Old school marriages vs New aged marriages

[Bikini Mod]

You two are funny. Doesn't bother you if you're watched all the time? I wouldn't be bothered either IF the law enforcement officials don't fuck it up and mistake me for another guy. Given that they've fucked up as well, I'm scared.

Nobody here (well not that I know of, I could be wrong though) knows better how badly the law fucks up both from my side and my husband's side and still I say that I'm not concerned. Maybe my logic is fucked but I got fucked and my husband got fucked even though no one was watching (that we know of LOL). So I am thinking that since WE BOTH already got fucked, what are the chances that we will get fucked again?

(Wait a minute. Maybe that didn't come out right.)

All I am saying is that if someone WANTS to fuck you. THEY WILL. All you can do is fight like a motherfucker to try and get UNFUCKED. It isn't fair but that is just life = unfair. Period... better to just accept it, brush yourself off and move on, try to avoid people in the future that might WANT to fuck you, just because THEY CAN.

 

[mrplunkey]

You two are funny. Doesn't bother you if you're watched all the time? I wouldn't be bothered either IF the law enforcement officials don't fuck it up and mistake me for another guy. Given that they've fucked up as well, I'm scared.

Why? The chances they'll fuck-up with poor or incomplete information are vastly higher than the chances they'll fuck-up with a complete picture of what's going on.

 

[Bikini Mod]

Why? The chances they'll fuck-up with poor or incomplete information are vastly higher than the chances they'll fuck-up with a complete picture of what's going on.

In a perfect world that would make A LOT of sense.

... and then there is reality.

What will be, will be regardless. As I stated, no matter how well insulated you might think you are from someone wanting to mess with your world if there is another human being bent on messing with your world - they will simply because they can. The only way to stop someone like that is to have them jailed or stop them from breathing. Sadly, there are circumstances where neither is an option.

The whole "I have nothing to fear because I have nothing to hide" mentality doesn't always prove out in the real world... does it?

Still, like you, I refuse to go through life being paranoid about technology as I ain't doin anything that I should have to be paranoid about.

 

[digimon7068]

my wife and i are both extremely busy. . .i regularly text or e-mail little messages and what-not to her on days when i'm feeling in the mood. . .it definitely helps set the tone for the evening. . .personally, the technology has been a useful tool for me and (i'm sure) other busy people to use as tool to help enhance intimacy.

 

[Bikini Mod]

my wife and i are both extremely busy. . .i regularly text or e-mail little messages and what-not to her on days when i'm feeling in the mood. . .it definitely helps set the tone for the evening. . .personally, the technology has been a useful tool for me and (i'm sure) other busy people to use as tool to help enhance intimacy.

WERD same with me and the Old Grump, but then again it would stand to reason as that is how communication began for us! We are just keeping the romance alive with continuous little flirtations.

 

[lartinos]

eventually things will work themselves out when women realize they should just stay in the kitchen and stop trying to be men.
Maybe we should take away a womans right to vote to get the message through to them.

 

[digimon7068]

WERD same with me and the Old Grump, but then again it would stand to reason as that is how communication began for us! We are just keeping the romance alive with continuous little flirtations.

heck. . .i regularly text or e-mail her little notes even when i'm not trying to set her up for a big night. . .sometimes i just want to remind her that i love her and i think she's the best wife and mom that i've ever seen. . .

 

[Bikini Mod]

eventually things will work themselves out when women realize they should just stay in the kitchen and stop trying to be men.
Maybe we should take away a womans right to vote to get the message through to them.

I dunno bout the stay in the kitchen thing but you are pretty spot on about women feeling as if they need to be men. Problem is that men bear a certain amount of responsibility for that though.

Me, I don't cook. Unless I want to. I don't clean EVER. I do laundry only because I don't mind it much. I could either sleep all day or bust my ass doing any number of productive projects or go to the gym, then shower, get dolled up and go out for dinner and drinks with my husband.

Either way... we are partners in life. Neither of us is above the other and none of us is more important than the other. Neither of us sees our lives only through our own eyes, but we try to see OUR LIFE through our partner's eyes.

But he is definitely A MAN... but not just any man, he is MY MAN and I am the lady of our home.

... and I kinda like that.

When women stop trying to "do it all" they will suddenly see a whole host of true men/gentlemen emerging where all the losers once crowded the room.

 

[Bikini Mod]

heck. . .i regularly text or e-mail her little notes even when i'm not trying to set her up for a big night. . .sometimes i just want to remind her that i love her and i think she's the best wife and mom that i've ever seen. . .

You are sooooooooooo spot on.

Sex, passion, romance very important to keep alive but more important to honor your best friend and partner in life on a daily basis!

 

[digimon7068]

You are sooooooooooo spot on.

Sex, passion, romance very important to keep alive but more important to honor your best friend and partner in life on a daily basis!

the fact that i'm happy is not lucky or accidental. . .it takes work. . .but it's a labor of love. . .