relationships suck

[Thick dog]

I had a hard breakup in the Spring, I was depressed for a about a month, then I met another girl whom I really like and just recently became really attached to and she has basically made me forget about my old GF. It took me a few months of being with her before I would consider trusting a girl again, but she has proved herself. Of course, there was a few week period right around the time I met her that I was banging every attractive thing in sight, which was good for me at the time, but when I look back on it now, it's like I was out for a vengeance or something. Of course, not for one second do I regret any cum that was shot at these girls...

 

[M56M]

I am with you guys 100 percent. I get my best workouts after breakups. Its all about motiviation. After every break up, i am upset for a little then realize that i am going to have the best workouts for the next couple of weeks at least. And whenever i need the extra motivation to do 110 dumbell presses, i conjure up an ex, and bam i am ready to go! Not saying that breakin up is great, but it sure has its benefits. Let me list:
1- better workouts
2- freedom
3- no more annoying girls telling you what to do
4- options (ie other girls)- Girls are great but, i tend to get bored with the same one
5- More money- damn are chicks expensive.

True words of wisdom...

M56M

 

[dballer]

bump

 

[Binky]

O.K, Been just lurking here (Learning!) for a long time
but I had to jump in on this and give my sob story
I was with the 'one' for 20 years,dating for 7, Married for 13 years. We had 2 kids together. I treated her
like a queen, new cars, trips to hawaii, jewelry,
did the housework, you name it. I did it because I
loved her and wanted to be partner's. She had cancer
5 years ago and for a year I worked, kept house,
cleaned up , singled parented 2 young kids while
she recovered. Anything she ever wanted.
You all know the drill.
Then, in a few weeks last summer....Boom! I'm out the
door, she's phuckin my buddy (who's 11 years older than us), worst is...she competely slandered my name,
saying I was abusive and that I beat her and choked
her and shit like that. Just to make me look bad and
justify her affair. I was like coaching hockey at the time
and some parents just up and yanked their kids off my team cause these 2 are doing the propaganda thing on me.
Making me out to be bad.
Well, I was as low as I could get.
I thought about doin myself several times even!
Going thru the divorce was miserable, I had to see her
all the time and all I could think of was getting back together. But.....Finally it starts to get better.
Finally it starts to pass.
I got busy, got in much
better shape and I took the high-road on it.
Today, I'm happy, engaged to a hottie, life has never
been better. Her.....out of work, losing her house,
no friends left, They all figured it out eventually.

Whew! Sorry for the long Rant!
So I guess my advise is.....Hang in there!
It does get better. Even in the worst cases.
As for my-ex and my good Buddy 'Gene'

 

[bigdaddycool]

damn binky,
20 years!!!! fuck and i was complaining cause i was with the bitch for 4! i meean ur story really fucking tops it all, doesnt matter whose fault it was, but for 20 yrs??? DAMN!!!!! do me a favor, when u get 6 pack, go by her house and wear tight shit and act like u heard she needed money but then make the hiottie come right after and tell her, forget it, ur bage got nice ass!!! hehe

 

[Binky]

Yep! 13+ years of marriage and 7 years of dating....
Right down the crapper!
Oh Well! I'll never figure her out.

 

[musclepump20]

Yeah, it seems women are usually the ones most likely to end a relationship. I never been in a serious relationship, so I can't really say I miss it.

 

[Mandinka]

Wellcome Binky ,
that is a story and a half dude!
That is the funny thing for me - the thing I'll never get , you lay your whole God damn life out for them when they need you and they just fuck you over right when you need them when it's your turn.