The cat-in-the-box or wave function thing is referring to the fact that the person doing the observing forces the wave function to collapse into a state determined by the user. In other words, we create our own reality as we go.
Star Trek the Next Generation had an episode about that and it was very interesting and the science they were portraying was not for the average trekkie fan. It was probably the most in depth show involving quantum theory and the theories of Schroedinger and Heisenberg