at church she needed a "Break". AT CHURCH OF ALL PLACES! I called it right away, though I didn't say a word. I loved that girl, and I had hopes that maybe it WAS true ... just a break, with all the stress. Wrong. I bit, and I got slapped with a brick for it. She didn't talk to me for 3 months... and left for college.

I still miss the bitch to this day, and it hurts more and more every time I think about it. As pussy as it is, I still cry sometimes at night, missing her.

But it all boils down to a quote from somewhere: "If you can't be with the one you love, love the one you're with." - And that, is yourself. Make the iron your bitch, and you've just found a relationship wilder than your wildest dreams. Content yourself to know that you're going to go in that gym, day in and day out... bust ass, and the next time that girl comes home for break, or wherever... she's gonna look at you and wonder, just what the hell she was thinking when she never said goodbye.

Chin up, bro. You ain't alone. We're in this together.

 

[dballer]

Her Bear...
I got a long story that I don't feel like typing.... it is just like the ones you have already read. But I suggest reading Rollins Books... I swear to god.. they kept me from losing my mind when me and the bitch split up.

Looks like alot of bros here with simalar stories... you will make it... just don't let it take you over. Go get "The Soloplist" By Henry Rollins.... when you are not in the gym read that... and plot how to get that stupid girl out of your mind.
GOOD LUCK!!!!!

 

[tdekeyser]

To all you guys missing your girl...

Obviously we all have been through this, I sure have.

Remember when you felt the best about yourself? Well, that is still there inside you, and DON'T forget that. Go look yourself in the mirror. FUCK THAT BITCH!!!

YOU CAN HAVE ANY BITCH YOU WANT!!!

Missing a girl goes away, and right after it is gone, your confidence will shine again, and always remember.....

YOU ARE THE SHIT BRO!!!!

It will all be back to normal again, I promise......

TD