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stilleto said:
Not as long as drugs are more important than her own child.
JH1 you are in a position to take sole and perhaps even limit all/most contact and you seem cognizant of it. Keep the evidence and if you HAVE TO... USE IT.
I know this will sound like a shock coming from someone like me, but from what I have learned when a parent is trying to do the right thing by sharing custody with a sick individual, that parent is only hurting themselves AND their children in the long run.
Every child NEEDS a mother, even if that mother is just *eh*. But from the little that you have posted your ex is not *eh*. She may be doing the child harm....
It would be hard for your daughter to have to grow up without her mother in her life. Any man who says differently is just demonstrating how little they TRULY care for their child. The social stigma that child will suffer is VERY HARD. Can you imagine in school when they ask, "Where is your mommy? How come you dont live with her and cant see her?" Do you have ANY IDEA how harmfull that is for a child, especially female? What is she supposed to say, "My mommy is a cokewhore." ..... and that isn't supposed to KILL her inside?
It is a VERY tough decision and one that I know you wont make lightly. But I think (and my opinion is like everybody else's asshole) that it is something that you MIGHT have to consider.
Every child NEEDS a mommy. But NO CHILD needs to be abused.
My heart goes out to you and your daughter. I hope for you family's sake that your ex will get over the drugs and grow the fuck up and thank her lucky stars that YOU are her child's father.
