Now I know why guys don’t date women with kids

[SouthernLord]

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lol.

I know you're a single mommy, but from reading your post I can tell you really have your shit together. You have a cute little kid too. I would think some one like you would actually be a catch

 

[heatherrae]

I personally don't blame a guy if he didn't want to date me because I have a baby. I used to think it was sort of a drag dating guys with kids before I had kids. There is always the jealous, nutty ex-wife up in your business; they had bratty kids half the time; and you can't just tell the person to drop everything and go out for a night on the town. So, yeah, I can totally understand.

 

[heatherrae]

lol.

I know you're a single mommy, but from reading your post I can tell you really have your shit together. You have a cute little kid too. I would think some one like you would actually be a catch

Thanks. I really don't have all my ducks in a row, but I don't make anyone else suffer my sins, as they say.

 

[BNG]

LOL at some of you.

I always found that you could tell an awful lot about a woman when she was around kids, even if she was a sitter for someone. I dated a nanny for a while, and while she was hella fun, I wouldn't have wanted her to have any of my kids.
I wound up marrying a single mom. Her son was very well behaved, apt was clean & orderly, car was clean, and she had class. There are some milfs that are just that. Some are not even in the same category.
If your just going out for fun & sex be straight up about it. You may be surprised at how game she is for a good time without the playa drama.

 

[needtogetarmy]

1. They always have psycho X’s

2. The kid(s) are wild and undisciplined

3. Its too weird to watch the kids get away with murder and not know whether or not you should say or do anything. (The whole disciplining someone else’s kid thing)

4. The women are really clingy and want to please you and do anything for you, but you know it’s most likely a show and will end soon as they know they got ya.

5. you have to like two people not just one

That's why god invented the donkey punch.

 

[EnderJE]

Man I hope I am married forever and never become single.

In case you're not...

 

[silverstar1025]

In case you're not...

lol hey my e-stalker!

 

[blueta2]

My boyfriend has kids and I don't....and it's just as hard for a single Dad to find someone to date. It's true, it's very difficult to be with someone who has kids especially when they are being raised in a different manner than you would raise them.
A challenge, but some folks are worth it

 

[big_bad_buff]

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so whats with the crazy X's? just bad luck with some or is it the X was psycho and crazy to begin with and that's why he is a X now? i guess it's proably 50/50 with the crazy Xs because i have 2 friends that are single moms and the dads are just losers and arent around.

 

[Bikini Mod]

1. They always have psycho X’s

2. The kid(s) are wild and undisciplined

3. Its too weird to watch the kids get away with murder and not know whether or not you should say or do anything. (The whole disciplining someone else’s kid thing)

4. The women are really clingy and want to please you and do anything for you, but you know it’s most likely a show and will end soon as they know they got ya.

5. you have to like two people not just one

The only one that was true in my case was number 1... but it was so gawdawfull, didn't matter much that the others had nothing to do with me and my kids.

.... that is till I met my husband.

Single moms are definitely not to be trifled with and I never EVER took offense if a guy opted to pass on dating me because I had children or just because of the sheer number (I have four).

I had guys say that they wouldn't consider going on a date with me when I had four kids. Totally acceptable point of view, except this one time I thought it odd as HE HAD FOUR KIDS TOO! LOL