My S.O. is concerned with my health...

[itlnstln]

This thread is so "odd" to me - but I guess that's just cause' each of us is different.

If I was you I would tell her what you have been doing, and tell her that you kept in from her cause' you couldn't find the right way to tell her. Tell her that you were "never" planning on hiding it from her ,cause your relationship, (and more importantly) - SHE - means WAY MORE than anything you have going on with your body. Keep it simple - but from where I stand - it sounds like you care about you first, juice second, and "maybe" your girl third.

I told my fiance "FLAT OUT" a couple of months ago - I sat her down, gave her the facts on what I was doing, why I was doing it, how long I would do it, (all the specifics) - she doesn't want to hear about it on a daily basis, but I love my girl, and if she was totally against it - I would have ditched any future
cycle - (that's just me, and how much I care about my baby)

then again - maybe it does help that my finace grew up right across the street from Jay Cutler - so all she asks is I never get that big (and we all know THAT'S not gonna happen)

Bro - Make her feel like she is #1 (this shouldn't feel like a lie to you - if it does then the relationship is over anyway)

 

[SgtSlaughter]

I throughly agree with itlnstln... as long as she is worth it to you. It's a big decision as anything that is ever worth anything is such.

 

[anabolicfreak]

My girl and I were discussing it and she was concerned about the health effects too. Finally I just told her that I did them before I knew her, when I met her, and I am going to continue doing them although I appreciate her concern.

She told me that if I was going to do them then I had to get her some clen and anavar

 

[PolfaJelfa]

Always have some ammo on her. Like film her commiting a serious crime. Store this evidence in safe keeping. IF she doesent accept it i would kick it to the kurb.

 

[fbodyguy02]

This thread is so "odd" to me - but I guess that's just cause' each of us is different.

If I was you I would tell her what you have been doing, and tell her that you kept in from her cause' you couldn't find the right way to tell her. Tell her that you were "never" planning on hiding it from her ,cause your relationship, (and more importantly) - SHE - means WAY MORE than anything you have going on with your body. Keep it simple - but from where I stand - it sounds like you care about you first, juice second, and "maybe" your girl third.

I told my fiance "FLAT OUT" a couple of months ago - I sat her down, gave her the facts on what I was doing, why I was doing it, how long I would do it, (all the specifics) - she doesn't want to hear about it on a daily basis, but I love my girl, and if she was totally against it - I would have ditched any future
cycle - (that's just me, and how much I care about my baby)

then again - maybe it does help that my finace grew up right across the street from Jay Cutler - so all she asks is I never get that big (and we all know THAT'S not gonna happen)

Bro - Make her feel like she is #1 (this shouldn't feel like a lie to you - if it does then the relationship is over anyway)

itlnstln - AWESOME POST! Many of the replies to my thread were bashing me for my choice to keep it a secret. Thanks for understanding that "each of us is different".
I will definatly take the time to think this one over, but eventually I wil tell her...before I propose to her (planning to drop the question next year) I admire your honesty with your S.O.

 

[fbodyguy02]

Always have some ammo on her. Like film her commiting a serious crime. Store this evidence in safe keeping. IF she doesent accept it i would kick it to the kurb.

Note taken!

 

[PolfaJelfa]

I would be honest from the start. Thats the best way. Just make sure the ammo is there so there is no funny business if yall would ever break up. Good luck bro.

 

[itlnstln]

itlnstln - AWESOME POST! Many of the replies to my thread were bashing me for my choice to keep it a secret. Thanks for understanding that "each of us is different".
I will definatly take the time to think this one over, but eventually I wil tell her...before I propose to her (planning to drop the question next year) I admire your honesty with your S.O.

hey - I'm not here to ever "intentionally" pass judgement - you're a good guy - if you weren't you wouldn't even bother wasting your time posting this dilemma - you'd just say "fuck-it".

Just know this - if this girl is the "one for you" - and you are planning on spending the rest of your life with her - BE HONEST with her - totally honest, and don't listen to anyone telling you otherwise.............

Cause in the end bro....................it's just you and her - and none of these posts will mean shit.

 

[Maxx Out]

Tell her it's because your metabolism is very high right now (True statment). But, tell her it's because you've increased your cardio intensity and frequency of meals(?) Just an idea.... or that "new" fat burner on the market

Either come clean or use sgtslaughter's idea.

 

[J~Rock]

You love her to death-but not enough to quit using gear??? but not enough to be honest with her either? Who are you kidding???

Using roids behind her back makes her look like a fool in the same way as if she were sucking your best friend's cock nightly and everyone knows about it but you.

Just wait until the day the truth surfaces. When your secret life of steroids is exposed she will feel 10x more betrayed than if you told her today "tough shit bitch-I'm doing roids and if you don't like it go find some other pussywhipped geek that's willing to live his life by your set of rules" "Now get your uninformed roid hatin' ass in the kitchen and make me some pie!"

If that doesn't work, punch her in the kidneys. If she's still bitchin, then I'm sorry, but there's no hope for you two. Might as well dump her now.

If love is lying, lying by ommision, and being deceitful, let me never be loved.

Sorry to be so abrasive-but I hate seeing couples doomed to failure like yours. My guess is that you're in your mid 20's? You still have a lot to learn. Maybe an assraping divorce will wisen you up? Lies and deceit don't make for a good cornerstone in a relationship.

Try loving a girl that won't castrate you for being you-she will keep your interest a lot longer than her poon will.

Love is: a girl that will buy your gear or mule it across the border for you. And the best part is that once you've taken it, if you break up she can't ask for it back. If she gets caught coming across? Find a new gf. lol

Dr. Phil, I mean Big Cracker, that's actually some great advice in a twisted round-about way. If he tries your advice word for word, and it works, you should charge an outrageous price for saving his life in more ways than one.