Re: Why are guys so violent?
Jenefer said:
I really dont understand all this violence! Look what just happened in New york yesterday cuz of violent people! Just tell your girl to tell someone at the gym that he is bothering her and I am sure they will deal with it! No need to get violent! Its not like he is touching her or anything! and some girls arent serious about there guys and so maybe he though he had a chance how is he supposed to know unless he tries?! So calm down or do an extra heavy work out to let out some steam and let it be! *hugz*
OK, look, the guy isn't just chatting up MP5's girl, he's doing what I consider to be
harassment. She's TOLD this fuckwit that she's spoken for, and her one-word answers to his nagging would clue any guy but a complete jackass that she's not interested.
He's not in the gym to work out, obviously, but to follow women around, make them uncomfortable, and disrupt their workouts. You women make it clear that when a guy is coming on to you in whatever means, "no" means "no". This asshole isn't giving up.
This happened to my g/f, but the creep was a gym employee. They should be held to an even higher standard than members. I've worked at two gyms and that's not something that should be taken lightly...could eventually lead to a lawsuit. Unfortunately, not all management will take it seriously.
I say to get off work early one day (we're talking like an hour or two here, right) and meet your girl at the gym on a day she normally goes and sees this jerk. Confront him and deal with him yourself. You don't have to pummel him, but make it
totally clear that he is not welcome near your girl or to speak to her. If he talks back, then he's escalating the matter and deal with it as you see fit. If he backs off and leaves her alone, good deal. If he backs off for the day, and it happens again, I think you know what to do.