* Red² - T's Journey 2007 *

[alex2678]

Re: Treils 2006 Competition Log

and then we have alex.. definitely NOT like the others.. awesome guy, as you can see by the statement made above

He enjoys long walks on the beach ... j/k Hey there

Sold! (To the girl in the back row who works at the front desk )

 

[treilin]

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Well I am 99% sure that it will be some sort of surgical subspecialty. My personality and love of all things athletic is pushing me towards ortho but I am keeping an open mind. I have a nice NIH grant to do surgical research this summer with one of the big dog reconstructive breast surgeons at the Univerity this summer. Who knows, maybe I'll really like giving women who lost their breasts or breast to cancer new ones.

Once you are good and perfect it you can give me some

 

[treilin]

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Great to hear about the DD

Good thing no punches were thrown, you'd a hurt your pretty little hand

I do not get out much but based on my recent adventures & bar experience... I'll go thru your observations & comment

Men at the gym find athletic women sexy AT one of my gyms I get ZERO attention from the guys ... as I leaned out, I have been getting plenty, prolly b/c I look more feminine in their eyes & can't believe the daily changes ... I was not one of the females they were 'checking out' that's for sure ...
Most men at the bar find skinny fat girls with big breasts sexy I'll have to say I do see these types get ogled more ...
Most men at the bar stay away from athletic looking girl's for fear of getting beat up
(I think) Or maybe is it because we are less approcahable?!? Probably I had a guy ask if i was a swimmer lol ... Lats
I'm going to do a comparison study here.....
If I wear my gym clothes into the grocery store, or the mall I get like 1,000 stares up and down. Grocery store - yes I can relate to this
If I wear a tank top and jeans or a t-shirt and jeans, or skirt and tank top I get less stares. I cannot relate to this as I don't wear skirts ... but if I have a tank on I will get some type of reference to my physique, even a fitted T ...
Sober people acknowledge athletic people more, drunk people acknowledge the easy lay and slutty girl/guy. LOL actually I find drunk people more open to come grab at my muscles, touch them, and want specifics as to my diet & training, and want me to train them ... as if they'd rememeber the convo the next morning I can see what you're saying though and have experienced both sides

Yeah I see your side here.... I do get some people pinching my arms and asking me to flex.... but as I was told last night AGAIN I am a very direct person and a lot of people don't know how to relate to me in person. I always ask the other person what are they scared of? That the truth may hurt? The guy said no that he is more like a friendly type and thinks I am a very business type.... O.K. I guess that's why my major was in business.... Though I'm no sales pusher. So numerous times in the past few months "MEN" have told me they don't know how to take me because I am so direct... What do they want Mrs. Cleaver?

 

[Shades McCool]

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Yeah I see your side here.... I do get some people pinching my arms and asking me to flex.... but as I was told last night AGAIN I am a very direct person and a lot of people don't know how to relate to me in person. I always ask the other person what are they scared of? That the truth may hurt? The guy said no that he is more like a friendly type and thinks I am a very business type.... O.K. I guess that's why my major was in business.... Though I'm no sales pusher. So numerous times in the past few months "MEN" have told me they don't know how to take me because I am so direct... What do they want Mrs. Cleaver?

I think it is good when a girl is direct because I can leave my decoder ring at home. It makes you seem so much more real. Don't worry about it at all.

 

[treilin]

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LOL cute my little shady friend ...

Treil is hawt, I cannot believe the guys aren't falling at her feet no matter where she goes, unless the are the stubling drunks she can just kick aside

The fact she is extremely bright & beautiful both inside & out ... she's a catch. Just goes to show these guys aren't worthy of her ... She will find one that is when she leasts expects it ...

You are a doll... I appreciate you!
I'm not looking I am just discovering more about the opposite sex and I guess how direct I am and unapproachable?!?

I noticed this too the other nite at the bar!! (yes, I had water!)

Most of these girls were about 10 years younger than me & skinny-fat - well most of them looked pregnant in too-tight clothes, which doesn't look good on anyone....It's weird!

YES I have no idea... I guess now that I know how to look at someone and decode fat and muscle and body postural distortions it kinda takes away some of the appeal that maybe men are blind too, and even women...

That skinny fat look is grotesque I think. I'll NEVER know why that gets so much attention at bars. I think more people involved in fitness respect someone that takes care of their body and understands the hard work and effort it takes to get that kind of look. The average shmuck at a club or a Moes Tavern on Friday night might be too intimidated to ask a fitness type out. Most likely because of some insecurities within himself.

But yes I was the 16 year old with a Sharon Bruneau poster hanging on my wall.

Well I think the guys/girls are looking for the easy lay... Obviously the best place to find an athletic person is not at the bar... Maybe that is the biggest strike against this whole thing. Not that I was there to pick anyone up or get hit on. I think girls' are just as bad. I saw this beautiful girl last night sucking face with this really tiny dude that looked like he could work with me (computer geek) TOTALLY did not match, and my friend in tow mentioned it to me after I saw it.... I think it's a great place for people's insecurities to be set aside and for them to feel wanted.... Maybe

 

[treilin]

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I think it is good when a girl is direct because I can leave my decoder ring at home. It makes you seem so much more real. Don't worry about it at all.

I'm not about to change myself to appease anyone else...
I am an adaptable person but refuse to lose myself.

 

[alex2678]

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Well I think the guys/girls are looking for the easy lay... Obviously the best place to find an athletic person is not at the bar... Maybe that is the biggest strike against this whole thing. Not that I was there to pick anyone up or get hit on. I think girls' are just as bad. I saw this beautiful girl last night sucking face with this really tiny dude that looked like he could work with me (computer geek) TOTALLY did not match, and my friend in tow mentioned it to me after I saw it.... I think it's a great place for people's insecurities to be set aside and for them to feel wanted.... Maybe

God tell me about it. If it's not the computer geeks it's the really fat guido types who never work out but have the ultimate gift of gab to just talk their way home with some very attractive women. You know the words are usually insincere too. But I guess if the person is vulnerable enough it must really hit home.

 

[Shades McCool]

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I'm not about to change myself to appease anyone else...
I am an adaptable person but refuse to lose myself.

Hey I with you! If people are intimidated, they will say that you are unapproachable. Think about it. Why wouldn't a guy be intimindated by you. Smart, pretty and in tip top shape. How do you keep up with that? That is why you are labelled upapproachable. Let's just translate that word into "that girl is way out of my league and I am not confident enough to try and talk to her so let's make it her fault and call her unapproachable."

 

[*Bunny*]

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I saw this beautiful girl last night sucking face with this really tiny dude that looked like he could work with me (computer geek) TOTALLY did not match, and my friend in tow mentioned it to me after I saw it.... I think it's a great place for people's insecurities to be set aside and for them to feel wanted.... Maybe

See, I catch alotta crap for this but maybe she liked more than what you & your friends see on the outside? Maybe there was more to be attracted to then the physical ... unless she was drunk & lookin' for some @$$ ...

 

[SgtSlaughter]

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my .02 cents on the topic that the thread has gone to:

I believe the best things in life not only happen when you least expect them to, but when you are being yourself... raw and untainted.



/sappiness