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jh1

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From the Ex:


"i cant wait till that day comes when lily says she wants to live with me instead of you"


That's like the 9th time she has illuded to something along those lines. She left me a voicemail, which I have saved, back around her b-day saying "I'd cut you out of Lily's life completely if I could."

I sure hope after she gets clean she doesn't try to slowly turn my daughter against me. I guess I'll save all this in case one day she tries to pull that bullshit.
 
jh1 said:
From the Ex:


"i cant wait till that day comes when lily says she wants to live with me instead of you"


That's like the 9th time she has illuded to something along those lines. She left me a voicemail, which I have saved, back around her b-day saying "I'd cut you out of Lily's life completely if I could."

I sure hope after she gets clean she doesn't try to slowly turn my daughter against me. I guess I'll save all this in case one day she tries to pull that bullshit.
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you might have to hire somebody............just sayin
 
I am so sorry. That stupid selfish bitch should thank her lucky stars that a man like YOU is her child's father. Bitches like that broad make me want to puke.
 
Luckily you're smart enough to save all this shit and when your daughter is old enough to start listening to her lies you at least have something to back you up.
 
jh1 said:
From the Ex:


"i cant wait till that day comes when lily says she wants to live with me instead of you"


That's like the 9th time she has illuded to something along those lines. She left me a voicemail, which I have saved, back around her b-day saying "I'd cut you out of Lily's life completely if I could."

I sure hope after she gets clean she doesn't try to slowly turn my daughter against me. I guess I'll save all this in case one day she tries to pull that bullshit.
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Your ex is being ridiculous. I'm sure you would let her see her as much as she wants if she would clean up.

Save the emails, but don't ever show your daughter.

When I was a kid I had one parent try to badmouth the other. When I grew up, I figured it out and properly figured who was at fault. Your daughter will too. You just don't want it coming from both sides at her.
 
DO NOT badmouth her mother...

To this day it hurts my girls to have to discuss what a piece of shit their father is. It hurts them.

I know it is hard but it will HELP your daughter. Just be a good daddy like you already are.
 
What she is implying would constitute a 'substantial and continuing change of circumstance' opening the door for me to go back and have custody modified.

"Interfering with Child's Relationship With Other Parent
Acts, omissions, or circumstances of a managing conservator that thwart the child's ties with the other parent, such as interfering with visitation, may constitute a material and substantial change in circumstances. A material and substantial change occurs when a managing conservator, by word, attitude, or deed, directly or subtly alienates the child's affection for, or poisons the child's mind against, the other parent. "
 
she's so insecure about you being the good parent/stable one and the fact you and your daughter will probably have a better relationship than she ever will.

it'll never happen. the more psycho and crazy she is, the less likely it will occur(that'll she'll turn her against you). just keep doing what you're doing, your daughter will recognize that (assuming there's equal time spent with her, or more in your case). If she's constantly in her ear, then yeah, kids are programmable.

the girl is a train wreck..sorry you have to deal with this
 
jh1 said:
From the Ex:


"i cant wait till that day comes when lily says she wants to live with me instead of you"


That's like the 9th time she has illuded to something along those lines. She left me a voicemail, which I have saved, back around her b-day saying "I'd cut you out of Lily's life completely if I could."

I sure hope after she gets clean she doesn't try to slowly turn my daughter against me. I guess I'll save all this in case one day she tries to pull that bullshit.
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It's still a new situation and from the sounds of it, she's extremely immature. Things will get better when your daughter is older and things are more familiar. Right now it's a big control issue. Don't let her see it bothers you and the lack of response from you will cause her to back off a bit. Until then suck up the pride and attempt with all your might to come to a middle ground without the courts.
 
i wonder if she'll ever understand just how lucky she was to marry you.
 
Raise your daughter to only speak/understand Spanish. That will fuck with the mother and keep her from putting ideas in her head later on.
 
jh1 said:
From the Ex:


"i cant wait till that day comes when lily says she wants to live with me instead of you"


That's like the 9th time she has illuded to something along those lines. She left me a voicemail, which I have saved, back around her b-day saying "I'd cut you out of Lily's life completely if I could."

I sure hope after she gets clean she doesn't try to slowly turn my daughter against me. I guess I'll save all this in case one day she tries to pull that bullshit.
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let me play devils advocate....sounds to me like she's hurting. Whem ppl hurt they want others to hurt. Misery loves company

My best friends ex is exactly the same. Oh the woman is a loonie, but he keeps the peace by just being nice, and it at times it works and other times it doesn't. The winner will be you b/c you will feel at peace by not reacting.

I don't envy your postition but stay strong :-)
 
stilleto said:
i wonder if she'll ever understand just how lucky she was to marry you.
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Not as long as drugs are more important than her own child.

JH1 you are in a position to take sole and perhaps even limit all/most contact and you seem cognizant of it. Keep the evidence and if you HAVE TO... USE IT.

I know this will sound like a shock coming from someone like me, but from what I have learned when a parent is trying to do the right thing by sharing custody with a sick individual, that parent is only hurting themselves AND their children in the long run.

Every child NEEDS a mother, even if that mother is just *eh*. But from the little that you have posted your ex is not *eh*. She may be doing the child harm....

It would be hard for your daughter to have to grow up without her mother in her life. Any man who says differently is just demonstrating how little they TRULY care for their child. The social stigma that child will suffer is VERY HARD. Can you imagine in school when they ask, "Where is your mommy? How come you dont live with her and cant see her?" Do you have ANY IDEA how harmfull that is for a child, especially female? What is she supposed to say, "My mommy is a cokewhore." ..... and that isn't supposed to KILL her inside?

It is a VERY tough decision and one that I know you wont make lightly. But I think (and my opinion is like everybody else's asshole) that it is something that you MIGHT have to consider.

Every child NEEDS a mommy. But NO CHILD needs to be abused.

My heart goes out to you and your daughter. I hope for you family's sake that your ex will get over the drugs and grow the fuck up and thank her lucky stars that YOU are her child's father.
 
DAMN what a bitch. Her projecting her hurt and disappointment in herself on you. It couldn't be her fault that she can't get clean, its all you doing this to her of course.

I'm pretty lucky now. my situation is somewhat civil. All except for me being around her boyfriend. He knows better then to come near me. I only threatend him once. Not with killing him, just extreame bodly injury. You know what a good kick to the face can do. I just want to knock him the fuck out one time and then we can co-exist. You fucked my wife, I'm fucking sloshing your brains around in your grape for a little while. Done and done.
 
Turd Ferguson said:
DAMN what a bitch. Her projecting her hurt and disappointment in herself on you. It couldn't be her fault that she can't get clean, its all you doing this to her of course.

I'm pretty lucky now. my situation is somewhat civil. All except for me being around her boyfriend. He knows better then to come near me. I only threatend him once. Not with killing him, just extreame bodly injury. You know what a good kick to the face can do. I just want to knock him the fuck out one time and then we can co-exist. You fucked my wife, I'm fucking sloshing your brains around in your grape for a little while. Done and done.
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Meh... kick his ass? Darlin SHAKE HIS HAND 'cause he got the booby prize! :lmao:
 
jh1 said:
From the Ex:


"i cant wait till that day comes when lily says she wants to live with me instead of you"


That's like the 9th time she has illuded to something along those lines. She left me a voicemail, which I have saved, back around her b-day saying "I'd cut you out of Lily's life completely if I could."

I sure hope after she gets clean she doesn't try to slowly turn my daughter against me. I guess I'll save all this in case one day she tries to pull that bullshit.
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as long as you're calm and cool and deal with her mother in a clear and rational manner. . .your kid will see right through the bullshit that her mom tries to put in her head. . .trust me. . .i've seen it too many times. . .kids aren't dumb. . .it's not easy to bite your tongue sometimes, but if you really care about your relationship with your child, that's exactly what you have to do. . .never say ANYTHING bad to her about her mom and NEVER argue with her mom in front of her. . .
 
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