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Phiba Optik

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Hey EF bros please hear me out I need some serious advice i am going nuts.

I will keep this as short as I can.

Well I've been with my girlfriend for over 4 years now. I am a student at a D1 school (very high overall rank). There have always been ups and downs.

Well anyways she always tells me shes going studying at a friends house and at starbucks or the library or volunteering etc. Well we were hanging out and she wanted to check her facebook on my phone.

She left my place and I went to the gym. I come back and am taking a dump and bring my phone with me and go on facebook, only o find out her shit is still open. So I see all these photos that I've never seen. She blocked me from themmm...they are fucking party photos with her literally getting dry humped by other guys.....

Alot of the photos were mobile uploads from friends and the times listed on em were pretty much all the times she would say she went "Studying" or went to a friends place and shit.

I put so much trust into that bitch only to get this in return. I have been faithful since day fucking one.

She isn't home yet, but I have a feeling that I will be spending the night in jail.

Help bros what do I do. I cant fucking control it....im looinsgin it..
 
Go stay at a friends place until you cool off and think through how you should handle it.
Ignore the piss out of her.

By the way, that's pretty suspicious mistake to leave her fb open on ur phone. U don't think she did it on purpose. Hard to think she'd go thru the effort to hide that shit but then leave it open on UR PHONE. Just kinda weird ya know.
 
she was i a hurry and needed her friends number (listed on facebook) and her droid was dead so she used my iphone. She didnt do it on purpose, I know her well enough. But yea I just dont know how to go about dealign with this. Even after I cool off I am wondering if I should dump that bitch.
 
Fk having a girlfriend while attending a D1 college

Way too much poon walking around for that nonsense

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bigbassturd said:
Fk having a girlfriend while attending a D1 college

Way too much poon walking around for that nonsense

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Couldnt help it knew her since highschool (Was my highschool sweetheart.) Now I am done with the fucking fun years of college and its all researching and working on my thesis and shit. I wasted that many years of my life on a lying piece of shit.:mad:
 
Just break up with her will be happier than trying work through that seems like good chance done more things behind your back than that..

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Don't tell her you went on her facebook. I'd just tell your tired tonight and you were heading to bed... and just chill for the night.

Sounds pretty sketchy bro, so i'd text her tomorrow and tell her you heard she was fuckin with other guys and ur done. Weird that she'd put that shit up on fb even if she says it was before u started dating. Who shows off that they hook up at an online site? If that was me, it would sicken me even seeing her and all attraction would be out the window.
 
She may have broken your heart and made you feel betrayed, but you can stop her from taking anything else from you, like your reputation with your school peers and friends, by giving yourself some space and cooling off. What is done is done, how you move forward from here is all about the cause you make for the future. I figure, if she blew it with a guy who works as hard as you towards a bright future, she doesn't need a new boyfriend, she needs a therapist and alot of medication.
 
r u kidding me?? why would you allow her to take any more than you already have allowed her to>..

go to jail?? for what?? her?? are you kidding me??

thank her with her shit on the front steps and see ya..

and forward all those pics to your phone or whatever so you can post her up on your face book as the ho she is..

she's using you.. that's the best revenge.. expose her for who she is..
 
Yeah drop that shit I went through the same thing, if she's doing that kind of stuff then I guarantee she's opening her legs up for other guys. Girls Don't live by the same set of codes guys do, they will cheat and lie like no other and not think twice about it. Once trust is broken shit will never be the same. it's done, or you can just use the fuck out of her, fuck her and fuck around on the side too. And if she ever says anything you can just say it was mutual. Sounds like you wouldn't have the conscious for that route though. prob care bout her too much. I'd hit it one more time raw dawg and bail.
 
Thanks guys..you will NOT believe this shit.... I got a call from her. She has to study tonight for tomorrow (has some kind of test)...wow.....I dont even know. I wish I knew where she was studying so I could bash the guys skull in
 
BuddhaBuilder said:
She may have broken your heart and made you feel betrayed, but you can stop her from taking anything else from you, like your reputation with your school peers and friends, by giving yourself some space and cooling off. What is done is done, how you move forward from here is all about the cause you make for the future. I figure, if she blew it with a guy who works as hard as you towards a bright future, she doesn't need a new boyfriend, she needs a therapist and alot of medication.
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Thank you for the response bro. It's just it hurts so fucking much. We had made so many plans together since highschool (years ago) annd i have been been at it. I've busted ass in the gym, so she doesnt feel like her man isn't as hot as those other fucks. I have maintained a 3.85 GPA with a double major (Chem and Pharmaceutical Sciences) and a minor (sociology). I meet so many beautiful women and when one would try flirting around, I would immediately steer clear. I have already lost so much because of this bitch.
 
SpyWizard said:
r u kidding me?? why would you allow her to take any more than you already have allowed her to>..

go to jail?? for what?? her?? are you kidding me??

thank her with her shit on the front steps and see ya..

and forward all those pics to your phone or whatever so you can post her up on your face book as the ho she is..

she's using you.. that's the best revenge.. expose her for who she is..
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I don't have the heart to do it. That's why this bitch used me. She knows I work out and am a hard ass douchebag on the outside, but for her, I was always the nice one. I always forgave her, mistake after mistake, lie after lie.
 
Potent said:
Yeah drop that shit I went through the same thing, if she's doing that kind of stuff then I guarantee she's opening her legs up for other guys. Girls Don't live by the same set of codes guys do, they will cheat and lie like no other and not think twice about it. Once trust is broken shit will never be the same. it's done, or you can just use the fuck out of her, fuck her and fuck around on the side too. And if she ever says anything you can just say it was mutual. Sounds like you wouldn't have the conscious for that route though. prob care bout her too much. I'd hit it one more time raw dawg and bail.
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It's funny because she has destroyed the fucking trust I have for her so many times. But my stupid ass ALWAYS gave her the benefit of the doubt and trusted her again. I would be like "Ahh no, my girl would NEVER do THAT..." God fucking damn I was wrong. Fuck raw dawging, she can go catch something I am done with that bitch. Just something inside me still doesnt want to leave her. I dont have the fucking heart to do it...:worried:
 
She doesn't respect you bro. Take out the trash man you don't deserve that shit. Parting is the hardest part. Its all down hill from there bud
 
Phiba Optik said:
Thanks guys..you will NOT believe this shit.... I got a call from her. She has to study tonight for tomorrow (has some kind of test)...wow.....I dont even know. I wish I knew where she was studying so I could bash the guys skull in
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That sucks dick.

Text her and say something really shitty just happened and you need her and say you'll call. Then postpone talking to her for an hour but still say something terrible happened and then just go to bed. At least you'll fuck up whatever scheme she had tonight.
Tomorrow just say the dog at home died or make up some bullshit.

I'd say get a good last hate fuck in if you can pull off tomorrow. If not just end it and just say ur not attracted to her anymore. Dont get into the cheating thing. It'll hit her harder knowing you didn't think she was good enough for u.
 
All the best with your situation bro, afraid I can't offer much advice as I haven't settled down with one girl in a long time.
 
let's see the pics! :)

just break up. it won't be that bad. like the dude above said, hit it raw one last time, then bounce.

it's actually great that this happened to you. now you know you can't trust 'em! obviously you want to treat people very well, but it takes some experience to learn that women lie, cheat, steal, get horny, and fuck just as much as men. unless you plan on making them your wife one day, you can give them a lot less of you.

you're so angry right now because you gave the ho 110% of you. at the MOST you can give a chick 70%; you have to keep at least 25% for yourself at all times no matter what (even when married). just take it as a learning experience in the world of dating girls.
 
oxymoron said:
That sucks dick.

Text her and say something really shitty just happened and you need her and say you'll call. Then postpone talking to her for an hour but still say something terrible happened and then just go to bed. At least you'll fuck up whatever scheme she had tonight.
Tomorrow just say the dog at home died or make up some bullshit.

I'd say get a good last hate fuck in if you can pull off tomorrow. If not just end it and just say ur not attracted to her anymore. Dont get into the cheating thing. It'll hit her harder knowing you didn't think she was good enough for u.
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I wont fuck that used bitch. She's probably partying and has her phone off or something or she "wont have service." She hasn't responded to my texts yet and when I call her it goes straight to voice mail.
 
zeroshens said:
let's see the pics! :)

just break up. it won't be that bad. like the dude above said, hit it raw one last time, then bounce.

it's actually great that this happened to you. now you know you can't trust 'em! obviously you want to treat people very well, but it takes some experience to learn that women lie, cheat, steal, get horny, and fuck just as much as men. unless you plan on making them your wife one day, you can give them a lot less of you.

you're so angry right now because you gave the ho 110% of you. at the MOST you can give a chick 70%; you have to keep at least 25% for yourself at all times no matter what (even when married). just take it as a learning experience in the world of dating girls.
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It's funny that she gets horny and I can control it (Considering I am running test-e right now and I am in week 11 and want to fuck anything that moves!). I dont think after this I can trust anybody
 
Potent said:
Yeah drop that shit I went through the same thing, if she's doing that kind of stuff then I guarantee she's opening her legs up for other guys. Girls Don't live by the same set of codes guys do, they will cheat and lie like no other and not think twice about it. Once trust is broken shit will never be the same. it's done, or you can just use the fuck out of her, fuck her and fuck around on the side too. And if she ever says anything you can just say it was mutual. Sounds like you wouldn't have the conscious for that route though. prob care bout her too much. I'd hit it one more time raw dawg and bail.
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Yep, I totallty agree with this. I found out through facebook that my wife was cheating on me as well and her email account. I put a key logger on our computer becuase I was a little suspicious. While I was putting up our christas lights and christmas tree she was sexting another dude..the beauty of private messaging in facebook.

I think spywizard said to screenshot all pics and conversations... I would definitely do that because she will have you convinced that what you saw wasnt really what you saw.

fuck that bitch, she has taken way too much from you. you will have a very hard time trusting women now.. At least I do. Personally, I would keep fucking her with protection and seek out new women and just have fun and then when she finds out show her the pics. I can say the previous, but it will never be in my personality to do so.
 
Dump her ass easy!! Why you going to jail? Don't do foolish things!!! You still have your future don't let her destroy your life... Just think everything happens for a reason.. Believe in Karma!!! Trust me!!! Better to break up with her!!:)
 
TryionLannister said:
Yep, I totallty agree with this. I found out through facebook that my wife was cheating on me as well and her email account. I put a key logger on our computer becuase I was a little suspicious. While I was putting up our christas lights and christmas tree she was sexting another dude..the beauty of private messaging in facebook.

I think spywizard said to screenshot all pics and conversations... I would definitely do that because she will have you convinced that what you saw wasnt really what you saw.

fuck that bitch, she has taken way too much from you. you will have a very hard time trusting women now.. At least I do. Personally, I would keep fucking her with protection and seek out new women and just have fun and then when she finds out show her the pics. I can say the previous, but it will never be in my personality to do so.
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Hey thanks for the response. Wow you wife, I can't even imagine how you felt. Just a question, how long were you married (if its too personal I apologize and please ignore it!) I took screenshots of all the photos on my iphone and have them backed up on my computer as well just incase. It funny, she completely trashed my trust and I still feel bad for looking at her facebook. Fuck me right?! And yes bro I agree with you, I don't think I will EVER trust women, or anyone the same way. It's funny how a single person can make the entire population look bad. I know all women aren't bad, I guess I just haven't found the right one. But I dont think I have the strength and courage to find anyone else, I just dont think I would trust them.
 
Frances Asia said:
Dump her ass easy!! Why you going to jail? Don't do foolish things!!! You still have your future don't let her destroy your life... Just think everything happens for a reason.. Believe in Karma!!! Trust me!!! Better to break up with her!!:)
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I wanted to confront the guys she was dancing with and smash their jaws in (I am 4 times bigger than these scrawny fucks). But I came to peace with that because after all its not the guy's fault. They dont know if shes single or in a relationship so if shes makes the first move, they dont have any obligations to object. Its that bitches fault. I hope she gets whats coming to her. Thanks for responding
 
Hey another thing bro you say you gave her 110% sounds like you were giving yourself 110% keepin grades up and staying hard in the gym. You gotta think most dudes go sedentary after being in long relationships and when it's over they look like shit an no girl wants em. Theres a bright side to all this, you can start slaying all those hotties you never got a stab at cause you were to busy staying true to ol girl. The single life really is great once you adjust to being single again, its been a while for me but i miss those days.

But hey on the other hand.. remember, if you can't deal without her just replace her. you sound like me, I need a companion in my life an anytime a girl does me wrong I just replace her ass w a diff chick , hell a better chick. And I never stop going hard in the gym.

Bro once you find a new girl that treats you like a king you will be like fuck that bitch why did I stay w her for so long.
 
She blocked you from her facebook... thats pretty sus in the first place bro, time to ditch her and fuck around or just get a new chick who's more deserving of your attention...
 
Phiba

I was with my wife for 12 years marries six. We have two small children together. Yeah my trust is shatter. I thought once I started
Dating again that I would
Be okay but I've been dating a great girl
For about 5 months and I just don't ever want to get married again and even tho she's nothing like my x wife. I still don't know if I can trust her in the future.

My wife used to tell me that she judged every other man by me...
If Jason wouldn't do
It then that guy isn't any good. They she goes and and cheats
On me with two of her former students dad. This guy cheated on his first wife and has a live in girlfriend. Sorry to digress so
Much of your topic
 
TryionLannister said:
Phiba

I was with my wife for 12 years marries six. We have two small children together. Yeah my trust is shatter. I thought once I started
Dating again that I would
Be okay but I've been dating a great girl
For about 5 months and I just don't ever want to get married again and even tho she's nothing like my x wife. I still don't know if I can trust her in the future.

My wife used to tell me that she judged every other man by me...
If Jason wouldn't do
It then that guy isn't any good. They she goes and and cheats
On me with two of her former students dad. This guy cheated on his first wife and has a live in girlfriend. Sorry to digress so
Much of your topic
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No man it's alright. I have to find someplace to vent. All my friends and colleagues fuck all day and don't get tied up to nobody (includes the men and women) so I can't even ask for their advice. Thank you for letting me know. Don't take this wrong, but it makes me feel less victimized when I know that I am not the only one that was fucked over. How did you deal with it brother? I mean I would go insane. Again thank you man for you responses
 
you need to keep pretending you know nothing man. Then do everything in your power to meet as many of her girl friends as you can and smash all their pussies to shit. Her friends are all dying to jump on your dick man trust me that is how all woman are lmao. What ever you do do not let it get you down.. I know exactly how you feel right now times 1000k my friend. When your heart is broken it can hurt. Choice to let it go and have some fun with it.. Its the best you can do. `
 
I feel ya man to, Keep your head up and keep kicking ass in the gym and school, dont let her take anything else away from you. It sucks it really does but just keep on keeping on it will get easier. I found out in Feb that my wife of 4 1/2 years was having and affair and has been for 4 months, bitches lie thats all there is to it. I am like you and i'm a softy when it comes to women, I let her tell me it was over and I believed it a month later shit it the fan again... same guy that bastard needs run over, has a wife and 2 kids. We have no kids, and well bitches lie thats all I can say about it ( i'm still in the bitter stage if ya couldnt tell) I do like the idea of banging all of her friends like people have suggested.
 
you have no business being in a commited relationship at your age. you are still in college. have fun and date around. you should be dating 3 or 4 chicks at one time in your spare time and focusing on finishing your education.

once you establish yourself in life and save up money, have a house, and a career/business in your 30's or 40's you can worry about getting married.. in 10 years you will look back and laugh at yourself for crying over this slut and wonder how you could of ever dated her in the first place. i guarantee she will have 3 kids by 3 different fathers..

in the mean time don't dump her and don't mention shit UNLESS you live with her then yeah you both need to go separate ways. good lord if you are living with her this is a huge blunder of mega proportions, you should never live with a girl if you are as young as you are cause you need to have the option of just breaking up and not being homeless or vice versa. if this is the case then start looking for another place NOW and go put down a deposit and then get a friend to help you pickup the UHAUL and move out this weekend. tell her straight up you were under the impression you were in an exclusive relationship and she hasn't been faithful so you are gonna move on. thats it.

but if you don't live together and can keep her around start treating her the way she is treating you.. ignore her calls/texts.. and go have fun with other chicks the same way. if she wants to go out and stuff then have fun with her but don't take things seriously. she is actually doing what she should be doing and that is not commiting while young and she considers your relationship a joke and finds it okay to party with other guys and flirt. if a girl is gonna seek attention from other men then that is automatically a no-no for someone you want to have an exclusive relationship with. so you should do the same.
 
Sketchy and really dishonest, but not an uncommon situation for people who go into college maintaining their high school relationship.

College is the place you explore your personal boundaries to figure out what kind of person you are going to be. It's impossible to do that if you are still bound by something from your high school years, and inevitably, 999 times out of 1000 either one or both are going to do that exploration behind the other persons back, or one or both will grow to resent the other person.

I fully support people staying single at least the first couple of years of college till they get some of that out of their systems. Even longer, for most people, though I know that's not always realistic. I think it's good to have the freedom to choose the direction your life is going to go, the place you are going to start your career, etc without having to make sacrifices for another person that early in life. Those years should be about you, your personal growth, and having the freedom to make choices based on what YOU want for your life. Then you open yourself up to someone who's on a similar track.

I'm sorry you are going through this, it must hurt like hell, and it sucks when people you love don't give to you what you give to them...but at least you found out so you won't waste any more time on someone who isn't committed on an equal level.
 
^^^ exactly.

the cold hard reality after people graduate and then get a job 1000 miles away and have to break up

it hurts him now, but it will hurt 100X worse in another couple years when his company makes him move to Seattle for his promotion and his gf lives in NY.
 
Not all women are saints but not all are whores either, hang in there, dump her and take your time before you even seriously date another girl again
 
i would just tell her you're going to move on and do it. i wouldn't stay with a girl i couldn't trust. it seems silly to me that she wouldn't just tell you what she is up to. that tells me she has bad intentions.
 
So have u heard from her or has she tried to email and ask what's going on?
Stay strong and just tell her its done because ur not interested anymore. Don't get into all this sneaking bullshit with her.


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Phiba Optik said:
Don't take this wrong, but it makes me feel less victimized when I know that I am not the only one that was fucked over. How did you deal with it brother? I mean I would go insane.
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ALL guys have been fucked over at one time or another..some more than once...this sounds like your first one..dont worry though, they get easier to deal with the more it happens.
 
I've gotta disagree with my good brothers here suggesting you start messing around with her friends, or keep her around and start fucking her over they way she has done to you.
Be the better man, tell her its over (whether you tell her because you aren't interested or because you found out...doesn't make much difference imo), and move on.
It hurts, it really does. And it will be hard..very hard...you will likely second guess yourself, and think maybe you should try one more time...don't make that mistake.
Sometimes (very often) the hardest/most difficult things we do are also the best for us, and the most important in the long run.

Be strong, enjoy your life, and when the time is right, I'm sure you will find someone worthy of you.
 
Just let her go and move on. It will hurt like hell for months so dont let anyone fool you.
You will feel like shit and lost and lonely. But you will come out stronger and wiser. You will find someone that is far better then you left.
It's not worth anything at this point to brood or get yourself in shit over her. No woman or man is worth it.
 
needtogetaas said:
you need to keep pretending you know nothing man. Then do everything in your power to meet as many of her girl friends as you can and smash all their pussies to shit. Her friends are all dying to jump on your dick man trust me that is how all woman are lmao. What ever you do do not let it get you down.. I know exactly how you feel right now times 1000k my friend. When your heart is broken it can hurt. Choice to let it go and have some fun with it.. Its the best you can do. `
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Hey Nate, thanks for for your response brother. As much as I want to do that, I feel like shit will escalate more if I do anything with her friends. The problem is I do want her to taste her own medicine...but if I dump that bitch, I want it to be solely because it was her fault. I want her concious to haunt her (granted if she has one). I was thinking if I give her an excuse, it will be easier for her to forget me. I need to start looking out for me, myself and I. Appreciate the post brother
 
Straightshot said:
I feel ya man to, Keep your head up and keep kicking ass in the gym and school, dont let her take anything else away from you. It sucks it really does but just keep on keeping on it will get easier. I found out in Feb that my wife of 4 1/2 years was having and affair and has been for 4 months, bitches lie thats all there is to it. I am like you and i'm a softy when it comes to women, I let her tell me it was over and I believed it a month later shit it the fan again... same guy that bastard needs run over, has a wife and 2 kids. We have no kids, and well bitches lie thats all I can say about it ( i'm still in the bitter stage if ya couldnt tell) I do like the idea of banging all of her friends like people have suggested.
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Hey straightshot thanks for sharing this. I will try my hardest to focus in school but it's hard to keep that when all I can think about is this shit. The gym is my only haven and I vent my anger there (I've dropped all my vices a long while back). I feel you though, I would be bitter too! If I am going nuts over my girlfriend, I can't even begin to imagine what a person goes through when it's their spouse. I am trying not too, but I just feel beat. She has already used my up and taken everything from me, so what can I hold back? She's a skank, she'll be changing guys in no time without any worries. I don't think I could ever forget this.
 
stevesmi said:
you have no business being in a commited relationship at your age. you are still in college. have fun and date around. you should be dating 3 or 4 chicks at one time in your spare time and focusing on finishing your education.

once you establish yourself in life and save up money, have a house, and a career/business in your 30's or 40's you can worry about getting married.. in 10 years you will look back and laugh at yourself for crying over this slut and wonder how you could of ever dated her in the first place. i guarantee she will have 3 kids by 3 different fathers..

in the mean time don't dump her and don't mention shit UNLESS you live with her then yeah you both need to go separate ways. good lord if you are living with her this is a huge blunder of mega proportions, you should never live with a girl if you are as young as you are cause you need to have the option of just breaking up and not being homeless or vice versa. if this is the case then start looking for another place NOW and go put down a deposit and then get a friend to help you pickup the UHAUL and move out this weekend. tell her straight up you were under the impression you were in an exclusive relationship and she hasn't been faithful so you are gonna move on. thats it.

but if you don't live together and can keep her around start treating her the way she is treating you.. ignore her calls/texts.. and go have fun with other chicks the same way. if she wants to go out and stuff then have fun with her but don't take things seriously. she is actually doing what she should be doing and that is not commiting while young and she considers your relationship a joke and finds it okay to party with other guys and flirt. if a girl is gonna seek attention from other men then that is automatically a no-no for someone you want to have an exclusive relationship with. so you should do the same.
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Hey Steve, thanks for the response brother. That's the thing, I am angry at myself too. I wish I would have never given her the chance the first time I caught her lying and doing shit behind my back. I trusted her again and now this shit. I wasted my whole undergraduate term being committed only to find out that at the end of it, I get fucked over. It's too late for me to enjoy that experience again. It's research labs, being a teacher's assistant, and doing my specialty from here.

It's funny too, I attend a D1 school. I would go to so many frat parties and football tailgates and all these college folks would be fucking around like horny rabbits. And here was my stupid ass, cockblocking myself and turning down women left and right....for an ungreatful bitch.

I don't live with her so thank god on that haha. I know she loves to go out and stuff, but shes not focused at all when it comes to her professional life. She has no balance. Hopefully it all comes crashing down on her and she realizes that she's a fucking failure. That's when she'll realize what she lost, afterall, none of those one night stand fuckers at bars want anything more than "hittin and quittin." I haven't spoken to her since yesterday and I when she knocked on my door I didn't bother opening it. I will confront her when I feel I can handle myself in a calm and collective manner.

Just a random off topic thought: I wonder how I would deal with this shit if I was on tren or halo..!?
 
nefertiti said:
Sketchy and really dishonest, but not an uncommon situation for people who go into college maintaining their high school relationship.

College is the place you explore your personal boundaries to figure out what kind of person you are going to be. It's impossible to do that if you are still bound by something from your high school years, and inevitably, 999 times out of 1000 either one or both are going to do that exploration behind the other persons back, or one or both will grow to resent the other person.

I fully support people staying single at least the first couple of years of college till they get some of that out of their systems. Even longer, for most people, though I know that's not always realistic. I think it's good to have the freedom to choose the direction your life is going to go, the place you are going to start your career, etc without having to make sacrifices for another person that early in life. Those years should be about you, your personal growth, and having the freedom to make choices based on what YOU want for your life. Then you open yourself up to someone who's on a similar track.

I'm sorry you are going through this, it must hurt like hell, and it sucks when people you love don't give to you what you give to them...but at least you found out so you won't waste any more time on someone who isn't committed on an equal level.
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Hey nefertiti, thanks for the response! I agree but I wish I didn't go into college tied in a relationship (hind sight bias I guess). As I mentioned earlier, I lost the "fun years" at a university already. My undergraduate term is almost over so I will be out of the date game for a while (that and the fact that I dont trust anyone now). I hope i grow stronger out of this. I know one thing though, this situation is a crazy "preworkout" for me. Nothing I've taken comes close to the rage I get in the gym when I think about this. That combined with the test-e in taking...Im tossing weights like it's nothing! And you're right, better find out now rather than some of the less fortunate people that posted here who found out once they were married for years.
 
nangiggles said:
Not all women are saints but not all are whores either, hang in there, dump her and take your time before you even seriously date another girl again
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Hey giggles, thanks for your response!

I will play the waiting game, but I don't know when I will be willing to go exploring again. My trust issues will ruin me. This whore ruined me.
 
oxymoron said:
So have u heard from her or has she tried to email and ask what's going on?
Stay strong and just tell her its done because ur not interested anymore. Don't get into all this sneaking bullshit with her.


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She knocked on my door, I didn't respond. She called me and texted me and I haven't responded. I was going to save me the trouble and just forward her the pics. But I wanted to rub it in her face and she the look on her face when I bash her for this shit. It sounds mean, but its the least I can do. I could be a fucker and put up all of our videos of us fucking and her blowing me etc and all photos, but I don't want to be "that guy!"
 
dutchman063 said:
ALL guys have been fucked over at one time or another..some more than once...this sounds like your first one..dont worry though, they get easier to deal with the more it happens.
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Yup first time for everything right?! I don't know how to deal with it since I have no experience. I hope this was my first and last time I have to deal with such shit.
 
Ox-Sandra-Loan said:
I've gotta disagree with my good brothers here suggesting you start messing around with her friends, or keep her around and start fucking her over they way she has done to you.
Be the better man, tell her its over (whether you tell her because you aren't interested or because you found out...doesn't make much difference imo), and move on.
It hurts, it really does. And it will be hard..very hard...you will likely second guess yourself, and think maybe you should try one more time...don't make that mistake.
Sometimes (very often) the hardest/most difficult things we do are also the best for us, and the most important in the long run.

Be strong, enjoy your life, and when the time is right, I'm sure you will find someone worthy of you.
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Hey thanks for the response! I will not fuck her friends, but not because I am a better man..its just that I dont want to be even more complicated than they already are. I feel like "why should i keep being the better man?" That's what got me here In the first place. I kept forgiving her and trusting her again and again and was always the better man, and that ended up getting me fucked over. I want to be the better man again, but something tells me that for once I should do it differently, just to show that bitch that a nice guy can be a fucking dick too.
 
captainahole said:
Just let her go and move on. It will hurt like hell for months so dont let anyone fool you.
You will feel like shit and lost and lonely. But you will come out stronger and wiser. You will find someone that is far better then you left.
It's not worth anything at this point to brood or get yourself in shit over her. No woman or man is worth it.
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I just hope i can focus on important stuff like my education...My professor was lecturing and literally I did nothing but doodle garbage on my paper and think about how that bitch ruined my life.
 
Phiba Optik said:
Hey giggles, thanks for your response!

I will play the waiting game, but I don't know when I will be willing to go exploring again. My trust issues will ruin me. This whore ruined me.
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I've been married 2 years but we moved in for over 7 yrs now and I've never cheated, not even when shit has gone bad with no sex for months, sister's been with her guy almost 10 years, no cheating, cousin also 13 yers, no cheating, so we're still out there bro there are still committed and respectful women out there, gotta filter through some trash to find the treasure, dont let this woman set a precedent for future women :)

Phiba Optik said:
She knocked on my door, I didn't respond. She called me and texted me and I haven't responded. I was going to save me the trouble and just forward her the pics. But I wanted to rub it in her face and she the look on her face when I bash her for this shit. It sounds mean, but its the least I can do. I could be a fucker and put up all of our videos of us fucking and her blowing me etc and all photos, but I don't want to be "that guy!"
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Be prepared for a TON of scenarios ranging from excuses, to fake tears/apologies, maybe a fuck it kinda attitude and she'll start pining her whorish behavior on you, etc, personally I couldnt walk out of the relationship with her thinking I dont know, I'd want her to know I know so she doesnt think she can get away with shit like this, I'd dump her in a way in which I dont even leave room for explanations, just tell her I know, ask her not to bother explaining and remind her why I'm so great and how they should now go fuck themselves, be the one who got away man, she doesnt deserve you.
 
Phiba Optik said:
I don't have the heart to do it. That's why this bitch used me. She knows I work out and am a hard ass douchebag on the outside, but for her, I was always the nice one. I always forgave her, mistake after mistake, lie after lie.
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let me translate that...

she thinks you're a fucking pussy. She's cheating on you. She's always been cheating on you.

She's white, isn't she?
 
Phiba Optik said:
Hey thanks for the response! I will not fuck her friends, but not because I am a better man..its just that I dont want to be even more complicated than they already are. I feel like "why should i keep being the better man?" That's what got me here In the first place. I kept forgiving her and trusting her again and again and was always the better man, and that ended up getting me fucked over. I want to be the better man again, but something tells me that for once I should do it differently, just to show that bitch that a nice guy can be a fucking dick too.
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If you "be the better man" she will say to herself, "this is why I cheated on that pussy!"

If you don't "be the better man" and you fuck all her friends or do whatever else required to be a fucking dick, then she will say, "he's a fucking dick, so I am justified in everything I've done." She will also want you more than ever.

Whichever way you choose to handle it, at some point she will realize, "he was a great guy and I should have treated him better." She may never verbalize that to anyone, ever. Or she may tell you. Either way, it won't matter anymore to you, at all.

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ceo said:
If you "be the better man" she will say to herself, "this is why I cheated on that pussy!"

If you don't "be the better man" and you fuck all her friends or do whatever else required to be a fucking dick, then she will say, "he's a fucking dick, so I am justified in everything I've done." She will also want you more than ever.

Whichever way you choose to handle it, at some point she will realize, "he was a great guy and I should have treated him better." She may never verbalize that to anyone, ever. Or she may tell you. Either way, it won't matter anymore to you, at all.

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I <3 CEO but strongly disagree

You caught a bad one here, bro, but don't let it turn you into a suspicious, jaded, a-hole...

Be more cautious in the future but don't become one of those dudes who keeps his woman on a short leash... You will both be miserable.

Let us know how it turns out.

If you really wanna get back at her, PM some pics to the boys. I am shocked I am the first one to bring up nudes!
 
nangiggles said:
I've been married 2 years but we moved in for over 7 yrs now and I've never cheated, not even when shit has gone bad with no sex for months, sister's been with her guy almost 10 years, no cheating, cousin also 13 yers, no cheating, so we're still out there bro there are still committed and respectful women out there, gotta filter through some trash to find the treasure, dont let this woman set a precedent for future women :)


Be prepared for a TON of scenarios ranging from excuses, to fake tears/apologies, maybe a fuck it kinda attitude and she'll start pining her whorish behavior on you, etc, personally I couldnt walk out of the relationship with her thinking I dont know, I'd want her to know I know so she doesnt think she can get away with shit like this, I'd dump her in a way in which I dont even leave room for explanations, just tell her I know, ask her not to bother explaining and remind her why I'm so great and how they should now go fuck themselves, be the one who got away man, she doesnt deserve you.
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Hey I guess you and your family are a rare breed! In college I guess that's extremely hard to find. Maybe I mistook puppy love for something more serious. I was just a "boy toy" for her I guess. I'm bigger than all of the fucks she's in the photo's with, so I know it's not my physique that's lacking. To be honest, I don't know what it is. I guess it's in some people's nature to do shit like this. That bullshit filter/swifter is something that I wish I could have experienced. It would have been a great experience socializing with other women and sorting the "good" from the "bad" But I never got that oppurtunity. And now it's a more serious phase of my life. Getting my research published, going into professional school, working for a great company etc. and I feel these things will consume too much of my time to just go out and have fun. It's like some women can get an occasional "I love you" and they'd be content, where as for some women you can give them the world and in return they still come back and shit on you. I just have to channel my anger in the right direction and use it to my advantage and as a motivation.

In the end, a looser attracts only loosers. You can take a girl out the trash but you can't take the trash out the girl right? She won't find anyone willing to make a commitment, who is establishing himself like I am, and who fucks shit up at the gym! I want to get even better so that she can realize what she has done. I just feel too beat up right now to have that kind of motivation. Maybe time will heal it, or my emotions and feelings of isolation will eat me alive.

I just hope this tears and fake excuses bull shit doesn't come around when I am on pct...with clomid that might not work so well with me haha!
 
ceo said:
let me translate that...

she thinks you're a fucking pussy. She's cheating on you. She's always been cheating on you.

She's white, isn't she?
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Actually, I'm sure she knows that I would murder anyone of her scrawny fucks that she's been with! And she knows I was nice to her, and to her only. I don't show that side to anyone, including my close friends and family. Believe it or not shes not white haha!:D

And I have a hunch about the cheating thing, I think this shit has been going on for a long time now. I look at all the signs now and it just all falls into place. She's been at this for a while in my opinion. I don't think she was ever serious.


ceo said:
If you "be the better man" she will say to herself, "this is why I cheated on that pussy!"

If you don't "be the better man" and you fuck all her friends or do whatever else required to be a fucking dick, then she will say, "he's a fucking dick, so I am justified in everything I've done." She will also want you more than ever.

Whichever way you choose to handle it, at some point she will realize, "he was a great guy and I should have treated him better." She may never verbalize that to anyone, ever. Or she may tell you. Either way, it won't matter anymore to you, at all.
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I thought that, or the plan could back fire on me. If I fuck her friends, she might say "oh well you're a cheating dick too I don't want you." I was trying to get out of this shit and making sure the FULL blame fell on her pathetic ass. Besides, if shes like this, then I bet she attracts the same kind of skank slut friends that have been around the block. They can keep their stds, I'll keep my dignity! I will start being "normal" to her. No nice treatment, full dick mode! :raina:
 
Dont look at yourself to find why she did it, she did it because she wanted to and she's slutty, not necessarily your fault, you might have a small peener though, only pics would tell
 
whatever you do dont hit it raw one last time, I can almost guarantee you knock her up and then she's in your life FOREVER, LOL
 
Dont let her know that you found out..... Dump her,but try her for bareback anal first,you'll feel better.
 
i think you're putting way to much into this bro.

1st i doubt she really cares how big you get in the gym, so stop with the whole i am bigger than all the other guys stuff. not every chic wants a bodybuilder

2nd stop talking about this shit and just dump her ass
 
stevesmi said:
you have no business being in a commited relationship at your age. you are still in college. have fun and date around. you should be dating 3 or 4 chicks at one time in your spare time and focusing on finishing your education.

once you establish yourself in life and save up money, have a house, and a career/business in your 30's or 40's you can worry about getting married.. in 10 years you will look back and laugh at yourself for crying over this slut and wonder how you could of ever dated her in the first place. i guarantee she will have 3 kids by 3 different fathers..
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This right here!!
You are in college, this is supposed to be the time of your life. You should be dating too many girls that the weekends are not long enough.
Unfortunately it seems that your girl has figured that out and is already doing that. Its going to be hard to move on at first, but once you get past that bridge you won't look back. Just be glad it happened now and you still have some college life to experience.
 
- go to her place
- get her drunk
- fuck her in the ass
- wipe your dick on her curtains
- tell her it's been real, it's been nice but it hasn't been real nice
- get new girl(s)
- wash, rinse, repeat as required
 
To all the trolls, i've fucked her in her ass many times so thats out of the question. Pecker is not a 10 inch whopper, but I think she is fine with a 6.5 (7 possibly on a good day) inch cock. I think I may just treat her like shit and then maybe take her out to dinner with a bunch of her friends then dump that bitch.

I did post this on her facebook wall and her friends love it haha:

"You're like the first slice of bread, everyone touches it but no one wants it!"
 
Phiba Optik said:
To all the trolls, i've fucked her in her ass many times so thats out of the question. Pecker is not a 10 inch whopper, but I think she is fine with a 6.5 (7 possibly on a good day) inch cock. I think I may just treat her like shit and then maybe take her out to dinner with a bunch of her friends then dump that bitch.

I did post this on her facebook wall and her friends love it haha:

"You're like the first slice of bread, everyone touches it but no one wants it!"
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take them all out for drinks, buy rounds for them, then ask your girl outside for a second and dump her and leave, that way she has to go back to her friends embarassed and pay the bill :D
 
nangiggles said:
take them all out for drinks, buy rounds for them, then ask your girl outside for a second and dump her and leave, that way she has to go back to her friends embarassed and pay the bill :D
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I was thinking why stop at drinks? Why not treat everyone to a nice expensive dinner? Though the truth is, she won't have any trouble paying because she is very stable financially (parents got her back) and she works. Any other actual suggestions? Some of the assholes on here are trolling an suggesting bullshit. I need some real suggestions that will truly leave her fucked over! :mad:
 
Phiba Optik said:
I was thinking why stop at drinks? Why not treat everyone to a nice expensive dinner? Though the truth is, she won't have any trouble paying because she is very stable financially (parents got her back) and she works. Any other actual suggestions? Somee of the assholes on here are trolling an suggesting bullshit. I need some real suggestions that will truly leave her fucked over! :mad:
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You have her accounts info? Deflate her tires and report her phone and cards stolen

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Jettison her fucking ass.
In 5 years you wont give a shit and still be young as fuck in your 20's
 
Phiba Optik said:
I was thinking why stop at drinks? Why not treat everyone to a nice expensive dinner? Though the truth is, she won't have any trouble paying because she is very stable financially (parents got her back) and she works. Any other actual suggestions? Some of the assholes on here are trolling an suggesting bullshit. I need some real suggestions that will truly leave her fucked over! :mad:
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I'd show up at one of the parties when she's "studying".

I know it's a novel concept but you seem like a decent guy from your posts so why not just be straight up? Sit her down and tell her you saw her facebook, call it what it is, tell her what she's done to you and end it.

You seemed to be questioning leaving and making her pay is a pretty normal response but it just prolongs the pain of ending it. It's not worth it and I'd end it as soon as I could and start moving on.
 
^^ right. Think about it. If you take the high road she will feel guilty for what she did to you, and that guilt hurts way more in the long run. Imagine her with a bottle of vodka on the ground hugging a teddy bear crying years later...hahaha finding a picture of you and her asking herself "Why did I ever let him go?" hahahaha. If she remembers you as an asshole that will never happen. I wouldn't do the passive aggressive facebook status stuff either.
 
I find using the phrase "I'm really disappointed in your behavior, after all we've been through" usually helps with the guilt! ;)
 
Phiba Optik said:
I was thinking why stop at drinks? Why not treat everyone to a nice expensive dinner? Though the truth is, she won't have any trouble paying because she is very stable financially (parents got her back) and she works. Any other actual suggestions? Some of the assholes on here are trolling an suggesting bullshit. I need some real suggestions that will truly leave her fucked over! :mad:
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she's a girl (i.e., she has a vagina) and i'm guessing she's hot, or you woodn't boo-hooing about it, so, there's no way you're ever going to truly fuck her over...hot girls always land on their feet...success is the best revenge...dumbass...pay the receptionist at the door.
 
nangiggles said:
whatever you do dont hit it raw one last time, I can almost guarantee you knock her up and then she's in your life FOREVER, LOL
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fuck that! Hit it raw dawg one last time...in her ASS...with a baseball bat.
 
seriously though...just dump her and forget about her and move on as quickly as possible. Completely ignore her after you dump her. No calls, no facebook, nothing. If she calls, don't answer. If she messages, don't answer.
 
ceo said:
seriously though...just dump her and forget about her and move on as quickly as possible. Completely ignore her after you dump her. No calls, no facebook, nothing. If she calls, don't answer. If she messages, don't answer.
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TITCR

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ceo said:
seriously though...just dump her and forget about her and move on as quickly as possible. Completely ignore her after you dump her. No calls, no facebook, nothing. If she calls, don't answer. If she messages, don't answer.
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THIS IS EXACTLY WHAT YOU DO!

Make her dead to you. Instantly. Don't even give her an explaination...not even a hint as to why. Just do it, and tell nobody who might talk to her your reasons. Perfect dumping that will free you as fast as possible and leave her wondering wtf.
 
While your obviously upset over the whole situation, do not let her see that. If you come off as the good guy who just brushed it off and will be just as happy with out her, it will tear her apart, shell be begging you not to leave. Just put on that fake fucking smile and say things like, ya know I'm kinda glad I found the pics, I think we'd both be much happier apart! But we can still be friends :) I'm tellin you, this works every time
 
89% of relationships these days are destroyed by electronic discoveries such as this one.

And 82.3% of all statistics are made up.
 
Mike4705 said:
While your obviously upset over the whole situation, do not let her see that. If you come off as the good guy who just brushed it off and will be just as happy with out her, it will tear her apart, shell be begging you not to leave. Just put on that fake fucking smile and say things like, ya know I'm kinda glad I found the pics, I think we'd both be much happier apart! But we can still be friends :) I'm tellin you, this works every time
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I will try that but its really hard to when I feel like complete shit on the inside. But I am still on my test cycle so I feel like a god, but a sad god haha. Shit I will prolly be balls out crying during pct (clomid is a bitch).
 
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