QUestion of the day: Best way to get revenge on a cheating girlfriend?

[jh1]

no hun, it's time to look at the ppl u attract. A good strong real woman would never treat u like crap or cheat. We are out there....trust me!
Nice guys ALWAYS finish first!

Maybe so.

Not sure. I am definetly attracted to the wrong types of girls.

I just find them so delicious.

I am worried how I will feel when I with these 'nice girls'.. I think I will always be thinking about the 'wrong' ones that are so much fun.

 

[heatherrae]

Pretend she doesn't even exist anymore - that kills anyone (to completely ignore them and pretend that they mean shit to you).

Yep. That was going to be my reply.

To give them the time of day only shows them that you care.

 

[jh1]

Yep. That was going to be my reply.

To give them the time of day only shows them that you care.

Life is not always so easy.

 

[blueta2]

Maybe so.

Not sure. I am definetly attracted to the wrong types of girls.

I just find them so delicious.

I am worried how I will feel when I with these 'nice girls'.. I think I will always be thinking about the 'wrong' ones that are so much fun.

I never knew I was attracting the wrong men/ friends until the last break up and I realized I needed to look at me on not them. I went into a intensive 5 month program with a codependence therapist and my life changed.
I was attracting all the losers. I wanted the "bad boys".
One day, when the pain gets too much, you will not even want the wrong ones. One day the fun doesn't seem rational anymore.
It will come when you're ready.

 

[InquisitivePsyche]

It's not that cut and dry. Some ppl share home, kids and businesses.
Walking away is not always that easy.
Cheating is not the most horrible thing a person can do.

To me, cheating is the most horrible thing a person could do because it breaches trust and loyalty.

I understand that it isn't cut/dry for people who have kids and all that. I was talking about no strings attached relationships.. no kids, no home, etc.

 

[InquisitivePsyche]

Maybe so.

Not sure. I am definetly attracted to the wrong types of girls.

I just find them so delicious.

I am worried how I will feel when I with these 'nice girls'.. I think I will always be thinking about the 'wrong' ones that are so much fun.

'nice girls' don't always lack fun or have to be boring girls or. It seems you are categorizing the girls you attract in the "fun," category. Nice girls can also be a shitload of fun.. you just have to find the right one.

 

[jh1]

'nice girls' don't always lack fun or have to be boring girls or. It seems you are categorizing the girls you attract in the "fun," category. Nice girls can also be a shitload of fun.. you just have to find the right one.

I am just attracted to the wrong type of fun... cause I know none of the nice girls I know are gonna be pulling the tricks off that I am used to.

Everytime I see one of these girls I know is trouble, my sense of attraction is off the charts...

For the nice girls, I don't feel shiat. Even if they are hardcore hitting on me, I just don't seem to care or feel any motivation.

 

[gotmilk]

I went into a intensive 5 month program with a codependence therapist and my life changed.

Was it held here?

http://www.youhoser.com/pics/brewery.jpg

Run by these guys?


http://www.realitybasednation.com/images/strange-brew.jpg

 

[heatherrae]

I am just attracted to the wrong type of fun... cause I know none of the nice girls I know are gonna be pulling the tricks off that I am used to.

Everytime I see one of these girls I know is trouble, my sense of attraction is off the charts...

For the nice girls, I don't feel shiat. Even if they are hardcore hitting on me, I just don't seem to care or feel any motivation.

That's messed up. Just sayin'

 

[jh1]

That's messed up. Just sayin'

True Dat.