Crying is going to be a part of the package deal for anal (w/ a girl) for the first time from my experience. Whenever I first violated my ladies poop shoot she initially asked me to stop, clinched the old butt cheeks together hard, started to whimper/cry. Basically, that just meant stop inserting/pushing it in until she caught her breath for me cuz like AAP no isn't an acceptable answer. But, after being all the way in she said that the initial pain was gone and it still hurt a little bit but it was in a really good way.
BB have her do some shampoo bottle squats in the shower to help stretch her backdoor.
Naw, not surprised! You forget, I've been lurking for a while so I kind of expected it.
As for HG P's comment about being, I believe he said "fatter, weaker and gayer"? Well, the first thing I thougt of was, "Speaking from experience?" But then I thought, "Naw better not. Don't want to start a war all ready. Expecially being a newbie!"