Now I know why guys don’t date women with kids

[javaguru]

Yep, they even make them as t-shirts...

 

[WhistleBritches]

#4 is so true its not even funny

 

[heavy_duty]

LOL at some of you.

I always found that you could tell an awful lot about a woman when she was around kids, even if she was a sitter for someone. I dated a nanny for a while, and while she was hella fun, I wouldn't have wanted her to have any of my kids.
I wound up marrying a single mom. Her son was very well behaved, apt was clean & orderly, car was clean, and she had class. There are some milfs that are just that. Some are not even in the same category.
If your just going out for fun & sex be straight up about it. You may be surprised at how game she is for a good time without the playa drama.

A woman with a clean car? wtf? you mean like no 4 pairs of extra shoes?
I call BS LOL

 

[Razorguns]

1. They always have psycho X’s

2. The kid(s) are wild and undisciplined

3. Its too weird to watch the kids get away with murder and not know whether or not you should say or do anything. (The whole disciplining someone else’s kid thing)

4. The women are really clingy and want to please you and do anything for you, but you know it’s most likely a show and will end soon as they know they got ya.

5. you have to like two people not just one

0) You have to skip the dating part, and immediately go into 'daddy mode' - cuz what else is she looking for??

r

 

[habitualhealth]

My husband is DYING to father my girls... and I am DYING for them to .

sounds like ur both getting really old.








....did i mention "really"?

 

[WhistleBritches]

lol at Habituals defensive posturing lol

sokay babe its alright

 

[habitualhealth]

lol at Habituals defensive posturing lol

sokay babe its alright

i promise my life isn't as bad as you seem to think it is, dear.

being a single mommy rocks. i get to choose who, when, where, how, how often, on who i date.

more so, i get to play the kid card anytime i dont want to see him.

 

[big_bad_buff]

it's very difficult to be with someone who has kids especially when they are being raised in a different manner than you would raise them.
A challenge, but some folks are worth it

I would agree, i think my biggest thing is this, and the psycho ex.....it's like 3 people trying to raise a kid different ways......

I do like the idea of dating someone with a kid though, if the kid is young, like 3 or younger. you get the joy of having the kid, but you can go home at the end of the day or just be like, hey, it;s your kid, you change em lol

 

[big_bad_buff]

The only one that was true in my case was number 1... but it was so gawdawfull, didn't matter much that the others had nothing to do with me and my kids.

.... that is till I met my husband.

Single moms are definitely not to be trifled with and I never EVER took offense if a guy opted to pass on dating me because I had children or just because of the sheer number (I have four).

I had guys say that they wouldn't consider going on a date with me when I had four kids. Totally acceptable point of view, except this one time I thought it odd as HE HAD FOUR KIDS TOO! LOL

holy cow, the brady bunch

 

[big_bad_buff]

gotta get over it. my wife had 4 when I dated her. we're married and I adopted the kids. it's the best thing that ever happened to me.

you married bikinimom?