Please Scroll Down to See Forums Below Hey bro, just got twisted off a three year relationship here. I mean, she was wearing my ring and all, and we were working on a baby. Then one day, I see her riding off in some guys car, and next thing I know, half my shit is on the doorstep along with my ring. God, I have never known pain like that in my life. And sure she wasn't perfect, but no amount of hoe fucking could ever make me feel better, its just on a completely different level. The only way to get better is time, so give yourself time to get over it, in the end, you'll find yourself more motivated than ever to be a better person for your self. But I know what you're going through man, but trust me, it will get better. And whatever you do, trust me on this, don't ever let her see you being weak, as much as you want to.
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Tigerparks
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Been there, done that, got the t-shirt.
Happened to me a few years ago. The thing is it took me a couple of months b4 it could get back on track. I was so low I thought what's the point in training?
Then suddenly you snap out of it, a trigger. And I just turned around my whole lifestyle, eating right, training hard. All with the intention of seeing her again and having her think: WOW!
It's only this year I started juicing. And I'm really starting to look different. Everyone is telling me I'm bigger/more vuscular etc etc....
And the thing is, if I see her now I'll just walk on by. Rather than stand there, chat a while and wish "Oh I do hope you think I look good." Right now I got the attitude "I KNOW I LOOK GOOD AND YOU AINT GETTING NONE OF THIS!" No I'm not bitter - just over it.
What made it better was my friend saw her with her fella and told me, "Damn, she's now with this skinny under nourished guy, looks like if you farted you'd blow him over!"
Now take my advice: get yourself in that gym, shove that needle in your ass, and eat like it's going out of fashion. Watch yourself explode, like her wishes of getting u back when she sees u again.
Happened to me a few years ago. The thing is it took me a couple of months b4 it could get back on track. I was so low I thought what's the point in training?
Then suddenly you snap out of it, a trigger. And I just turned around my whole lifestyle, eating right, training hard. All with the intention of seeing her again and having her think: WOW!
It's only this year I started juicing. And I'm really starting to look different. Everyone is telling me I'm bigger/more vuscular etc etc....
And the thing is, if I see her now I'll just walk on by. Rather than stand there, chat a while and wish "Oh I do hope you think I look good." Right now I got the attitude "I KNOW I LOOK GOOD AND YOU AINT GETTING NONE OF THIS!" No I'm not bitter - just over it.
What made it better was my friend saw her with her fella and told me, "Damn, she's now with this skinny under nourished guy, looks like if you farted you'd blow him over!"
Now take my advice: get yourself in that gym, shove that needle in your ass, and eat like it's going out of fashion. Watch yourself explode, like her wishes of getting u back when she sees u again.
TheBear, sorry to hear of your probs, but look at it this way, it could be worse. You could have gotten married and then she could have left you taking all your money and posessions as well as going after you for child support(if any kids), spousal maint and what ever the hell she felt like. You think a break up is bad, try a divorce, it sucks shit, especially when your old partner is greedy and selfish and tries to take everything......Oh, and then you have the 10k in lawyers bills......need I go on?
I Understand!!
Hi Bear!
Well I understand how U feel. I was engaged to marry last year and bought a house for her and her 2 children (mortgage in UK). After 3 months she fucked off and left me with the house and a large amount of debts. I turned to drink for 4 months and got no where. I used to train big time and got a good size, then in the space of 4 months dropped 15lbs. Thats depression man it'll kill you but after my drinking spree I channelled all my aggression in the gym, now Im up 20lbs with the help of a cycle. The bitch is screwin some 120lb ass-hole, the only thing that keeps me sane is that when I see her again Im gonna be one BMF. Women arent worth it man, enjoy getting bigger and get some other chicks.
Good Luck
R
Hi Bear!
Well I understand how U feel. I was engaged to marry last year and bought a house for her and her 2 children (mortgage in UK). After 3 months she fucked off and left me with the house and a large amount of debts. I turned to drink for 4 months and got no where. I used to train big time and got a good size, then in the space of 4 months dropped 15lbs. Thats depression man it'll kill you but after my drinking spree I channelled all my aggression in the gym, now Im up 20lbs with the help of a cycle. The bitch is screwin some 120lb ass-hole, the only thing that keeps me sane is that when I see her again Im gonna be one BMF. Women arent worth it man, enjoy getting bigger and get some other chicks.
Good Luck
R
Wow...this has been a very very helpful thread!!
Quick story..
I was with my girlfriend for 3 years(all through HS), and i was always a fat ass. Senior year 5'8'', 225lbs. When i finally realized that i was wasting my youth, i left her and began train seriously...in 13 months i lost 50lbs and had a six pack at 8% BF. The next time i saw her in a club she couldn't stay away from me, but at that point i had fucked so so many more hot chicks she did wasn't even in my mind at all.
Now i am stuck in the same situation again with a different chick(3 months), my BF% is up to 11-12%, which really hurts because i worked my ass off to get where i was. And in my mind i know this girl is not good, but i can't seem to bring myself to leave her.
Seriously reading this thread made me realize how much more dedicated i was when i was single...i trained like an animal, never missed cardio, diet was PERFECT!, and hit my abs ED!!
Think i have come to a decision...
...time to get ripped again!!!
M56M(sorry for the long post..had to get it off my chest)
Quick story..
I was with my girlfriend for 3 years(all through HS), and i was always a fat ass. Senior year 5'8'', 225lbs. When i finally realized that i was wasting my youth, i left her and began train seriously...in 13 months i lost 50lbs and had a six pack at 8% BF. The next time i saw her in a club she couldn't stay away from me, but at that point i had fucked so so many more hot chicks she did wasn't even in my mind at all.
Now i am stuck in the same situation again with a different chick(3 months), my BF% is up to 11-12%, which really hurts because i worked my ass off to get where i was. And in my mind i know this girl is not good, but i can't seem to bring myself to leave her.
Seriously reading this thread made me realize how much more dedicated i was when i was single...i trained like an animal, never missed cardio, diet was PERFECT!, and hit my abs ED!!
Think i have come to a decision...
...time to get ripped again!!!M56M(sorry for the long post..had to get it off my chest)
bigdaddycool
New member
hey all,
well i feel for all u bros and right now i am also at the fucking depression stage. my girl left me after 4 years relation, she was a fine ass russian chick, oh well. The worse thing is that what she said in the end!!!!
"look, i am a girl, i was emotional, but u were a MAN, u should know what u were doing, its u who is responsible for all that...."
Moral of the story:
Whatever she has done, whatever she said and claim the love she had for u, all could be written off in the excuse that she was emotional, a girl, not her fault. But u are stuck as a man, u should know what ur doing, u cant be emotional, and should be more stable, right????
well NEVER let your heart fell for a woman bro, none of them are worth it, in the end, its your body, ur temple, and you. Don't let it get ruined for ANY reason.....I know its hard to forget her, but hell with her. develop your temple and fuck the hell out of other bitches....
Big daddy cool
well i feel for all u bros and right now i am also at the fucking depression stage. my girl left me after 4 years relation, she was a fine ass russian chick, oh well. The worse thing is that what she said in the end!!!!
"look, i am a girl, i was emotional, but u were a MAN, u should know what u were doing, its u who is responsible for all that...."
Moral of the story:
Whatever she has done, whatever she said and claim the love she had for u, all could be written off in the excuse that she was emotional, a girl, not her fault. But u are stuck as a man, u should know what ur doing, u cant be emotional, and should be more stable, right????
well NEVER let your heart fell for a woman bro, none of them are worth it, in the end, its your body, ur temple, and you. Don't let it get ruined for ANY reason.....I know its hard to forget her, but hell with her. develop your temple and fuck the hell out of other bitches....
Big daddy cool
Ercole
New member
Break-ups are hard, especially if you have to see her ona regular basis afterwards. (That's why it's a good rule not to date girls from work or the gym or any place you go on a daily basis.)
The cold hard fact is, if she doesn't want to be with you, she isn't THE ONE and never will be. Brush off your wounded pride and enjoy the freedom of being single for a while.
But some of you guys who recommend taking out your frustrations by using or abusing other women -- grow up! Other girls aren't responsible for what your ex did to you. Don't lay that shit on them.
And every girl you screw over will be tempted to turn around and screw over the next guy she dates. Maybe your girlfriend treated you that way because some guy like some of you who posted above fucked her over previously.
If you go around using, deceiving, or manipulating girls, what right have you to complain when they do the same to you?
Just my 2 cents.
The cold hard fact is, if she doesn't want to be with you, she isn't THE ONE and never will be. Brush off your wounded pride and enjoy the freedom of being single for a while.
But some of you guys who recommend taking out your frustrations by using or abusing other women -- grow up! Other girls aren't responsible for what your ex did to you. Don't lay that shit on them.
And every girl you screw over will be tempted to turn around and screw over the next guy she dates. Maybe your girlfriend treated you that way because some guy like some of you who posted above fucked her over previously.
If you go around using, deceiving, or manipulating girls, what right have you to complain when they do the same to you?
Just my 2 cents.
EAT THIS!
A code to live and die by - and by a fellow Irishman too!
Never give all the Heart
- W.B. Yeats
Never give all the heart, for love
Will hardly seem worth thinking of
To passionate women if it seem
Certain, and they never dream
That it fades out from kiss to kiss;
For everything that's lovely is
But a brief, dreamy, kind delight.
O never give the heart outright,
For they, for all smooth lips can say,
Have given their hearts up to the play.
And who could play it well enough
If deaf and dumb and blind with love?
He that made this knows all the cost,
For he gave all his heart and lost.
i bet I have a story that beats most: Goin out with a woman for two years ,livin together , all that jazz, after one of those years , she goes out and tattoos my name on her ass (I've been wonderin if I should post the photos!) , crazy to get married and stuff.
Final year of college , need to study , some support woulda helped too , bitch starts goin out all the time and eventually cheats on me.
Lost 20 pounds (never used AS - yet) , fucked in final year exams , just got back on top , put back on 30 lbs , guess what - she spent the last two weeks cryin down the phone to me from Germany.
Ercole - the difference is men don't claim to be fucking perfect , women are always cursin men for cheatin , I lived in a co-ed house for two whole semesters , out of 110 people (roughly 50/50) , EVERY woman who was attached cheated, only one guy did the same. I hope you're payin' attention to that statistic guys.
BTW She still has the tattoo.
A code to live and die by - and by a fellow Irishman too!
Never give all the Heart
- W.B. Yeats
Never give all the heart, for love
Will hardly seem worth thinking of
To passionate women if it seem
Certain, and they never dream
That it fades out from kiss to kiss;
For everything that's lovely is
But a brief, dreamy, kind delight.
O never give the heart outright,
For they, for all smooth lips can say,
Have given their hearts up to the play.
And who could play it well enough
If deaf and dumb and blind with love?
He that made this knows all the cost,
For he gave all his heart and lost.
i bet I have a story that beats most: Goin out with a woman for two years ,livin together , all that jazz, after one of those years , she goes out and tattoos my name on her ass (I've been wonderin if I should post the photos!) , crazy to get married and stuff.
Final year of college , need to study , some support woulda helped too , bitch starts goin out all the time and eventually cheats on me.
Lost 20 pounds (never used AS - yet) , fucked in final year exams , just got back on top , put back on 30 lbs , guess what - she spent the last two weeks cryin down the phone to me from Germany.
Ercole - the difference is men don't claim to be fucking perfect , women are always cursin men for cheatin , I lived in a co-ed house for two whole semesters , out of 110 people (roughly 50/50) , EVERY woman who was attached cheated, only one guy did the same. I hope you're payin' attention to that statistic guys.
BTW She still has the tattoo.
