What are you doing for your calves? For the past few months, I've been prioritizing calves. I was in a store trying on shoes the other day and caught a view of them in the store mirror - pleasant surprise! (I guess the different mirror helped.)
I work them twice a week, doing mostly heavy weight for low reps (like 6-8), a lot of strip sets, etc. Using really short rest periods too. One day I'll do heavy on the soleus and light/high rep on the gastros, then do the opposite on calf day #2. Also, whenever I have to stand anywhere, I'll do calf raises and really concentrate on squeezing hard at the top.
They're not "there" yet but getting close! I don't have natural calf genetics either, so it's cool seeing they really can change in spite of that.