Old school marriages vs New aged marriages

[bill.french]

Look at how many women work now making great money that can provide for themselves vs. how many women back then xcould do it...Women were forced to take beatings, be raped, etc and have .

rapes, beating domestic violence is way up from 40 yrs ago.

women had it better in the 1950s then currently. just ask any older female. life was simple and the nuclear family was important and she focused on her family then herself like a mother should.

I would rather be a wife in the 50s then now.

 

[Cutiebaby]

rapes, beating domestic violence is way up from 40 yrs ago.

women had it better in the 1950s then currently. just ask any older female. life was simple and the nuclear family was important and she focused on her family then herself like a mother should.

I would rather be a wife in the 50s then now.

I don't believe that. Having close relationships and exchanging stories with women from as old as mom to as old as my grandmom I believe that there was a hell of a lot more behind the doors, more skeletons in a closet, and more stories not being told.
I don't know which ladies you have spoke to however many that I know have stated that there lives weren't all they looked to be.

 

[heavy_duty]

whats your take? my take is that computers,cell phones..texting etc etc...its just too easy to communicate. in the old days they didnt worry about things like facebook and myspace all the new shit....nowadays there isnt as strong as feelings for eachother physically. the odd marriage is still like that but i would like to see the divorce rates from now and like 1960...what you guys think?

~People get married for the wrong reason.
~Couples get married in a church but have no religion in their marriage
~People don’t take their vows seriously enough.
~Couples give up too fast.
~They put their own interests before what is best for the children.
~Divorce (In Canada) is much easier and cheaper than even in the 1980's when my parents got the big D.

Etc…etc…etc…

 

[wootoom]

~People get married for the wrong reason.
~Couples get married in a church but have no religion in their marriage
~People don’t take their vows seriously enough.
~Couples give up too fast.
~They put their own interests before what is best for the children.

Etc…etc…etc…

damn that sounds sooo familiar lol

 

[puddlemonkey]

yeah, way too many options now days. I got lucky last night, a girl I put minimal effort into. On my way home around 3am I got a call from another girl that wanted me to come over. She had been drinking and was horny, she got pissed at me cause I turned her down. I'm sure she had plan B. Hell, for all I know I could have been plan B lol.

There's this girl I remained friends with after we broke up. I encouraged her to try on-line dating, she threw up a profile and some pics and received 150+ e-mails in two hours. Even as a guy its too easy, I've initiated communication with two girls on-line thus far, I can't even tell you how many have contacted me first. Between now and Sunday night I'm suppose to go on 3 dates, I'll be breaking it off with 2 of them due to time restraints and I'm not even remotely worried about it. Times have changed.

 

[miplank]

I don't think technology has anything to do w/divorce rates whatsoever. It boils down to the fact that people are lazy!

A marriage needs constant work, and people are too lazy to put in the necessary time and effort as it is easiar for them to "quit" and try again.

 

[-SD-]

I don't think technology has anything to do w/divorce rates whatsoever. It boils down to the fact that people are lazy!

A marriage needs constant work, and people are too lazy to put in the necessary time and effort as it is easiar for them to "quit" and try again.

This thread is too much work to keep up with, Im finding a new thread.

 

[HAYEZ]

marriage suxs...dont do it...im in the middle of possible divorce now...nobody should ever get married unless there hit up lookin or have aids with no other choice...
did i say marriage suxs?

 

[hanselthecaretaker]

you gave me red for my comment above. . .i agreed with you. . .me no understand

I did? lol with this new k setup I mighta accidentally hit the disagree when it scrolls. I'll fix that sorry bro.

 

[digimon7068]

I did? lol with this new k setup I mighta accidentally hit the disagree when it scrolls. I'll fix that sorry bro.

no problem. . .i just figured you were either a democrat and/or a soccer fan. . .in which case, i s'pose i deserved it.