lotsa good intell here appreciate it good bros...and i know every dude proly says/thinks this but she is definetly not cheating on me haha.
thing is, she just got her custody str8ned out after a long drawn out drama filled battle...so she wants to be the best mom possible and is real sensitive about not being so...some additional baggage is that her mom wasn't there for her, was a drug user and my gf is ultra concerned about not repeating the sins of her mom so it makes her kinda ultra maternalistic.
and yea i haven't been doing a good job of seducing, largely just trying to go for the goods right off the bat...thing is though my pre-work is/has been futile which leads me to say fuk it and attempt a home run...when jr isn't around it's all good and off the hook crazy no holes barred...the situation has me way confused, i'm torn between thinking i'm a horny jooser with needs and understanding my ladies current situ.
other than this issue things are more than good, i could marry this lady and i've never said/thought that before...but i'm afraid this baby elephant could grow and create tension down the road if things stay the same