relationship problems?

[BBBBig Phenom]

jeezum bro, you her and famalies r in my prayers, i couldnt imagine how hard that could be, me and my fiance after 3 years just split and it sucks, i mean really sucks

what went wrong????

 

[BBBBig Phenom]

i dont know why anyone would juice and not tell there gf. if you cant tell the person that you are supposed to be closest to, then maybe you need a new gf or none at all. not trying to slam anyone here.... IMO it seems like hiding it would to harder to accomplish than just being honest.

that does not work for everyone.....

 

[hanibal]

only time i find myself in a problem w/ wifey while on, is if tren is involved. he always gets me in trouble.

 

[guitrole1]

Well, I wasn't going to talk about this here but here goes. I have been with the same girl on and off for the last four years. We were extremely close, I thought of her as my wife. Before I ever got on my cycle we would get in pretty heated fights. She is naturally very temperamental and had a hard time ever being wrong. Usually I would just back down from a fight and let her be right, it was just much easier that way. She knew everything about my use. She was very interested in everything I was learning, to a point. She would get annoyed when all I would talk about was aas. But, as much as I talked about it, I kinda annoyed myself. Things were awesome about 95% of the time, the other time was spent fighting.

A couple of weeks ago we went out with some friends to party. We were having a great time all night and both got pretty drunk. At the end of the night, she started accusing me of doing something that I didn't do. She wouldn't lay off, so it turned into an argument. After a while of arguing, she was pissed enough to slap me once. So, since I had to be a tough guy, I laughed and told her to do it again. After about five slaps later, I was done. I, for the first time, yelled at her in a very intimidating way. I was PISSED. So, she decided to yell to everyone around that the reason we were fighting was because I was on steroids. She told all of our friends and really broke trust.

After all of this, I realized that even though you truly trust someone with your secret, don't tell them unless you are prepared to deal with the consequences of them telling others. After the smoke cleared, I'm glad all of this happened. We NEEDED to be done and this was a great catalyst. I'm not saying it doesn't hurt, but I know things will get better and there are so many girls out there. My therapy is looking at the pics of the pics of women board.

Through all of this, it's been kinda hard to get motivated to get into the gym. But, once I get there, I have plenty to think about that will help get me fired up to lift like a madman. I always feel awesome after a great workout.

Actually, with all of the attention I've been getting when I go out, this might be the best summer I've had in years!!

 

[ALIN]

anyone ever about 2 start a cycle, in the middle of or at the end of a cycle have relationship problem, for example me and my fiance splitting up, how did yall deal with it?

I've had to abandon cycles before due to out side problems like family issues.

 

[narshh]

my first and only cycle, my 'ex' hated me doing juice. she flipped out almost everyday. if you knew her, that wouldnt be hard to believe. she actually threw my box of gear across the room, breaking a few vials..... nice. then came at me with a knife.

she got so crazy that I set up a camera for when I was away to see wtf she was doing in my absence. I actually caught her STEALING from me!!!! I figured if she didnt make me 'rage' then nothing could...

I booted her out that night... she showed up the next day with her new boyfriend, that she was moving in with. hahah...

Im really sorry to hear that Obey.... dont want to sound insensitive, but wheres a car accident for MY ex? someone that truely deserves it.

Dodged a bullet there did you not?

 

[Sassy69]

Sassy+ Peanut Butter =

I actually have that under control these days!

 

[instant.muscle]

what went wrong????

she said she wanted 2 experience more of life before she decided if she really wnated 2 get married

 

[looking to lean]

Dodged a bullet there did you not?

dodged a bullet and my life got instantly better. New super hot gf. New business thats done nothing but make money. and a hightened willingness to improve myself on every level.

Interesting how something so simple is so hard for some.

 

[immortalis]

What's it like dating someone thats got an everyday pass to freak out at random? Dating a stable minded girl is challenging enough. I don't know how you guys can justify staying with someone that can't control their emotions. To me, love just wouldn't be enough-especially when there's plenty of girls out there that won't superglue your dick to your stomach if/when she gets mad at you.

And how does it feel to be in a relationship where you live in daily fear that your woman will find out your dirty little steroid secret? Won't the repercussions be much worse when she learns she has been lied to and betrayed? She may start questioning your whole relationship-if you're lying about AAS how does she know you're not lying about something else? Like fucking your ex gf you talk to on the phone once every 6 months or ????

You and I have gone back and forth on this before. Bottom line is, you havent been in a similar situation and youre just goin around bashing bros that currently are. The simplest way I can put it is, you can kiss my fuckin ass BC.

Its not your place to tell me or anyone else what is and what is not appropriate in their marriage or relationship. Thats my(their) job. Last time I checked you werent Dr Ruth. So quit bashing everyone left and fuckin right who doesnt have a full disclosure agreement with their significant other, or who happens to be in a relationship with someone who has a mental dissorder.

You realize there are people out there with mental dissorders, right? I chose to marry a person who has one because I care for her deeply. Thats my choice. So go fuck yourself for repeatedly knocking it like your Dr. Fuckin Phil man.

I dont go through daily paranoia thinking "OMG WHAT IF THE WIFEY FINDS MY STASH TODAY??!?!". Like I've said, we've talked about it and she said she wouldnt mind me doing gear at all because im not a fucking idiot and wouldnt do anything to hurt myself. I just feel its best if I keep it to myself. Thats my own personal choice. You choose to live your life a different way than that, and you dont see anyone else on this board trying to tear you down for it. Be a supportive bro and not such a cocksucker man. Fuckin fuck...