Reasons why I wonder why I still like men:

[The Shadow]

Re: Re: Re: Reasons why I wonder why I still like men:

Some women manipulate so they don't have to lie.

....if a man knows how to treat his lady- manipulation is not necessary.

 

[velvett]

Flexy girl makes some good points except I feel there is no reason why we should not speak out about frustrations...I don't think that makes us not "good men" or abnormal...I've listened to plenty of similiar sentiments at work and school...you guys are just exposed to it here more...

Never said you shouldn't - it is quite curious as to why women can not do the same.

 

[sk*]

Re: Re: Re: Re: Reasons why I wonder why I still like men:

....if a man knows how to treat his lady- manipulation is not necessary.

Not if the lady is spoiled. Don't get me wrong, I love my current girlfriend so much and she treats me just right (well most of the time) ... most girls aren't like that though from my experience.

-sk

 

[The Shadow]

Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Reasons why I wonder why I still like men:

Not if the lady is spoiled. Don't get me wrong, I love my current girlfriend so much and she treats me just right (well most of the time) ... most girls aren't like that though from my experience.

-sk

....I think that the way a woman treats a man is generally mirrored by how he treats her - in the vast majority of cases anyway.

 

[sk*]

Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Reasons why I wonder why I still like men:

....I think that the way a woman treats a man is generally mirrored by how he treats her - in the vast majority of cases anyway.

I've had some bad experiences, so majority of time doesn't hold true for me but maybe it is true from your experiences. I've treated a girl like a princess (and always treat them like that if they are my girlfriend) and ended up suffering cause of it. So far, with my girlfriend, it is going very good but I am terrified that she will "turn" on me as it has happened before very unexpectedly.

-sk

 

[duff_rose]

Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Reasons why I wonder why I still like men:

Not if the lady is spoiled.

I don't tolerate spoiled girls very well, the kind that won't give you the time of day unless you do something for them first. I'm sure we would get to lilke each other after a while, but It's the first 'while' that I can't haldle with a spoiled girl.

most girls aren't like that though from my experience.

I agree.

 

[TC2]

Re: Re: Re: Re: Reasons why I wonder why I still like men:

....if a man knows how to treat his lady- manipulation is not necessary.

I really really wished it worked that way, but sadly it does not.

 

[duff_rose]

Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Reasons why I wonder why I still like men:

....I think that the way a woman treats a man is generally mirrored by how he treats her - in the vast majority of cases anyway.

I don't know man, I see a lot of girls that are as nice as can be who are with the biggest assholes in the world. It takes all kinds.

 

[The Shadow]

Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Reasons why I wonder why I still like men:

I've had some bad experiences, so majority of time doesn't hold true for me but maybe it is true from your experiences. I've treated a girl like a princess (and always treat them like that if they are my girlfriend) and ended up suffering cause of it.

-sk

...well - like I said there are those instances.....

I think that men are in a tough spot in that we should be MEN in terms of what society thinks and yet at the same time be sensitive and be able to open up emotionally to women.

Women like Vel said are probably "forced" by society to have a mate because they "should" and that this mate "should" conform to societal standards.


Men and women should spend less time worrying over societal value and spend that time on cherishing each other.

 

[The Shadow]

Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Reasons why I wonder why I still like men:

I don't know man, I see a lot of girls that are as nice as can be who are with the biggest assholes in the world. It takes all kinds.

...is that society's view from the outside??

Unless you really know the "asshole" in question, its hard to know what that person is really like.