My Youngest Daughter Brittany Wrote Back, Letter Enclosed

[vixenbabe]

You can tell she's your child...A real go getter for sure!

It's a wonderful start for you both!Comfort level will assure a great rapport in the future. She seems at ease in her writing to you!

Small steps will lead to giant leaps in the future!

 

[chesty]

I just wrote her back and in the last paragraph, tried to reassure her that what I did was because I love her and for no other reason. I hope she figures that out on her own. Maybe her parents will help (yeah right)

Bouncer, 8th grade here is the 12-14 year olds. She is 14 now and graduates this year and then on to highschool. My two older daughters are in Highschool, with the oldest turning 18 this year and graduating next.

I can't tell you how much I have missed out on and that I would give everything that I have to start over with her mom so that I would not miss out.

I would not wish this upon anyone that truly loves their kids. I don't know how people can do this just because they dont' want them. But when you do this because you love them and feel no other way out, it is like committing suicide. You die inside. You know you are doing the right thing (you hope so anyway) yet that does not comfort you. I have a whole in my life and it is on its way to being 1/3 filled. Soon to hope to have it completely filled.

 

[daemon]

Glad to hear she wrote back so quick. Congratulations!

 

[WODIN]

That was beautiful. She sounds like a great girl bro.

 

[casavant]

That's cool man. I think I'd cry. No kidding. Best of luck to you.

 

[HighIntensity]

Chesty,

We have never spoken on the board, but reading that brought tears to my eyes. I do not know your sit. but I can tell your a stand up guy. I can't wait to have little ones of my own, life is a long journey...this can be a second chapter for you.

best of luck

 

[chesty]

It is going to be a much better life in the 3rd and 4th quarters than the first two. I can't wait. Hope my other two write back as well, good or bad. At least that is a start.

 

[bouncer]

Chesty I truely hope thing work out for you and your children.
14 year's of age, well my two children are just 6 and 10, so I can't relate to having a 14 year old daughter. My daughter Sinead is 6 but thinks she's 14, lol.

Honest to god Chesty she sounded like a little girl trying her best to be a good girl for her dad. It must be a very exciting time for you both.

I honestly wished I could put into words my thoughts and wishes for you both.
God Bless.

Bouncer

 

[chesty]

Thanks brother, the real shocker will be seeing my 17 and 16 year old They haven't written yet, but I am hoping they will.

 

[Immortal Juicer]

i dont know anything about your background with your daughter but reading that letter brought tears to my eyes.

congradulations. just be there for her. she must be very confused and she is at a confusing time of her life. tell her how you feel and let her control the pace of the relationship.

whats in the past is the past. its never too late to form a relationship.

i'm happy for you, bro!